26 Dec 2010, 4:35 pm
bearshady
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29 Dec 2010, 1:01 am
locutusofborg wrote:
Hey everybody, the subject above pretty much says it all.
I consider myself very attractive and intelligent, and girls are attracted to me, but for some reason, I lack the extroversion to interact with them and form an emotional connection. So how do I form an emotional connection which in turn leads to getting laid?
Please give suggestions and with steps provided for accomplishing this social goal.
I consider myself very attractive and intelligent, and girls are attracted to me, but for some reason, I lack the extroversion to interact with them and form an emotional connection. So how do I form an emotional connection which in turn leads to getting laid?
Please give suggestions and with steps provided for accomplishing this social goal.
I'm sorry but you can't even legally buy porn in America by yourself yet
ShenLong
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29 Dec 2010, 1:26 am
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29 Dec 2010, 2:12 pm
mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
Wombat wrote:
Here is the problem:
Almost every guy is horny enough to jump almost any woman.
Women know this and they know that they can take their choice. The ball is in their court.
Guys have to work a lot harder than girls.
Almost every guy is horny enough to jump almost any woman.
Women know this and they know that they can take their choice. The ball is in their court.
Guys have to work a lot harder than girls.
Bull-f***ing-sh**. I'm tired of hearing this.
I'd love for it to be that easy.
By the way. Why is it whenever I see the name 'menintights' at the edges of my vision, I read it as 'meningitis'??
+1 - often the guys i like aren't interested, if only they'd have 'jumped' me.
oh my god, i totally see that too.
29 Dec 2010, 7:50 pm
nthach wrote:
I'm getting an job in IT. IT is male-dominated and I don't want to end up like Bataar who works in IT, is past 30 and still plays with Magic cards.
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
Honestly, I think you're a little young to be worrying so much about it. The average age that men around here get married is more like 30 than 25. If you hit 35 without any luck then you might consider professional assistance, but I don't see the point at 25. The field is still pretty wide open. You just have to figure out how to access it. I've missed most of the conversation but if you center on SF rather than South Bay the ratios should be better. Find activities that interest you and join groups that do those activities.
29 Dec 2010, 7:54 pm
DW_a_mom wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm getting an job in IT. IT is male-dominated and I don't want to end up like Bataar who works in IT, is past 30 and still plays with Magic cards.
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
Honestly, I think you're a little young to be worrying so much about it. The average age that men around here get married is more like 30 than 25. If you hit 35 without any luck then you might consider professional assistance, but I don't see the point at 25. The field is still pretty wide open. You just have to figure out how to access it. I've missed most of the conversation but if you center on SF rather than South Bay the ratios should be better. Find activities that interest you and join groups that do those activities.
I have a job in IT lined up, but I'll be working from home or out in Walnut Creek. I'm already a member of a cycling club but a majority of the membership is older than I am and I'm always looking for other groups to join.
29 Dec 2010, 7:59 pm
nthach wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm getting an job in IT. IT is male-dominated and I don't want to end up like Bataar who works in IT, is past 30 and still plays with Magic cards.
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
Honestly, I think you're a little young to be worrying so much about it. The average age that men around here get married is more like 30 than 25. If you hit 35 without any luck then you might consider professional assistance, but I don't see the point at 25. The field is still pretty wide open. You just have to figure out how to access it. I've missed most of the conversation but if you center on SF rather than South Bay the ratios should be better. Find activities that interest you and join groups that do those activities.
I have a job in IT lined up, but I'll be working from home or out in Walnut Creek. I'm already a member of a cycling club but a majority of the membership is older than I am and I'm always looking for other groups to join.
Then you should be on the right track. Ratios out in Walnut Creek shouldn't be too bad. Good luck, just hang in there. I met my husband when I was 34; sometimes that is just how it goes. Hopefully your jouney will be a little speedier, but one never knows. I do believe that things end up going the way they should go, but you don't know until you have the advantage of looking backwards what the positive spin will be.
I've never dated anyone I worked with, btw. Way too complicated. But my sister did marry a guy my other sister works with. In the world of indirect connections, all you need is someone with the right sister or friend. No blind dates; just nice opportunities for people to meet informally.
29 Dec 2010, 8:13 pm
DW_a_mom wrote:
nthach wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
nthach wrote:
I'm getting an job in IT. IT is male-dominated and I don't want to end up like Bataar who works in IT, is past 30 and still plays with Magic cards.
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then
Honestly, I think you're a little young to be worrying so much about it. The average age that men around here get married is more like 30 than 25. If you hit 35 without any luck then you might consider professional assistance, but I don't see the point at 25. The field is still pretty wide open. You just have to figure out how to access it. I've missed most of the conversation but if you center on SF rather than South Bay the ratios should be better. Find activities that interest you and join groups that do those activities.
I have a job in IT lined up, but I'll be working from home or out in Walnut Creek. I'm already a member of a cycling club but a majority of the membership is older than I am and I'm always looking for other groups to join.
Then you should be on the right track. Ratios out in Walnut Creek shouldn't be too bad. Good luck, just hang in there. I met my husband when I was 34; sometimes that is just how it goes. Hopefully your jouney will be a little speedier, but one never knows. I do believe that things end up going the way they should go, but you don't know until you have the advantage of looking backwards what the positive spin will be.
I've never dated anyone I worked with, btw. Way too complicated. But my sister did marry a guy my other sister works with. In the world of indirect connections, all you need is someone with the right sister or friend. No blind dates; just nice opportunities for people to meet informally.
I'd never want to be down in the South Bay anyway. I prefer the Contra Costa/Alameda/San Francisco triangle myself. Marin and San Mateo excluded.
I'm trying my best to address my personal issues, and personally I'm not going to get married until I'm 35-40. But the lack of girlfriend is really what is killing me right now.
29 Dec 2010, 8:47 pm
29 Dec 2010, 8:56 pm
Kilroy wrote:
The trick to getting laid is treating your love to an expensive lobster dinner as you carry her on your back threw piranha infested waters, that always worked for me
I'd hate to think what you think a 'bad date' is!
29 Dec 2010, 9:11 pm
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