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1. How do I ask a girl out
2. Are you still looking 4 a special some1 like me
3. What do u look 4 in a girl/boy


i blame my crappy autism i think it interfears with dating. thats what i think.

The fact that there are so many as*holes in this world interferes with my dating in my opinion, not my AS.

As you ask, I love a person who has a great sense of humour, intelligence and is interesting.

I'm not actually looking for someone special as I don't look, it isn't my style. I am quite happy alone but I seem to have trouble with relationships themselves (read my post on scard of relationships).

As for asking a girl out, try and find out whAt her interests are and see which ones tally up with yours, or something you could tolerate. Then you could suggest that maybe you could go watch that film together or whatever etc etc, be casual about it because you never know, she may have made other prior arrangements. Be sure you know her well enough first though or she may get freaked out.

1. Beats the hell outta me!
2. When I find someone, she will be special to me.
3. 36-52, average to athletic body, 5'6"-6'0", doesn't smoke, drinks socially, some college or college grad, Buddhist/Taoist, Christian, or spiritual but not religious, interested in reading, religion/spirituality, cooking, computers/internet, gaming, gardening, playing music, health/fitness

1. How do I ask a girl out?
Hard to say. I think saying "do you want to go on a date with me?" gets phased out around freshman year of high school. The best way is to use the "join me" approach. For instance, you could say: "I'm going to play pool Thursday night; do you want to come with?"

2. Are you still looking for a special someone?
Yes and no. I'm looking, but "special-ness" is far from a requirement. All I want is for her to be human, have all the parts in place, and not hate Israel. I'm actually willing to settle for the first girl who likes me and fits these qualifications.

3. What do you look for in a girl?
--> Must be human
--> Must have all the parts in place
--> Must not hate Israel

ok here is the correct answers to your questions:

1) To ask a girl out you must be * freinds with them first so in case of a bad spot that happens in the relationship, you are still freinds.
*you must have an attraction to all there features even mental.
*you then simply you ask them: "are you interested in that (random topic)?" if she says "yes." you ask "would you like to go to (the random topic)?"
*tada you have had your first official date

2) There is no way i would go out with a student

3) what i go for in a girl:
* Sexy
* Intelligent
* has a liking to you(as freind)

p.s. Alizee rules!

First, you have to be careful about what you say. Not you personally, but when someone asks a girl out, they just have to realize that.

The answer to your second question is no.

Also, I am looking for affection in a woman, but not exactly someone who talks a lot. I like people who keep a good balance.

1. Difficult! I think the best way is to ask quite explicitly, without being _too_ explicit, of course. Particularly if the person is already a friend of yours, you might want to somehow hint that it's a date you're thinking about, not just a "between friends" occasion. I think the only way is to have a low-noise, low-distraction environment in mind such as a restaurant, and simply ask her to go there with you.

For me, trying to be subtle will often end up in the other person having no idea what I want.

Don't get frustrated for too long if you're rejected. Happens all the time, and not just to Aspies. Move on, and build up courage for the next time.

2. I'm not at the moment looking for anyone. Some things I need to sort out myself.

3. An open-minded, educated person with both feet on the ground to compensate for some of my bad sides and pull me down if necessary.

1. No comment
2. Yes I'm still looking for a special girl.
3. I look in a girl for a good personailty intelligence, a little playfulness or likes to have a lot of fun, one who would accept my faults of my personality and still love me. One who would be a great friend and a great lover as well.