Fudo wrote:
men don't "need" women & vice versa.. but it can help. when i had feelings for someone i was noticeably more creative than my current state..
I would have to agree... when I have feelings for a woman I tend to be more motivated, willing to try things I normally wouldn't, and even start losing weight... The one time I had ever felt a woman offer feelings back to me, these things were intensified...
It's all about validation... if there's a woman that genuinely thinks that I'm "worth it", then I must be "worth it"... and then I don't feel so bad about feeling good... whereas if I feel good about myself for no good reason, that makes me a narcissist...