Going Out With EX tomorrow!! !

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I need activity ideas for tomorrow!! I asked him to go running with me, but he said he was free after 2pm which is a TERRIBLE time to go jogging in the HEAT of the afternoon....any other ideas as to what we could do instead????

Also, haven't seen him for a year so it's kinda awkward....how do I not seem so tense and nervous?!

What about a hike somewhere? It's not as strenuous as running. What did you guys like to do when you were together? Museum? Get ice cream and take a walk in a park?

This might not be my place to ask but, why are you going back out with your ex?

I personally like starbucks or a book store with a coffee spot in it... the books will be away to keep conversation going if it gets awkward and you can sit for hours in places like that and talk. After a year allot of talking and reopening communication I think would be important.

The hike thing would have been amazing, but seeing as I'm from Miami....that's a definite no-go. =\

We had a bad breakup and then "re-connected" last summer and we went out a lot, and the thing is that our families are really close, and....I don't really know. I mean, we just go out. LOL I'm not going to ASK him why either...even though I want to know too. lol.

Do a light sport activity, like a driving range at a golf park, a game of miniature golf, bowling, or billiards. It'll give you an activity to focus on, whenever there are awkward silences.

Just go to the movies or something silly and romantic.

Miami? Go for a walk on the beach and just chill and talk ! !

Well before considering ideas make sure you have a contingency plan in case things go wrong during the date. I recommend smoke bombs!

UPDATE: We went out to jog, but ended up just walking fast LOL around a really nice area here called The Grove.....nice shops, restaurants, and parks around, and it was really nice. We talked about all different things, and it was fun! Thanks for all your suggestions!!

But here's another thing I'm worndering....why do we go out still? As friends? Sure it's great, but then after summer vacation, he "forgets" about me and we don't talk until next summer.....it's just weird....why do we just pick up right where we left off?? What for? A few moments of happiness and fun? And then just to be forgotten a few months later?

don't go out with him!


damn, you already went out...

I think you must have realized now that he sees you as a friend, re-read your last post.

I don't see the point in seeing an ex again. Sure, I have an ex on Skype, but we chat very seldom.

If the time you do spend together makes you happy and makes you feel good and you can enjoy it without feeling like crap after. Just enjoy it. If it makes you feel bad or if you know when you leave him it's going to cause you to go into a depression, then you might want to resist the urge to have those times with him. Of course I'm not the best at taking my own advice.... but really take care of you.