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hello folks

i am 24, male, unemployed and very mournful. also a borderline alcoholic

interests include : music, politics, art , literature, film etc

favourite artists : gustav klimt , francis bacon, basquiat, jackson pollock

favourite music : suede, manic street preachers, the smiths, joy division, the pixies, dinosaur jr , smog, bonny prince billy, low, the velvet underground (i could go on forever here)

favourite films: naked, gummo, withnail and i, buffalo 66, la haine , bad lieutenant

fav writers: kerouac , bukowski, fante, burroughs


none of the above are that important really. just trying to paint myself in a more positive light i guess. i'm looking for someone kind and genuine. im looking for a girl or perhaps boy to give me tenderness and recieve tenderness in return. i'm feeling very alone in the world right now.

hi,

im noah. im a 30 yo graduate student at rensselaer polytechnic institute working towards my master of fine arts. i work with cyberntics and machine culture theory. im interested in prophecy, etiquette, memetics, and alot of other things. im hope to meet a nice girl around my age or younger. i do not have alot of trouble meeting girls in offline but im very frustrated because i feel misunderstood. i have not dated another aspie before and i think i need to because im unhappy with dating NT's right now. anyway, im a clean attracted handsome and charming man. i hope this doesnt sound creepy or cheesy or something, i dont know. haha. please contact me if you are in the north east and would like to chat online.

http://noahmarchal.net/noah11.jpg

*Deep breath. I started visiting this board after an Aspie I knew told me about his Asperger’s. You see, I held his opinion and values in high respect, and wanted to know more…..I felt the more I understood him, the better friend I could be. We continued to grow close over the months…..and eventually became intimate. There is a level of trust between us, neither of us has experienced with anyone else in our lifetime, of this I am certain. Well, s**t! What a f*****g mess. I feel so precariously close to losing a good friend (despite his protests).

Now remember I said I respect his values? I think honesty must be what he values most. So what does the SheDevil do? Hah! (Here comes what I feel is the fatal mistake, see I cannot analyze personal situations anywhere as objectively). I confess my feelings, I am falling and hard. Result: was told I am making a mistake, run fast and hard away from him. I know on some level he has feelings for me, but suspect expressing them is a problem. I may never know that level.

He appears to be maintaining the friendship, but not the intimate relationship. (We have not been together since). Even our discussions are firmly steered away from sex, which I do not get - there is no doubt in my mind a good time was had by all. If I didn’t know better, I would say he was using me. But I do not believe that. He had already steered away from this direction before my confession.

He is my best friend in the world, I cannot imagine not talking to him again. Yet at the same time, my heart is breaking. I am not capable of putting my life in compartments like he is – what do I do?

SheDevil
(who fears getting caught posting----->reason why not in the MB)

Tiger want tro see my pic? go to onthespectrum.com. Also try aspie affection. It won;t work on here for somereason. Go ahead, ask me what my coping strategies are for dealing with obnixous food cravings. Ask about how to maintain postive mood.

I am 26 year old female from California. I don't have an official diagnosis, but I am pretty sure I am an aspie. Instead of typing out my info...check out http://www.myspace.com/parallaxed Just looking for a friend or something more maybe. mostly to talk to people who know how I feel =)

thanks

I will take pics of my body with my shirt off.

Due to the vacancy recently created by the now ex-BF, I am posting the following

Re-advertisement.

Job Title: Boyfriend (or BF as you'll be known, if successful:)

Suitable applicants are invited to apply for the above mentioned vacancy. This vacancy has arisen due to a certain lady requiring attention from guys who DO NOT fall into the following categories: Typical NT males; Arrogant b*****ds; Users, abusers and liars; Guys wanting free sex (there is no such thing, so wake-up and accept the fact that if you are lucky enough to find a female who's willing to meet you half-way on this, be grateful, not greedy!); Guys strictly wanting to view me from afar (yes, I mean you pervy lot who just want to look at me naked, either on webcam or by requesting dirty pics of me...You know where the newsagents/video store is...Go pay for it like everyone else!).

Hours: Initially, working hours will be restricted mostly to the weekends, but will occassionally require working 24/7 ( the working week regulations DO NOT cover the hours required for this position) for the purpose of holidays ect...

Holidays: As long as you take the GF.

Location: Where and when required.

Reporting To: Girlfriend:) (GF)

Job Specification: The most important aspect of this particular vacancy is to, at all times, treat your GF with the love, attention and loyalty expected and deserved. This will, obviously, be returned as your GF knows how to treat her man:) The prospects for the right person are unlimited. This new and exciting role will continue to grow with the successful candidate.

Person Specification: You must have at least some of the same interests as the GF but applicants are most welcomed from candidates with a diverse range of interests/activities.

Essential Requirements: Great sense of humour; Inteligence; Clean; Fit; High sex drive; Sense of adventure; Spontanaety; Straight talking; Honest; Reliable.

Closing date June 15th, 2006. As a high number of applications are anticipated for this vacancy, only shortlisted candidates will be notified of any further interest by the GF. Therefore, if you do not hear anything by the end of June, please accept the GF's thanks for your interest, but assume that you have not been successful on this occasion. Your application will be held on file in view of any future vacancies, of which you will be informed.

To Apply: Send full CV, photo, brief description and covering letter to [email protected]

Previous applicants need not apply;)

(Amused snort)

well i guess ill give it a shot.

I'm 17 years old (male) living in Lincoln, England, I am 6'1 dark hair and brown eyes, half italian stallion and half plain boring english. I'm polite, good looking, get on with people well, and I'm so modest! I'd like to talk to girls 15-19 and learn more about what an aspie girl is like feel free to add me to msn, its [email protected] you MUST have a webcam, cos I will delete you if you dont, I've had my share of fakes adding me in the past

Hi every one... Hmm what to say here

I am 5 ,4 average build Female, 21... with long blonde hair. Seattle area...

Sorta single...

I am with someone for a time and he is moving away. We live together and So I am A lookng for a roomate to replace him (either in my room or in the spare room.) I don't need anyone to replace him I'm just seeing if there is someone that would want to.

I am not sure if I am A.S. or if there is anything wronge with me... I have alot of "Tail tell signs" so If you can handle my oddness and live with me Or if your not into the whole roomate thing I can always have more friends.

Anyway intrested in a pic, email me I'll email you and so on.

Clara, [email protected]

Almost average height (173 cm seems to be around 5'8") and build geek of male sex (and probably gender, too) living in Vienna, Austria, Europe previously mostly specialising in computers (unix stuff), not entirely bored by politics, recently also developing interest in philosophy, sociology and psychology (not much progress yet, though) looking for mainly female email contact or friendship, further details to be worked out. Glasses, long brown hair, facial (and body) hair negotiable ;) Judging from comments on the street, my resemblance with John Lennon becomes more pronounced, as opposed to the old Jesus image, which is fortunate as I don't believe in any kind of higher being. Follow the white rabbit for further visual and textual information.

What do I expect? Honesty, being able to talk about everything, common interests might be a plus. As is to be expected I'm not too good at small talk. Conjoint activity should happen in mutual consent divvying up the expenses (I know how I must sound).


My parent tongue is German, besides English I also know some French and Spanish (I'll spare you the dead/programming languages here).

Most of the time, I prefer alternative/arthouse movies, the local film festival Viennale and Votivkino tend to appeal. There are also some nice sitcoms from which to learn mainstream communication (Ellen, Roseanne were ok), and the odd Sci-Fi series can provide for some entertainment as well. I guess it would make me an outcast in this community that I like to go to the cinema with a friend/significant other, which is the reason why I rarely do.

Besides the usual CS textbooks I used to read mostly literary works (high-brow sci-fi, some fantasy (can't remember much from LOTR which I read when I was still in school, though), the odd classic ...), increasingly interspersed with texts on the interests above. Egalitarian, idealistic, honest, occasionally (ok, rarely) romantic.

If I don't turn down the fans and savour the quiescence, I occasionally like to listen to classical music, some alternative stuff (Ani Difranco) and almost anything else, provided it doesn't last for more than half an hour, unless preapproved (concert, album, significant other).

Likes to construct sentences too complicated for his brain, thus confusing and amusing all concerned. In short, a narrative waiting to mishappen. See inside for cardiologic data. No sports, at least ... never mind, hardly any cigars either, nor booze - I have savoured some non-alcoholic wines, though, and the sauvignon is quite nice. Will be tolerant if you are ;)

Name: Becky

Age: 17

Birth Date: May 18, 1989

Personality: Shy, Funny

Things She Likes:
Bunnies, people who make me smile, art, music, shinny thing

Things She Dislikes:
milk, fast food, People who judge other people with out getting to know them, People who dont know when to stop, people who are fake, people who lie, people who leave rude comments, people who are against gay/les/bi people, people who say "learn to spell" when they spell everything wrong, G.W.B, Spending more than 4 hours on homework, teachers that dont bother explaining things so that ull understand them, having no one to talk to, people who make fun of people in special ed, Being lonely, people who think they are perfect, being depressed

Looking For:
A sweet person who will make me smile. One who will never give up on me. A person who will try to understand me. Looking for a person who can help sovle problems when they get hard. Someone who doesn't care about distance. And so one who is will to get to no me first and love me for me.

Picture:
http://img242.imageshack.us/img242/5650/00003234bz.jpg

Well I'm a man. Age 19.

I'll enjoy any thing of the other person. Well I'm not really good at this anymore. I'm a novelist. I love to write science fiction and fantasy. I'm a big final fantasy fan. I enjoy playing video games mostly Role Playing Games. I need to work on my patience but overall I'm loving. I tend to get a little clingy. I am gentle, my caring needs a lot of improvement but I'm able to care. I tend to focus all my self on the other person. I'm very compassionate. If any girl is getting picked on I'll stand up for them. I try to give the other person all of my self. I enjoy tigers as well. I'm a nice guy.

Age: 19
Sex: Male (sry guys ^^)
height: 5 feet 2 inches
eyes: Blue/Green
hair: Dark Brown
build: athletic
looks: Average
best feature: brain
perfect first date: 00/00/00
Location: notts, uk

from my past relationships i learned: People are evil

five things i can't live without: breathing, eating, sleeping, eating, exercise

in my bedroom you will find: a bed, a sink, me and a computer

ideal match: Someone who is not over confident and full of themselves, someone who is real, someone with weird obsessions.

Are you a man or a woman? You didn't mention either way in your entry.