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07 Jan 2010, 3:33 am

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Is it helpful for you to undercut other people's happiness? It seems to me that it would be a better use of bandwidth to post to the Haven and find some support, rather than detract from someone else.

It depends on whether the detractor's primary goal really is to undercut seanmw's happiness, or if that's merely the byproduct. Yes there are some who complain to try to make a person feel like trash, but there are others who are also providing ample warnings to seanmw that it is possible that this relationship will for whatever reason at all not work out. The OP has been all full of bubbly happiness, and that's fine and dandy and he has my congrats, but don't dismiss those who warn you as simply jealous or sadistic or anything like that. It's an internet relationship, and as has been mentioned in the past, that relationship has the potential to change very significantly once that relationship becomes a face-to-face one. The OP is also very young, so who knows how this relationship will work out? Seanmw, you're definitely optimistic, but realist? That remains to be seen, I think. No matter how the relationship turns out, it'll be a definite learning experience.

Definitely agree with amazon_television, although I don't get the "Spike" references. :mrgreen:
Oh, i am pretty realistic. I know very well it might not work out & i've come to terms with that.
but optimistically i look on the good side and say that even if it doesn't, i at least had a good run of it, and for some period of time however brief didn't feel worthless.

As opposed to having never met her and still being depressed 24/7.

Oh, and btw i verified she's real. I called her today. Or rather, my cell phone accidentally called her number in my pocket, and suddenly i heard voices coming from my pocket so i answered back :lol: .


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11 Jan 2010, 12:32 pm

Seanmw wrote:
Stinkypuppy wrote:
visagrunt wrote:
Is it helpful for you to undercut other people's happiness? It seems to me that it would be a better use of bandwidth to post to the Haven and find some support, rather than detract from someone else.

It depends on whether the detractor's primary goal really is to undercut seanmw's happiness, or if that's merely the byproduct. Yes there are some who complain to try to make a person feel like trash, but there are others who are also providing ample warnings to seanmw that it is possible that this relationship will for whatever reason at all not work out. The OP has been all full of bubbly happiness, and that's fine and dandy and he has my congrats, but don't dismiss those who warn you as simply jealous or sadistic or anything like that. It's an internet relationship, and as has been mentioned in the past, that relationship has the potential to change very significantly once that relationship becomes a face-to-face one. The OP is also very young, so who knows how this relationship will work out? Seanmw, you're definitely optimistic, but realist? That remains to be seen, I think. No matter how the relationship turns out, it'll be a definite learning experience.

Definitely agree with amazon_television, although I don't get the "Spike" references. :mrgreen:
Oh, i am pretty realistic. I know very well it might not work out & i've come to terms with that.
but optimistically i look on the good side and say that even if it doesn't, i at least had a good run of it, and for some period of time however brief didn't feel worthless.

As opposed to having never met her and still being depressed 24/7.

Oh, and btw i verified she's real. I called her today. Or rather, my cell phone accidentally called her number in my pocket, and suddenly i heard voices coming from my pocket so i answered back :lol: .


just make sure she is on some kind of birth control before you 2 get naked and she gets on top of you :Pjavascript:emoticon(':twisted:')



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12 Jan 2010, 2:56 pm

lewdi28792 wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
Stinkypuppy wrote:
visagrunt wrote:
Is it helpful for you to undercut other people's happiness? It seems to me that it would be a better use of bandwidth to post to the Haven and find some support, rather than detract from someone else.

It depends on whether the detractor's primary goal really is to undercut seanmw's happiness, or if that's merely the byproduct. Yes there are some who complain to try to make a person feel like trash, but there are others who are also providing ample warnings to seanmw that it is possible that this relationship will for whatever reason at all not work out. The OP has been all full of bubbly happiness, and that's fine and dandy and he has my congrats, but don't dismiss those who warn you as simply jealous or sadistic or anything like that. It's an internet relationship, and as has been mentioned in the past, that relationship has the potential to change very significantly once that relationship becomes a face-to-face one. The OP is also very young, so who knows how this relationship will work out? Seanmw, you're definitely optimistic, but realist? That remains to be seen, I think. No matter how the relationship turns out, it'll be a definite learning experience.

Definitely agree with amazon_television, although I don't get the "Spike" references. :mrgreen:
Oh, i am pretty realistic. I know very well it might not work out & i've come to terms with that.
but optimistically i look on the good side and say that even if it doesn't, i at least had a good run of it, and for some period of time however brief didn't feel worthless.

As opposed to having never met her and still being depressed 24/7.

Oh, and btw i verified she's real. I called her today. Or rather, my cell phone accidentally called her number in my pocket, and suddenly i heard voices coming from my pocket so i answered back :lol: .


just make sure she is on some kind of birth control before you 2 get naked and she gets on top of you :Pjavascript:emoticon(':twisted:')
oh, she is, i already asked her :)
& even if she weren't i sorta know her period schedule so i could pick a day when i know for sure she couldn't possibly get preggers anyways (like all last week for example). & on top of all that i got some condoms too if i need them.


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13 Jan 2010, 1:25 am

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even if she weren't i sorta know her period schedule so i could pick a day when i know for sure she couldn't possibly get preggers anyways (like all last week for example).


Don't believe for one moment that this particular approach is reliable. Perfect-use of calendar methods can still have a failure rate of almost 10%--not the kind of odds you want to be playing.


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13 Jan 2010, 2:36 am

visagrunt wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
even if she weren't i sorta know her period schedule so i could pick a day when i know for sure she couldn't possibly get preggers anyways (like all last week for example).


Don't believe for one moment that this particular approach is reliable. Perfect-use of calendar methods can still have a failure rate of almost 10%--not the kind of odds you want to be playing.
well, i wouldn't exactly push my luck if i were going to do that anyhow. Like there's approximately a 2-week window before the next ovulation, but if i were even going to use that method, i'd prolly only employ it the first week & use a condom during the latter week and the rest of the month just to be sure.


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13 Jan 2010, 2:40 am

Wow man good for you congratulations for real. You sure traveled though I probably wouldn't have went out of state to meet somebody.



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13 Jan 2010, 3:03 am

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Wow man good for you congratulations for real. You sure traveled though I probably wouldn't have went out of state to meet somebody.
wellll, haven't traveled yet, but planning on it.


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13 Jan 2010, 6:37 am

... I expected to come back after leaving this thread for a while and see you crying that it didn't work out or that "she" was a man. Still, keep working on it, if you're willing to travel out of your state for this then good luck to you.



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13 Jan 2010, 11:11 am

I don't know that I would advise physical activity so soon in the relationship - but if it does happen, do wear the condom. No birth-control method is 100% effective (not even abstinence - just ask Jesus' mom! :) ), but combining methods does reduce the incidence of failure significantly.


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13 Jan 2010, 12:15 pm

Condoms aren't just for birth control, they're also to avoid getting STD's.


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13 Jan 2010, 12:28 pm

just a little general FYI - i have a medical related associates degree - and one thing i have learned is that one of the best times to make love to a woman is right on and during her period - it may be a little messy and bloody - but that is also when she is the HORNIEST - and the orgasms she has during it work as a natural pain killer - they work as a natural pain killer because they help take away the pain from menstural cramps.



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13 Jan 2010, 2:06 pm

Avarice wrote:
... I expected to come back after leaving this thread for a while and see you crying that it didn't work out or that "she" was a man. Still, keep working on it, if you're willing to travel out of your state for this then good luck to you.


Well as of now she's still an internet girlfriend.



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13 Jan 2010, 2:40 pm

therange wrote:
Avarice wrote:
... I expected to come back after leaving this thread for a while and see you crying that it didn't work out or that "she" was a man. Still, keep working on it, if you're willing to travel out of your state for this then good luck to you.


Well as of now she's still an internet girlfriend.


i been there, done it before, and i cannot handle it. to keep my emotional, physical and sexual needs in check and taken care of - she has to be flesh and blood - www g/f for me does not cut it anymore.

but thats just me.



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13 Jan 2010, 7:47 pm

lewdi28792 wrote:
just a little general FYI - i have a medical related associates degree - and one thing i have learned is that one of the best times to make love to a woman is right on and during her period - it may be a little messy and bloody - but that is also when she is the HORNIEST - and the orgasms she has during it work as a natural pain killer - they work as a natural pain killer because they help take away the pain from menstural cramps.


Maybe that's the general theory, but it doesn't pan out for me and my friends, so it seems a shaky generalization. For me it's a few days before, for most of my friends it's about a week before, and I'm usually totally numb and disinterested by the second day of it.



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13 Jan 2010, 7:56 pm

Orbyss wrote:
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just a little general FYI - i have a medical related associates degree - and one thing i have learned is that one of the best times to make love to a woman is right on and during her period - it may be a little messy and bloody - but that is also when she is the HORNIEST - and the orgasms she has during it work as a natural pain killer - they work as a natural pain killer because they help take away the pain from menstural cramps.


Maybe that's the general theory, but it doesn't pan out for me and my friends, so it seems a shaky generalization. For me it's a few days before, for most of my friends it's about a week before, and I'm usually totally numb and disinterested by the second day of it.


ok. all i know is what i learned from the (unused) chapters in the medical related books from my on-line medical coding and billing classes. maybe it is your ASD that is doing it because i DO KNOW that with me being a male epileptic, and from my doing research, that if the female love interest also has epilepsy, and it is her period, the epilepsy WILL CAUSE her sex drive to go right down the toilet and she will not want it at all. and it would also be caused by the meds she takes to control it(the epilepsy) - because i do know from experience that it(the anticonvulsants to control epilepsy) does do it to guys.



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13 Jan 2010, 7:59 pm

The second this girl gets the chance of a relationship LOCALLY to where she lives, she's out.