At what age did you lose your virginity?

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What age

Under 14	7%	[ 20 ]
14-16	10%	[ 28 ]
16-18	19%	[ 57 ]
18-20	21%	[ 63 ]
20-22	13%	[ 39 ]
22-24	10%	[ 28 ]
24-26	6%	[ 17 ]
26-28	4%	[ 11 ]
Above 28	11%	[ 31 ]

Total votes : 294

Jak
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19 Dec 2009, 7:36 pm

I lost my v-plates at 14 and for the record, there is no shame in being a virgin at all. I think it's pretty cool.

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19 Dec 2009, 7:43 pm

Jak wrote:

I lost my v-plates at 14 and for the record, there is no shame in being a virgin at all. I think it's pretty cool.

It's not that there's shame in the virgin status itself, it's just that most people that are virgins well into their 20s in the modern world are either nerdy losers who can't find anyone (like me), or are saving it for marriage (which may indicate a fundamentalist of some kind, but not always)...

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21 Dec 2009, 6:56 pm

16 with 2 women. Completely changed my idea of what a happy relationship is/was.

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23 Dec 2009, 5:03 am

Jak wrote:

there is no shame in being a virgin at all. I think it's pretty cool.

I agree but unfortunately, most other people tend to equate being an adult virgin with being a loser.

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24 Dec 2009, 12:15 am

I haven't yet.

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24 Dec 2009, 1:23 am

I was 17 almost 18, he was 26. My last words as a virgin though were "I don't think it's going to fit".

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24 Dec 2009, 2:38 am

Haven't, and I don't think I will, really.

28 here

Which is about right for someone with HFA from everything I've read, barring outliers.

I'm a waste of good looks and a large...you know.

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24 Dec 2009, 8:29 pm

I lost mine at 14 because I didn't want to go into HS a virgin. The guy I did it with was going into the army after HS and I wanted to give him something to brag about when he went. Saw him a year later and he married his GF after me.

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24 Dec 2009, 9:24 pm

I'm 18 and unfortunelately I'm still a virgin I was about to lose virginity to a girl but she didn't turn up and plus she wanted me to and I'm scared of sex :oops:

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28 Dec 2009, 7:32 am

:oops: :oops: It was at 17 but it was not that good.... too nervous... first time sucks....

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31 Dec 2009, 7:35 pm

I was 14.
It lasted about two minutes and wasn't a particularly romantic nor amazing experience.
Oh well, at least it was amusing.

BongSao
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01 Jan 2010, 2:17 am

17! just like Chef said haha

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01 Jan 2010, 2:59 am

I was 17 and at a party.

A friend of mine put a joint in my shirt pocket and said, "Go smoke this with Tish..."

I did and then she smoked me. We had an occasional freinds with benefits thing for a couple of years.

I didn't have a proper girlfriend or romantic sex until I met my future exwife at 22.

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