She likes me, she likes me not...

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MercuriousMyshel
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19 Jan 2010, 6:58 pm

It sounds like she's too young for you and that you should realize that she's probably not as mature as you. I am 16, and I know that I am pretty day-to-day, and that I have a lotof mixed emotions, so thats probably how she feels. You should just ask her out, but don't let your expectations get too high, that's just setting yourself up for failure.



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20 Jan 2010, 7:03 am

well, I decided to.. leave her be.
we'll see.



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23 Jan 2010, 8:16 am

I agree with you....



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26 Jan 2010, 5:17 am

small bump, small issue thingy :P

thing is, its her birthday the 28th

option A: I scribble a simple "happy birthday" or her facebook(actually hyves, pretty much the same)
option a1: she scribbles back something like "thank you, but why did you remove me" yadda yadda, drawing unwanted attention
option a2: nothing happens (slim chance)

option B: do nothing.:mrgreen:

its just, i dont want to give her the attention she wants, i just want to say happy birthday. or am i being too nice? :P

edit: she went for option A on my bday, so..



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26 Jan 2010, 12:38 pm

robuust wrote:
small bump, small issue thingy :P

thing is, its her birthday the 28th

option A: I scribble a simple "happy birthday" or her facebook(actually hyves, pretty much the same)
option a1: she scribbles back something like "thank you, but why did you remove me" yadda yadda, drawing unwanted attention
option a2: nothing happens (slim chance)

option B: do nothing.:mrgreen:

its just, i dont want to give her the attention she wants, i just want to say happy birthday. or am i being too nice? :P

edit: she went for option A on my bday, so..


That's actually (a) kind of cute. Not stalkerish just a passing note via the internet



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26 Jan 2010, 9:35 pm

Honestly, I would've broken off contact because she said she DID like me. Because everything before that point was to the contrary. I don't play games with that sort of thing, and the last thing I want or need is more teen angst.


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