[HAPPY THREAD] Post good things about love/dating!

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Erisad
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22 Nov 2010, 8:58 am

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Ah well you're an adult. I hope your mother respects that.
She should just be happy that you're happy!
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*sigh* I'll find out. If she doesn't like it, too bad! :P



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22 Nov 2010, 10:14 am

I'm a little late to this party, but the thing I like most about this thread is that it reminds me that it only takes one "break" to make you forget about the seemingly endless rejection and hurt many of us live with.

It inspires me to keep going, good luck to everyone! :)



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22 Nov 2010, 2:09 pm

The good things have to be about love and dating right?, Ill give it a go but I dont have much to say.


First I was introduced to a couple of girls a few weeks ago and Ive seen them about twice a week since then. This may seem like a small thing to almost everyone but I usually tend to get anxious whenever Im introduced to a good looking female and this time I managed to make a good impression(they are 15 so I think its a no-go but its still an improvement).

Secondly I have received a few compliments on my new haircut(still trying to post pictures but imageshack wont let me), I understand that people dont allway tell you the truth in this kind of things but its an improvement from refusing to cut my hair for a year. More people are starting to approach me now that I dont look like a peniless hobo so thats another good aspect.
On the other hand my hair now is way too short for my taste and I cant wait until it grows back to its pre-cut length or even better longer.


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22 Nov 2010, 7:52 pm

Crossing fingers for you Erisad. Thanksgiving is the work of Satan.


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22 Nov 2010, 8:49 pm

Pistonhead wrote:
Crossing fingers for you Erisad. Thanksgiving is the work of Satan.


Yeah. I remember the last Thanksgiving that I had a boyfriend for. I swear, everyone interrogated me separately so I repeated the same stuff 15-ish times. Maybe I should just call a meeting to discuss it at the beginning of the dinner so I don't have to repeat myself. Oh well, at least I have a sore throat. Maybe it'll last long enough so I won't have to talk about it. Probably not but I can dream, can't I? XD



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24 Nov 2010, 8:47 am

The boyfriend I have now is waaaaaaaaay cooler than any boyfriend I've ever had before, and way sweet and smart. He says it's his goal for me to think that, and I do. Being in love rocks.



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24 Nov 2010, 9:42 am

SECONDED. :heart:



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24 Nov 2010, 7:56 pm

Just posting because the "Watch this topic for replies" button dose not seam to be working.


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25 Nov 2010, 3:06 pm

emlion wrote:
There's so many negative threads :(
Post how happy your current/past/near future relationship makes you feel.

I'm very much in love and it's super lovely.
What does your significant other do to make you smile? (:

WE NEED MORE POSITIVITY - BECAUSE SELF CONFIDENCE IS SEXY!

I had my first girlfriend when I was thirteen and I had loved them for months.
They were a wheelchair user, and we became great friends for a while.
She was the first girl I kissed, and currently the only girl I have ever kissed, because I am still 13.
Although the relationship is over, I realize that its possible for all us Aspies to fall in love and socialize, it just takes time, alot of effort that seems to go nowhere, and I guess luck.

But I'm sure its possible, even though we feel lonely and bored and have no ways to socialize outside of our families, the fact that we are adressing these problems is bringing us closer and closer to the goal we all seem to want.
And I know I am just a teenager, but please take me seriously anyway :)



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25 Nov 2010, 5:00 pm

HerbivoreCat wrote:
emlion wrote:
There's so many negative threads :(
Post how happy your current/past/near future relationship makes you feel.

I'm very much in love and it's super lovely.
What does your significant other do to make you smile? (:

WE NEED MORE POSITIVITY - BECAUSE SELF CONFIDENCE IS SEXY!

I had my first girlfriend when I was thirteen and I had loved them for months.
They were a wheelchair user, and we became great friends for a while.
She was the first girl I kissed, and currently the only girl I have ever kissed, because I am still 13.
Although the relationship is over, I realize that its possible for all us Aspies to fall in love and socialize, it just takes time, alot of effort that seems to go nowhere, and I guess luck.

But I'm sure its possible, even though we feel lonely and bored and have no ways to socialize outside of our families, the fact that we are adressing these problems is bringing us closer and closer to the goal we all seem to want.
And I know I am just a teenager, but please take me seriously anyway :)


You have a good attitude for being 13. Just don't let your emotions run wild in your head. I wish forums like this existed when I was 13. I would have had a much easier time in middle school.



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25 Nov 2010, 6:19 pm

Just entered a relationship with an NT friend of mine. Still feeling very anxious and uncertain about the whole thing, but fingers crossed it will work out!

If not, it won't be from lack of trying. :)


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26 Nov 2010, 7:36 pm

sunshower wrote:
Just entered a relationship with an NT friend of mine. Still feeling very anxious and uncertain about the whole thing, but fingers crossed it will work out!

If not, it won't be from lack of trying. :)


Good luck Sunshower! It can work. If you get overwhelmed just try not to shut down completely and say nasty things. I am a female NT and it is very difficult for me to understand this behavior especially when I didn't cause it and all I want to do is help.



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29 Nov 2010, 10:47 am

My GF is not only super sweet, sexy, (she has had a number other boys ask her out lately but she's still loyal to me) and inosent (to the ways of the world rather than the other kind) she likes to phone me on most nights when I'm back at my place.

She's so into me that she'll do anything to please me (I don't have her as a slave though as I like to keep her happy and let her take it easy) even down to the fact that whenever we have sex, I can decide what we shall be doing!

I don't exactly dominte her, but I get to call the shots, if you get what I mean

I love her to bits for this, as I rather than feeling as though I'm the 'boss' or 'main man' (in spite of the fact that I'm clearly the one wearing the 'pants') I enjoy this side to her as she trusts me 100% and thus I love to be able to make sure she's comfitable, happy and that I'm gentle with her!! !!

Oh yes, and one more thing, as a result we've yet to have a arugment over anything.

Goodbye Till Next Time.



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05 Dec 2010, 6:23 pm

:heart: :heart:



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05 Dec 2010, 6:44 pm

^ and apparently all is good in the world again



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05 Dec 2010, 6:46 pm

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^ and apparently all is good in the world again


naah, things don't get fixed that quickly, sadly. >.< Things aren't :heart::heart: just yet, perhaps just half a :heart:

I just wondered if I could revive the thread.