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08 Aug 2010, 6:30 pm

some guys don't go for aspie girls though



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08 Aug 2010, 6:31 pm

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some guys don't go for aspie girls though


True. People have their own tastes. ^_^



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08 Aug 2010, 9:24 pm

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he's been here for years and doing that, only noobs fall for it anymore


Emperor Toad has no clothes.

Do you have anything to say for yourself aside from faux indignation about how good you are?


...I'm not David Bowie?


I was speaking to Toad.



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08 Aug 2010, 9:28 pm

I stand by my statement



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08 Aug 2010, 10:17 pm

Pick-up Artists are professional douches.


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08 Aug 2010, 10:27 pm

some of those almost made me s**t my pants laughing :lol: :lol:


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09 Aug 2010, 2:04 am

things are a changing. women are becoming more powerful and soon they will be the ones who make the rules.



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09 Aug 2010, 2:09 am

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Like most PUA advice, this is only even remotely applicable if you're only after baseless casual sex.


I don't see why it would be good advice even then! The article should be called '16 Ways to Make Yourself as Unattractive as Possible Without Actually Spitting in the Woman's Face'.

I agree, everytime I read one of Ricky's posts it makes me never want to have sex with men again. Its like he is trying to convert us to misandry :x



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10 Aug 2010, 11:30 pm

Those "commandments" sound exactly like the kind of advice that a guy would give who is trying to bed some other guy's woman...

To the guy: ."Listen, take my advice-- treat her like s**t! She will love it!".......

Then, later to the girl he told the other guy to treat like s**t, "Oh, angel! He treats you SO badly! You need the kind of love affection and respect that a man like me will give you ...."...as he then goes and does exactly the oppposite of what he told the other guy to do.

Seen it lots of times over the years....there may be other equally low weasels, but none lower. Real piece of s**t, Ricky....



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10 Aug 2010, 11:33 pm

...oops, forgot to add...

There is one "commandment" that is worthy of attention, though perhaps not in the same manner that it is explicated in the OP.

The one about not letting yourself be ruled by fear of loss or rejection. Whether you are the man or the woman, it's not an appealing (or survivable) or healthy pattern.......unless you are partnered with a codependent psycho and you want to foster that kind of relationship because of your own "issues."



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10 Aug 2010, 11:46 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
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I'd be turned off by a lot of this. Maybe it's because I'm a romantic. Granted, a man doesn't have to make me candlelit dinners every night but as long as I'm treated with love and respect, I'd be okay. ^_^


Sad truth is that guys learn the hard way that what a girl says she wants is the exact opposite of what they actually go for.


You're full s**t and that's the sad truth.

Keep picking up those kinds of girls. Not all guys just like not all girls are attracted to the same aspects you preach about. I see the same kind of crap in vogue and cosmo. I never could identify with these girls or guys.

However I think you may be best to advice those who are only looking for a quicky. Trouble with this is not all of us who are turned on by sex are attracted to the very same ideals as you proclaim to each gender and its role in the counterparts.


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11 Aug 2010, 2:54 am

RICKY5 wrote:
Sad truth is that guys learn the hard way that what a girl says she wants is the exact opposite of what they actually go for.


Sadly, I have to agree.

Whilst I am not a great fan of Roissy's blog in particular, I do agree with the original post. Basically there are three things I have learned about females in my time. One of them is in the above quote. The other two are that in a relationship, he/she who cares the least has all the power and women go for guys that treat them like s**t.

I suppose a forth rule could be that nice guys always lose but that could start a whole new thread in itself.

For the last few months, I have been absent from all Aspie forums whilst I have been observing the world around me. I do not normally do a lot of this. My many observations of others have lead me to believe the above rules apply.


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11 Aug 2010, 3:24 am

Give me celibacy and self respect any day over meaningless sex. I've had relationships in the past without stooping so low, and just by being myself instead of making up some fake persona, I've had women hitting on me, and then saying they liked that I wasn't chasing after them like all the other men, and that I was far more genuine. Those relationships were rewarding because we could actually respect each other.

All you really need is confidence, and to be happy in yourself before contemplating a relationship. We may have difficulties as aspies, but every attempt at a relationship should be seen as a chance to learn, no matter how many mistakes we may make along the way.


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11 Aug 2010, 4:58 am

Glad to see game's made it over here. Face it, men and women don't have a whole lot in common so what could you possibly want besides sex (No, this is not sarcasm)



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11 Aug 2010, 5:09 am

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Glad to see game's made it over here. Face it, men and women don't have a whole lot in common so what could you possibly want besides sex (No, this is not sarcasm)

I think its that kind of thought process which makes people go for people not suited to them and have the relatinship not work out.

I would never date someone that I didnt have lots of things in common with, I want someone to share my interests and chats and likes doing the same things.

If you think men and women have nothing in common then you will go for someone with nothing in common insted of holding out for someone who is 'like minded' who you would get on better with. You see this happening with some old 'player' rockers such as peter stringfellow or rod stewart, they think women have nothing to offer but sex so go for a girl they fancy (but dont have common interests) and so the relationship fails, if they went for a women who shared their interests and values (not who only was fancibable) I think the relationship would be more likely to work.

for example the game was writen after the author stayed with motley crue, but no one in motley crue has sustained lasting relationships, they have all had lots of shags but they dont seem happy, they take drugs to cope and suffer depression. If they had found a 'like minded' person who fulfilled their intelect and interests they might not have been left feeling so empty.



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11 Aug 2010, 4:23 pm

I can honestly sayi would rather die alone without ever having a girl, Than follow the rules that where stated their this isnt true this is an as*holes guide for getting quick p****! :x

It pretty much describes women as dogs and men as a supirior race! :evil:


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