Over 21 but never had a boyfriend or girlfriend

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hmm......I was rejected twice because I was shorter.

In a study they asked 100 women about if they accept to date a shorter men ...they all refused.

If you take a look on yahoo profiles or dating sites you notice that 95% of girls want the typical tall , dark hair , brun , muscled , 8 pack guy: an Alpha male.

This is unfortunately true. But not all girls on these sites are like that.

Nope, just the 95%.

I am 36 years old and never ever had a boyfriend. I think both sexes are equally shallow.

Finally some recognition. I am muscula 6 pack that show when I am hot. I have skills too. I just need to get over the truama. I knew it I am wanted bad too nervous.....

^^ the problem then is just ur atitude.

The problem is post tramatic stress disorder. Its mom fault she dragged me into her depression. She married two abusive guys both tried to kill her. I diagnosised her she makes trouble to distract herself from her depression caused by bipolar disorder. She is still doing it. Her friend are obnixous smelly perverts who are crippled. The guy says she is the only one who can call him a sorry excuse for a cripple. If I could make it go away I would have actual friends and girlfriends. It has driven me crazy I maid homicidal ideations on here to my mom. I was am still having a bad time although mood is elevated extremely most of the day. Sometimes I feal as though I could punch a hole through metal. You act like its my fault but really tramatic memories are to large to be stored away. Any event that is alike the one which driveing you nut will make you nuts. I even have pschogenic seizures. I lost my job cause of that type of seizure. Are you a genie can you make them leave me alone? Can you say abracadabra?" I was on paxil it does nothing. Morphine does nothing to me except cause tiredness and tripping. I let two girls go both wanted me at the same time.

Sorry, for me, isolation rules!

Florescent I for one believe you, and I know exactly what you mean when you talk about trauma. That would hold anyone back, and understandably so. It's nothing to do with your attitude.

I've been subjected to quite a few traumatic experiences in recent years myself. Don't know about now, but I certainly showed symptoms of PTSD (undiagnosed) in the past.

I too have been single all my life an i'm 19. I 've had plenty of girls I could tell liked me but every time I shy away from asking them the question. However i'm moving to a unit for young aspergers soon and this time If I get that feeling that someone is interested heck I'm not waiting around.

I think a big problem (from my knowledge) is that in our society its the guy who is meant to do all the asking out. Girls flutter out these subtle hints and expect you to jump all over them and put yourself on the line. Why dont girls go around asking guys out? I for one would like to see alot more of this.

well alex, u know it's the blimmin wimmins fault...! everyone knows that guys get cranky when they don't get enough sex...

Well, it's easy to see what you think about 100% of the time. It is not a turn on in the slightest. Maybe you could talk about something else?

say it like it is bro!! hear hear... and i remember reading just 2 days ago about TV series like sex & the city... where all the women talk about is penis size... women are so manipulated by the media and TV and everything else ... and they're so conformist.... if u come to dubai you'll see what i mean...!

i saw a movie last night called "(national lampoons) adam & eve"... it's gotta be the most stupid movie i've seen in my entire life.. it's the only movie i actually didn't want to see anymore after having seen half of it... so i turned it off

basically, there's this guy who likes this girl, and she's been holding out on him for about a YEAR! even she admits that she doesn't know why... so anyways this guy is understandably pissed and goes to a bar and gets piss drunk, where he gets taken advantage of by some other hot chick (whaddaya know, a typical shallow blonde)... so then this other girl finds out and she's raising hell....

and throughout ALL this, it's all HIS fault...! this is so stupid...! i vote we go back to the good old days when it was a mans world and men made all the decisions...! give me wars and senseless killing instead of all this sappy feminazi BS that's turning men into pale imitations of themselves...!

i'm just saying it like it is, and i'm sure that all the guys here agree with me...

i (and most aspies, i gather) just want relationships to be "open sourced" if you will... no more hidden mumbo-jumbo voodoo body-language crap please...! "maintain eye contact 60-90% of the time, no more no less"? no thanks!

the human race is quickly evolving into a peacock society... male peacocks are selected for their tails... the ones with the biggest and "most beautiful" and most cumbersome tails are selected by the females... now what happens when a predator tries to catch the peacocks? i imagine the ones with the smaller tails have the most chance of escaping....

women are selecting men on the most stupid criteria.... i think eventually humans will evolve into beautiful stupid people with large penises and big breasts, more meat for predators to chew on.

there's absolutely nothing wrong with how u feel, but unfortunately i don't think you'll ever find any woman like that in the real world... the odds are in your disfavour...!

maybe u can build ur body up and enter the pr0n industry.... i'm not kidding... seriously..! is it a respectable profession in norway? there's also the sex industry i suppose!