Why do women always like to mess with guys?

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I have come to the conclusion that God must be right, after trying all my life and failing at finding someone special, God must mean for me to be alone. I have accepted it. I don't like it. So this means I have nothing to lose. I have few questions to the so called ladies out there.

1. Why do you think its acceptable to lie to guys? Saying you want to be friends when you really want nothing to do with them? If you tell someone you want nothing to do with them, they will leave you alone. If you tell someone they just want to be friends the implies you still want to hang out and do things with them, but then the women gets upset when the guy wants to do these things.

2. Why do women like to continue to lie to guys even when we tell you straght up please don't lie? I had a female friend lie to me to use me so I could pick her up from the airport. I wanted to hang out with her at least once before I took her to the airport, she said she was busy. I asked her straght up if it was because she was seeing somone. I did not care about her romantally. She still said she was not but after she told me she was seeing someone.

Its is womens fault for all the misunderstanding between men and women. No wonder some guys like to shot up places where women are. Rejected all there life, lied too. No wonder people do these things. I am not saying its right but I understand.

Do you women get some kind of power trip screwing with guys? Why do you always like to cause men stress and heartache?

AND when we ask you "whats wrong" you reply with "nothing" but there is an obvious problem.

And we we see you are upset and ask whats wrong, you say "you know what you did" when we have no idea what you are talking about, women expect guys to be mind readers.

morbid entertainment value, we're a cruel contemptuos breed, and as women we have eachother's games figured out so we need some unwhitting subject to run our "scores" on.....

seriously though don't even ask... I'm a woman and I don't even understand the working of our minds nor how women can stand an eight hour work day in heels.

Yay, yet another mysogynistic rant.

The reason a lot of women say 'lets be friends' is because of psychos who shoot up places or who throw hissy fits when rejected. If you're physically weaker, or just trying to avoid a tantrum, then it's in your best interests to 'sugar-coat' things whilst you make your escape.

'let's be friends' is a pretty old tactic. Most people have learnt what it means by now, and it is used by men as well as women. It's usually considered more polite than 'I never want to see you again'.

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I would imagine there are just as many females who would like to ask the same of males.
I can assure you, there are just as many females who have been lied to, screwed with, cheated on and generally abused, by men.

Maybe it's because women are more emotionally intelligent than men so they feel they have the upper hand to try to control things.

I have never connected well to other women, I think it is because I lack social/ emotional intelligence.

I have been hurt badly, and lied to, by both men and women. But perhaps women, in intimate relationships with men especially, have the upper hand in emotional intelligence and domineer accordingly.

Yeah!

These are just the generalizations that lead you to flawed logic, not all women are like that sure you will find some that are like that who cares? move on there not worth your time, I am sure as soon as you find one that doesn't mess with you your tune will change quick. Just my two c's

I agree. The "let's just be friends" thing is a woman's polite way of saying "I'm not interested in you like that". Many women also don't like being confronted, or put on the spot either, and this is their easy way out of the situation. That being said, there are still a lot of guys out there that don't get it though. I think an honest, but polite response would be much better.

I've never tried them on but in a practical sense they look like something of a medieval torture device - an expensive one at that!




Its just sad when that intelligence comes at direct sacrifice of wisdom though. When things come too easy though a person's greatest talents simultaneously become their curse. Its a bit like peeling around recklessly in a Nissan GT-R or a 1000 cc sport bike.

(edit: grammatical fix)

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I agree.

KenM I find your posts sexist at the least, and offensive at the most. This really is the last straw. After my heart being ripped out and chewed up by men, being sexually assulted when I was 22 and general pig headed treatment from men this thread has made me really REALLY f*****g angry.

Women are not the devil, and men are not saints! Stop being so GODDAMN sexist!

I'm reporting this thread.

It's easy to fall into this sort of sexism when you feel rejected by women. It's generalization, but there are certainly women, and probably men though I've never met one, who play these sorts of mind games. But even if there is some basis in truth, it's no better than claiming all aspie guys are creeps, even though sadly some of us are seen that way.

lol.

"Some basis on truth"

It's the unsaid truths that bother me. Ken M is completely blind to the fact of what scumbags men can be. I'm sick of him posting this sort of one sided, generalised, sexist s**t.

Yeah women can be awful, so can men. Anyone with half a brain knows this.

KenM, I used to be mysogenic too; extremely mysogenic. But I've finally met a female that destroyed all of my evil beliefs about women; and she is now my friend. NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!! ! There are very nice, kind, loving women out there that will not play games like that. Unfortunately, like most men, they are not very common. You have to keep digging among the rocks until you find that diamond, so to speak metaphorically. But it is not fair to attack all women just because some are evil and malicious like that. And Hale Bopp, I'm terribly sorry to read about that. I myself was sexually abused by a female babysitter (she was 14) when I was 9; I can only try to sympathize and relate. Please, understand that not all men are evil malicious beasts out to take advantage whenever and wherever they can. I hope that you have better luck out there, both of you.

I don't know why anyone would answer these so called "questions". They're just meant to invoke a reaction and garner attention negative or otherwise.

Men lie to guys just like women, I actually had a friend and knew his gf and he told me flat out he was going to cheat on her because it was long distance. While telling her he loved her and wanted to be with her.

Also if you weren't interested in her romantically what business was it of yours if she was seeing someone or not. You aren't her boyfriend or romantic interest.