I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list.

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Depending on definition, using most strict definition, lost it at 29. Haven't had anything since.

Lost it at 35. Stopped dating her a few months later as we agreed we weren't a good fit, but we're still friends. Met my now-wife a few months later.

The ONLY reason any of that happened was that I was in therapy. I wasn't diagnosed as AS but it still helped me deal with a lot of my symptoms and particularly the lack of confidence in myself. It also helped me realize that my fear of emotional pain was causing me to get nothing but emotional pain.

Back in university, I can now see that there were women who were interested in me, but I was either not seeing it or was too afraid of being close to someone to let myself see it.

I wish I had seen this thread way back then, though. It would have made everything so much easier on me, just to know that I was not alone.

17 and still a virgin. waiting for marraige

18 and still a virgin. I wish I could lose it this year, though.

27 and counting!

Just turned into a 32 year old virgin this Saturday.

I just turned 40 three months ago and still haven't lost it. The idea of human touch still sends shivers up my spine. I believe I need a therapist to introduce me to physical contact, without going nuts.

moi

Signed.

I'm the 21 year old virgin. I'm waiting for marriage.

30 years old and a virgin.

i am the 13 year old virgin

Add yet another 18 year old virgin to that list.....

I'm a 20 year old virgin. . So ashamed, so embarrassed. My mum had sex before the age of 20, so did my Aspie auntie! I'm so uptight about it, because I have some cousins who are younger than me, one's 18, one's 17, one's 16 and one's 13. The 18 year old and the 17 year old have had sex, and I'm pretty sure the 16 year old will be doing it soon too, because he's handsome and has a nice personality (not too loud and full-of-himself, and not too quiet and unconfident) so he will get a girlfriend very soon. And the 13 year old will be the type to start being out and about soon with mates, and soon be meeting girls by the time he's 16.
And I held him in my arms when he was a tiny baby - and he's almost ahead of me now. I'll soon be a 30 year old virgin, and he'll be a 23 year old non-virgin, married, with kids, in a spanking brand new home. And so will the rest of my cousins. No wonder I act so childish - I might aswell, because I'll never move on, no matter how hard I try.

25 here. I hope to lose it in 5 years or sooner.