What does your ideal fantasy partner look like?

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He would be close to the same height as me, have long black hair, and basically be prettier than me.
Funny is a plus, and bubbly is even better. He'd like to stay home and keep himself pretty rather than work very hard.

Basically...a kept man.

That is what I thought.

But having a kind, caring man who needs me and loves to cuddle right now is better than the silly fantasies I keep in my head about a man who probably doesn't even exist, and even if he did, I probably wouldn't stand a chance with him. I even wonder...if I got such a man, would I still want him after I got him?



Deep thoughts.

I'll start by saying that I have no idea.

What types of women do grab my attention from across the floor and do I get electric back from? Usually its the types who are both attractive and seem to have some amount of geek/musician/artsy in their DNA, not that they always even necessarily will be but its something that seems to steer their style, their emotional reception to things, etc.. I think this is where outward appearances do mean something, genetics really do guide a lot of what we are at a core level and when you meet people who are hard disinterested, if you got to know them better the feeling would quite likely be mutual.

For whatever reason though I tend to like fine featured, thin, and elegant, especially with a bit of something dark or mysterious (like depth) showing in little ways. If I can see something radiating from her eyes like she has a different kind of core to her than most people have, especially if it points at a lot of interesting layers - I'm there.

I guess I forgot to put down my ideal fantasy partner.

Ummm....I have more than one and they all look so different from eachother, so they're too hard to explain. I still haven't figured out what they all have in common besides not being morbidly obese or too old.....

I've done some drawings and doodlings of them but they're not all that great imo.

Peri Gilpin (Roz from Frasier)

white girl.. or mixed race..

Blonde or brown hair..

Any colour eyes..

An American accent like Ohio, California or Washington.. (im english so It turns me on hahaah)

Chubby...

not so tall.. (because im not that tall) haha

dark eyes

This is going to be a hard one...

My dream girl: is someone who is:

-an extremely high functioning Aspie
-a virgin
-someone who abstains from smoking or drinking (binge drinkers and potheads need not apply)
-a brunette (blondes need not apply, [s]but you're not going to anyway,[/s]I'll make exceptions)
-spunky
-belly button pierced (why do I care about this one so much I don't know, but I think they're cute on girls)
-partially Eastern European for good measure
-college educated parents
-face of a angel
-appreciates my taste in music and can see eye to eye on my tastes
-dad won't try to shoot me
-and a bunch of other crap (do ask me please!)

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY ABOVE ALL, someone who cares about me unconditionally.

um idk pale skin, black hair, bright light blue eyes, the kind that shine without light, about 5'7, good body, not too thin, but not even chubby, just the right size i guess, sweet romantic a little crazy, but not too much, smart, good sense of humor(sarcastic), sad thing is i know her shes my friend, but ive had this picture in my head since years before i met her. had a painfully strong crush on her for the longest time too

Two things:

They love me unconditionally.
They are emotionally/intellectually "deep" so I can connect with them on that deeper level. Without that deeper connection our relationship can only be superficial, and I cannot feeling attracted to them anyway. Most people aren't (even though many think they are).

Right now, I don't care what she looks like, as long as she has a nice ebody.

A cross between Aria Giovanni, Erica Campbell, Sophia Loren and lots of the cuter Mediterranean/Desi women I see/have seen/known in the past

And the irony is that I am part Swedish and yet that kind of look does not interest me at all!

Mellow and calm. Comforting. Brown eyes that give the perception of infinite soulful depth...
I actually met a girl like that once. Shame we're in different schools now.

Redhead or brunette...I'm a sucker for redheads

Does not smoke AND does not drink

Will love me and I love her unconditionally

Intellectually deep without sounding like an exaggerator

Physically fit, maybe a medium/athletic build

Hates sarcasm, but has a sense of humor I can understand

Sexy-cute face

Not too chatty, but can carry a conversation

Somewhat of a vegetarian

Any eye color

Has perception of infinite emotional depth