Problem with guys

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Well I'm a guy myself and looking at the answers that are above well it would seem that they are right.

I already have a deep relationship with my sexy girlfriend (and no it's not just me that thinks this, but everyone who's seen the photos I have of her think she's nice) and while we are both looking forward to having sex, as far as we see things we are both waiting for the time when we both feel ready to go into that kind of thing (e.g. our first sleepover would seem to me like a good time to 'make out' with each other for the first time)

Sure if she came to my door right now and asked if I'd like her to make out with me, I'd only say yes, but I always respect her views and anyway if I dated a girl who had the same attachewed to sex that I have (even though I prefer romantic sex over any other kind) I'd be very uncomfortable with that kind of woman and so it would not be the same!

For me the only girls who are even allowed to even as much as consider a relationship with are girly types (as there are in fact many different types of feminine woman, not just bimbos) Of course I'm also loyal to her so I would not cheat on her even though I can still see that other girls are sexy also.

I love my GF, she's just so sweet, innocent, happy, cheerful, childlike and well girly! Although she does also have a few 'tomboy' hobbies (the main one is Doctor Who) they only go as far as her tastes in what she likes to watch on TV and read, and so I see it as a shared interest.

I would not change her for the world or want her to suffer, oh sure I may joke from time to time about tying her up and keeping her as a (sex) slave but that's just taking the mickey and as she does have an eager to please personalty I can see that she'd not take offence to my joking about it (or playing it as a little sex game, as I think slave girls are hot!! !!)

But at the end of the day she is to always be the princess and I the knight in shinning armour, and as is well known, (in fairy tales anyway) while the knights go out to war, the damsels spend their time looking nice and relaxing.

Sorry if I rambled on a bit, but I thought that you'd all like to hear about things the way me and the love of my life do!! !

Goodbye Till Next Time

Not sure it's just about sex if they leave a couple months later. If it was, it would be more like a couple weeks (or days). Maybe you fall for them more than they can handle. You use the phrase "fall in love", and I get the image of a girl who calls/texts me all the time and is planning our life together. That would scare the crap out of me and most other guys.

If I wasn't ready for something that deep, and you were, I would also find a reason to call it off. Saying I would rather be with someone else is the best way to do that actually. Don't have to tell you you're the problem, you don't keep persuing me, there's no bull crap "let's slow things down and figure out what we want" phase. It's a clean break.

I didn't start planning our lives, I didn't talk about the future. I was there for him when he needed me. But I tried not to be clingy. Up until the day he told me he was dating someone else, he was flirting with me. I'm not entirely sure why this happened.

They could have been using you as a transitional too and trying to get sex if they could but couldn't. You were probably the rock they needed for support and a self esteem boost but lacked the passion they "think" they're really are after. Some guys seem to always need a girlfriend no matter what the personality. They may even complain about them all the time but after they breakup they quickly get another one but it is never serious. Sometimes I see this with women the only difference is they would have three kids from different guys.