10 Jan 2010, 7:51 pm
CaroleTucson wrote:
My first post ... 
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I think you look attractive, well judging from your avatar. I know I'm attractive, but I have no car and no job and live in Baltimore. Most the girls around here are ignorant and all they want to do is drink and smoke and you can't trust them.
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10 Jan 2010, 8:38 pm
10 Jan 2010, 8:53 pm
Shiznown wrote:
CaroleTucson wrote:
My first post ...
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I know I'm attractive.
Um...
10 Jan 2010, 9:28 pm
therange wrote:
Shiznown wrote:
CaroleTucson wrote:
My first post ...
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I think that some parts of me are attractive, other parts not as much. I think I have nice hair, legs, hands ... but don't much care for my bum, my lips. Etc., etc.
I've realized over time that I largely base those perceptions on the reactions I get from men ... those parts of me that they notice the most, I figure, must be the attractive parts. I find it very hard to tell, on my own. Which is funny because I have definite ideas about what I find attractive in other women. It's just me that I have a hard time knowing about.
A logical extension of this idea is that I tend to emphasize those parts of me that I think men are the most interested in. I spend a lot of time making sure my hair looks good, for instance, and I tend to dress in a way that lets me show lots of leg.
This has become so ingrained that I scarcely notice it anymore.
I know I'm attractive.
Um...
Um what?
11 Jan 2010, 1:30 am
AJCoyne wrote:
Learning2Survive wrote:
Do you feel unattractive?
Physically: No
Emotionally: Yes
Mentally: Yes
That's my short answer, anyway.
do i feel UNattractive?
physically: yes(being on seizure control meds did a very good job of puitting extra pounds on my gut and drove my sex drive so down the toilet i do not desire it - but if i had a 8-9'' bulge in my pants - women would want me for that alone and not for my teddybear of a personality
).
emotionally: yes (because women can smell that my wiring is off being both epileptic and an aspie).
mentally: yes - but that is too long a story for this small amount of space.
11 Jan 2010, 1:33 am
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Wouldn't say physically unattractive, body language and facial expressionality though - somewhat less than helpful.
As far as imaging myself with a woman in the long term, depends on the personality. I know what kinds/varieties of personalities that I can usually work things out with (usually intelligent/self-assured/altruistic/analytical are on the table as major traits), she has to be someone who can see to the bottom. The trick at 29, working a travel job, etc. just seems to be venue - that and eharmony did a great job of helping me find cool girls but unfortunately the physical attraction has never been there.
As far as imaging myself with a woman in the long term, depends on the personality. I know what kinds/varieties of personalities that I can usually work things out with (usually intelligent/self-assured/altruistic/analytical are on the table as major traits), she has to be someone who can see to the bottom. The trick at 29, working a travel job, etc. just seems to be venue - that and eharmony did a great job of helping me find cool girls but unfortunately the physical attraction has never been there.
eharmony did a wonderful job [comment removed by lau] because they could not even match up an aspie with a seizure condition. hate them to pieces
11 Jan 2010, 1:51 am
11 Jan 2010, 6:51 am
12 Jan 2010, 7:10 pm
Most the girls around here are ignorant and all they want to do is drink and smoke and you can't trust them.
Location irrelevant my friend.
As the 40 year old virgin said when NT's asked him if he was gay quote:
No I love woman I really do that's why I stay away from them
13 Jan 2010, 2:25 pm
aussiebloke wrote:
Most the girls around here are ignorant and all they want to do is drink and smoke and you can't trust them.
Location irrelevant my friend.
As the 40 year old virgin said when NT's asked him if he was gay quote:
No I love woman I really do that's why I stay away from them
Location irrelevant my friend.
As the 40 year old virgin said when NT's asked him if he was gay quote:
No I love woman I really do that's why I stay away from them
What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].
13 Jan 2010, 2:28 pm
Shiznown wrote:
What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].
Look for the exceptions
13 Jan 2010, 2:36 pm
Salonfilosoof wrote:
Shiznown wrote:
What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].
Look for the exceptions
to me - women who care more about [comment removed by lau] and bank balance - and do not care about the guy himself - to me qualify as [comment removed by lau].
13 Jan 2010, 2:41 pm
lewdi28792 wrote:
Salonfilosoof wrote:
Shiznown wrote:
What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].
Look for the exceptions
to me - women who care more about[removed by lau] and bank balance - and do not care about the guy himself - to me qualify as [comment removed by lau].
Again.... Look for the exceptions
Also.... to know your penis size they already need to have been in your pants.... so I don't see why that's so much of an issue
13 Jan 2010, 4:49 pm
Salonfilosoof wrote:
Shiznown wrote:
What if you love women (as in females with class and a nice personality) but [comment removed by lau].
Look for the exceptions
Oh, I have been. Seems all the decent ones are taken, except maybe this one woman, that I kind of have a thing for. Unfortunately I don't see her that much.
13 Jan 2010, 4:52 pm
13 Jan 2010, 4:59 pm
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