How many guys here actually prefer psychologic healthy girls

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Most guys want girls like this from my experience, if you go onto a dating site all the guys have listed "I want someone who isn't crazy for a change"

I however, don't fit the bill, I'm not only crazy, I'm broken and have some warped views on people and alarming views on myself, and extremely emotionally unstable.

I think you would be hard pressed to find a girl who is completely healthy. My flatmate is sort of like that (perfect ) but she pushes all her emotions inward.

I get almost exclusively crazy/damaged girls. The most insane ex (love her to death, but I can't be with that kind of instability) went to a mental hospital twice in the last two years for suicide attempts. Incredibly beautiful girl and an actually good girlfriend (never cheated, was really sweet), but she just had these moments of total insanity where she'd just become a puddle.

Another ex was a scientologist. The current girl I'm having sex with (can't say dating because she doesn't date according to herself) has never had emotional sex and is 21. I don't know what that means, but it's bad.

Yeah, this doesn't have to do with stability... maybe more of a herding instinct. Girls that see and that crazy stuff on shows like "Bad Girls" and think that's what people expect/want of them. Frankly, I think they must be stupid. I never went along with any mass-behavior like that, nor did I ever consider it, so I view people that do that consistently to be weak-minded. I am not the date you are looking for.

As for actually psychology, I NEED someone stable, because I'm not. I'm trying to recognize and understand my emotions, but "stability" is a long way of and I make no promises. While my instability largely stems from the fact that at least one person I know or am related to dies every 2 years or less, but it extends to all aspects of my life. I generally try to disregard people, because it takes to much effort to be concerned about them, and if I do become truly close to someone I'd probably latch on and never let go. I'm either detached or clingy, no middle ground here. And actually saying how I feel? Forget it. Chances are someone else knows what I'm feeling long before I do.





Well, THAT certainly happened.

I don't want a normal person. I want her to be completely insane, very eccentric, highly intelligent, beautiful!

I like girls who some would consider unhealthy. I doubt I'd be considered healthy & if I was with someone who was helathy they would probably end up being more like a parent with me than a partner because we'd be on different levels. I'm like a 13year-old girl in some ways. I HATE mind-games, lying & playing that hard to get cr@p but I have a real soft spot for things like depression, anxiety, OCD, moodiness, low self-esteem, dependent, codependent, needy, clingy, high maintenance, ect. I have some problems like that myself & If she has problems to; we could relate better & we could maybe help each other out; support can make a major difference