I don't this is working out......

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I find myself wondering if there is anyone here that can really help me with my plight. I really tired of being alone when all these really bad people are hooking up. Why am I destined to be alone? I don't understand it. What have I done wrong to deserve this. Yes I know you were trying to help before with my last post but it really didn't help that much. To honest my situation is a still worse than I said and all because of some very hateful people. I did nothing wrong and now I am being punished for simply existing. My parents are no help at all and constantly tell me to just concertrate on my studies but I can't, I don't love studying, I loath it actually because I can remember facts like nothing. I feel alone but I suppose I am not miserable to the extent of sucide. I am just not in any kind of "geographical position" to meet the people that I want to meet. The kind of people that I want in my life.

Honey, you sound depressed. I'm not saying you don't have reason to be, but if you are depressed, it may be playing a role in preventing you from taking the kind of action that may improve your situation.

So, my first suggestion is to find a shrink, and talk about your possible depression. If you are depressed, then get treatment and/or therapy to address the depression. When you've dealt with that (which you may be able to do pretty quickly), take a look at the other thread, and think about following some of that advice.

It may be that you need to radically change your life. Look, kiddo - nobody - Aspie or NT, gets happiness handed to them. There are lots of people out there who feel disconnected, lonely, isolated - and feeling that way sucks. But this is a problem you need to solve - your parents can't do it, I can't do it. You've got to take a hard look at your life, and figure out what you can do differently. If you're not in a place where you're meeting the kind of people you want in your life, then where are those people? You may need to go to where they are, and you may need to make major changes in your life in order to do that. You need the willingness to take some risks, because while you may be safe and risk-free where you're at, you're obviously not happy. I'm not suggesting you behave recklessly - just be open to looking at your life very differently, and make a plan to get where you want to go. Good luck.