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LordoftheMonkeys
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13 Jan 2011, 12:10 am

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f**k dating and f**k women. All they do is stare, laugh, and giggle at you for being ugly and dressing a certain way.


Being bitter towards a population is a good way to alienate them.


If it makes it any better, males are the same way towards me. All they do is feign being your friend just to play your video games and watch TV. They treat you like sh** and make fun of you, especially in front of new people and girls.


I totally relate to that. Many of my former "friends" just hung around me because they wanted to take advantage of me. They would make up sob stories (my girlfriend got arrested and needs bail, I'm pregnant and have no insurance, etc.) to get me to give them money, then went and spent it on drugs. People like this are very good at choosing their victims, and being socially inept makes you look vulnerable and a tempting target.


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13 Jan 2011, 12:19 am

Look I'm in my early 50s, never had a romantic relationship, yet I am not suicidal at all. I still have hope.



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13 Jan 2011, 12:20 am

LordoftheMonkeys wrote:
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f**k dating and f**k women. All they do is stare, laugh, and giggle at you for being ugly and dressing a certain way.


Being bitter towards a population is a good way to alienate them.


If it makes it any better, males are the same way towards me. All they do is feign being your friend just to play your video games and watch TV. They treat you like sh** and make fun of you, especially in front of new people and girls.


I totally relate to that. Many of my former "friends" just hung around me because they wanted to take advantage of me. They would make up sob stories (my girlfriend got arrested and needs bail, I'm pregnant and have no insurance, etc.) to get me to give them money, then went and spent it on drugs. People like this are very good at choosing their victims, and being socially inept makes you look vulnerable and a tempting target.


Yeah the entire world is full of evil people. People that are rude, selfish, greedy, egotistic, and have sex w/o being married. They're all evil, they will perish in hell when they die.



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13 Jan 2011, 12:26 am

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Look I'm in my early 50s, never had a romantic relationship, yet I am not suicidal at all. I still have hope.

Thanks to the modern miracles of science - aka that little blue pill I can certainly see why. :D



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13 Jan 2011, 2:21 am

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Look I'm in my early 50s, never had a romantic relationship, yet I am not suicidal at all. I still have hope.


You have the patience of a buddhist then... I'm not even half your age and i'm already running out of hope.



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13 Jan 2011, 2:58 am

I think if I get to fifty and I still haven't had a relationship then I;ll give up on that and focus solely on other things



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13 Jan 2011, 6:22 am

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saying f**k women is generally seen as slander
yeah well grouping everyone together like that is, well wrong and will get you flamed
I don't care what sort of life you live or past you've had, you can't just go around talking sh** like that
that's not what this forum is for
I am so sick and tired of people using it like that, turned a once charming place into a cesspool of crap


Very true! Thank you for always saying the things which need to be said, Kilroy. :) The gentle approach some of us take is not always terribly effective, so I appreciate your directness.

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You have the patience of a buddhist then...


I like this association. ^_^


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13 Jan 2011, 10:31 am

Kilroy wrote:
saying f**k women is generally seen as slander


Actually, it's only slander if it's spoken word, else it's libel.



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13 Jan 2011, 11:14 am

Asp-Z wrote:
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saying f**k women is generally seen as slander


Actually, it's only slander if it's spoken word, else it's libel.


But are you actually intentionally telling a lie to discredit someone there? That's just an expressive statement. I don't think it's slander/libel at all. It does, however, constitute being a giant douchebag...



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13 Jan 2011, 11:17 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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saying f**k women is generally seen as slander


Actually, it's only slander if it's spoken word, else it's libel.


But are you actually intentionally telling a lie to discredit someone there? That's just an expressive statement. I don't think it's slander/libel at all. It does, however, constitute being a giant douchebag...


Agreed. A general statement isn't really doing any damage. If you were to say "<women's name> is a whore" or something, that'd be libelous, but "f**k women" isn't, though it does, as you say, make you a douchebag.



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13 Jan 2011, 4:16 pm

Don't really care if it makes me a douchebag or not.

I'm just going on how I've been treated by them my whole life.



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13 Jan 2011, 4:25 pm

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I totally agree. I don't liken us to a humanoid Prius for nothing. A Prius is dull, awkward, boring, ugly, and exhibits quite a few similarities in how it behaves mechanically like an aspie does.

You saying we act like a hybrid car? I agree with the ugly and dull bit though seems a decent comparison, but do people give off smug when they date us? (south park referance)



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13 Jan 2011, 4:29 pm

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Don't really care if it makes me a douchebag or not.

I'm just going on how I've been treated by them my whole life.


Agreed. If thats how you been treated the same group of people your whole life, no wonder you feel the way you do.



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14 Jan 2011, 9:14 pm

TOS REMINDER:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt136567.html

"While we understand that many members here have had very frustrating dating (or non-dating) experiences, and that such experiences can lead them to make negative generalizations about the gender involved, Wrong Planet has rules that prohibit any remarks that can be deemed sexist or that make negative generalizations about all members of a gender:

1. Posting offensive language, comments, video, or images.
Unacceptable content includes swearing; racist, sexist, homophobic language; behavior intended to provoke or belittle other members; violent or sexually demeaning content; sexual fetish; and discussion of excretory function. Posting graphic images or videos of people or animals being harmed is prohibited.

This should be a forum where both men and women can be comfortable trying to figure out what is going on in their lives. Generalizations along the lines of "all women are shallow" or "all men are jerks" interfere with that, and are offensive to the members of the gender mentioned. Please be careful to NOT make conclusions or statements that extend beyond your personal experience and the particular people involved."


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15 Jan 2011, 5:44 am

Bethie wrote:
TOS REMINDER:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt136567.html

"While we understand that many members here have had very frustrating dating (or non-dating) experiences, and that such experiences can lead them to make negative generalizations about the gender involved, Wrong Planet has rules that prohibit any remarks that can be deemed sexist or that make negative generalizations about all members of a gender:

1. Posting offensive language, comments, video, or images.
Unacceptable content includes swearing; racist, sexist, homophobic language; behavior intended to provoke or belittle other members; violent or sexually demeaning content; sexual fetish; and discussion of excretory function. Posting graphic images or videos of people or animals being harmed is prohibited.

This should be a forum where both men and women can be comfortable trying to figure out what is going on in their lives. Generalizations along the lines of "all women are shallow" or "all men are jerks" interfere with that, and are offensive to the members of the gender mentioned. Please be careful to NOT make conclusions or statements that extend beyond your personal experience and the particular people involved."


Are you a moderator now?



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15 Jan 2011, 4:26 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
Are you a moderator now?


No, but I certainly know where to find one if this type of drivel persists.

:)

There might be venues where one can curse women and personify an entire gender as evil,
but WP is not one of them.


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