Relationships - What do you Love?

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In a relationship I also like for both of us to learn from each other, whether it be bad or good.

Hmm probably the connection/entertainment value. Having someone you can connect to on a different level, and who can really stimulate your mind and vice versa.

Video game/marathon movie sessions and sleeping with them, as long as they let me steal the covers.

-Faithfullness
-Understanding
-Morbid sense of humour similar to mine
-Killing creepy crawlies (mock me all you want, I'm not going near insects)
-Not fat (no offence to any fat people, but it's not attractive to me at all)
-Not bothered by staying indoors most of the time

Those are the most important things I want out of a relationship and I'd do my very best to reciprocate what she wants.

-Hugs
-Being able to have someone I can tell everything to
-Sharing goals or getting support for my own goals
-Relationship injokes
-Having someone to go to sleep with, I find it hard to go to sleep when I am on my own

the fact that my girlfriend at the time is there for me, cares for me, respects me, and makes me happy, and I return the same to her...

sadly I've not really experienced all of that

Caring for someone and not expecting anything in return, and wanting to do this above all else.

Things I love about my relationships... or rather, lack of them...

-I can pursue my interests without taking too much crap for it
-I'm not constantly getting into fights
-I'm not being manipulated or abused
-I'm not expected to fill any stupid roles which boyfriends/husbands frequently have to fill
-I'm not expected to waste loads of money just to show that "I care"
-I don't have to worry about the other person finding an excuse to break-up/divorce me
-I don't have to worry about whether I'm "good in bed" or not
-I don't have to worry about being cheated on

-The feeling of being loved

-Cuddling

-Sharing my thoughts with her

I could give more but I can't think right now