Modern Western sexuality

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Jonesh

I think your relationship was just out of sync. Eventually you felt the same way as her - but it was too late.

I had one bf who asked me if I loved him and I said not right now but I'm open to the idea that I might sometime in the future. He got really pissed off - he thought love should be like in the movies - an instant love-at-first-sight both people know if they love each other all at once together thing. Love or passion has never ever been that way for me. I'm always out of sync.

There was that, and the way he decided to show affection by putting me down and criticising me - that showed me over time that I couldn't love him or be with him long term. He needed someone who was very insecure all the time and submissive and I wasn't. I admired his ability to organise a party people would actually show up to and enjoy. I think he thought I was hot or something. blech.

Ermmm...'scuse me for stating the obvious but sex/pro-creation/populating the planet is actually what we're here for...

Loosen-up, have your own standards and morals, but have an open-mind about others too

Gay pride parade:



And modern trendy guys from Western nations: http://www.ratemybody.com/topguys_1.html

Of course there are similarities. Denying it due to some ridiculous need to get all defensive about this crap indicates that you feel some need for gay pride to be defended. I don't. I couldn't give a crap about it either way. I am simply capable of seeing obvious similarities.

Modern western sexuality views certain lifestyles in the context of "acceptable" and "unacceptable."
So by the definitions modern western sexuality has given us:

"Acceptable"
Guy + Girl
Guy + Himself
Girl + Herself
Guy + God
Girl + God

"Acceptable, but Borderline Unacceptable"
Girl + Girl
Girl + Girl + Guy
Guy + Several Girls

"Totally unacceptable"
Guy + Guy
Guy + Guy + Girl
Girl + Several Guys
Girl + Several Girls
Guy + Several Guys
Girl + Satan
Guy + Satan

wobbegong:
That seems like a good explanation, I also believe that love, if it really exists as a special feeling, is not a thing that happens over a moment or a few days/weeks. For me it would take at the very least a month or two to "fall in love" or whatever
I tried the whole like, "crush-thing" but it never turned out any good -_-' That's why I have tried to not to rush things with any girl or so.
I also can't really stand too much commitment at once, which always seems to happen to me. Yeah *whine*, but that's almost the only thing I can complain about.

People should be able to take whatever moral stand that they want, without being discriminated. But if we say that, we could very well be saying that people shouldn't starve or be poor.
In my opinion, a f*ckbuddie or two is ok if you don't have a significant other (but they may be OK with it or something, I don't know).
Being "fast" or having really many f*ckbuddies is really just too much and being unsafe is very uncool. Then you've got absolutely no respect for the other people and you pretty much deserve the STDs and/or unwanted pregnancy. Too bad about the other people who get fooled though, I don't think most people have unprotected sex with any kind of slut if they knew he/she was sleeping around. Then they wouldn't know if they're having unprotected sex with just them or everybody else.

I for one felt really slu*ty because I had sex on the first date -_-;;
It was great... But it went against my morals or something, y'know?

That's just my opinion anyways.
Also, if you can spot any grammatical errors and/or spelling errors, let me know please, I always try to improve my english ^^

-Jonesh the Swede

As much as that photo is supposed to be representative of gay pride, its not and is based around this ridiculous stereotype that all gay people are sexually promiscuous. That said, if you don't mean to offend people you should choose a better choice of words next time, especially in a discussion about morality.

The only problem I have with western sexuality is the shunning of those who are bigger than skinny. They pretty much have it driven into their heads by a certain age that they're ugly, no one would want to be with them, and have this reinforced by clothing companies who make crap clothes in larger sizes.

Sexuality is too much emphasized in the Western world.It belongs into a stable marriage and should be practiced with much love.It is a huge misuge what is going on!

I think as our societal rules and morals are going out the window people are really just giving in and doing whatever the heck they want. I have no idea how it's gonna work out aside from the fact that we have lots of baby moms walking arround, more highschools are going to need extensive daycare programs, many of them will probably drop out, and this is all exactly what we need - more taxes while good jobs in many areas of the U.S. are getting harder to find. Yeah, people argue that contraceptive education is important but when your in highschool how cool or socially acceptable is it really to use a condom? Do most of them use it consistantly?

On the idea of f***buddies though a lot of my friends have one or two, funny thing is a lot of these guys are also ladeling out childsupport for a son, 2 sons, and sometimes there giving out almost more than they're bringing in with their jobs. That's how people would rather doing thing though (at least untill the complications hit them and even then it may not phase em), its just our culture as it stands.