Guys have it harder

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^^^^

Here in WP, there are guys never getting a single date in late 20's. All girls have had some relations, even bad ones.

Best idea of the day so far! But I'm a bit afraid next week there'll be a topic about how hard it is for men to have stalkers

I'm not one of all girls then?

so true.

Not Asperger's, PDD-NOS (well, they say)... To set the score even I'll approach two men, allright? Happy again?

not even a single date?

I don't think a date is a relationship... well, then I'm at 2/3 again. And one kiss

Not really looking anymore, I just gave up. Me = happier alone!! ! Relations are just way too difficult for me (maybe someday I'll learn, I hope)

i think they're talking about a date/sex/relationship whichever, anything.
i still think Boo hit the nail on the head.

"guys" complain about their lot more than girls do, so i guess they have a harder time accepting that they do not have what they think they deserve.
i do not know what i do not have because i never had it to understand what life is like without it.

I think it's because most women around here are in relationships, most guys aren't, so they have other things to complain about.

Throw all the cyber-tomatoes you want at me - it's objectively true.

That's what the OP is talking about.

But bare in mind , that the feeling of "I can't find the right one" is harder and more esteem-destructive than "no one likes me" feeling.

The first feeling appears after someone got through a lot of dates/partners/ failed relationships and can't settle for a one partner for some reason (maybe just bad luck , maybe the person is too picky...). --> That's the typical female AS situation , what they usually do is fasting of seeing men for x months in order to get rid a bit of this feeling and then start the quest again.


The second feeling happens when the person gets to a certain age and feels that he/she still never experienced adult experiences , he/she starts feels way behind his peers in life experience and feel socially inadequate , even his/her peers would notice that there's something wrong with him/her and start asking him/her questions such as "why you don't have a partner?" and such , he/she would be even alienated in many social events because he/she would be the only one with no partner there.
The second feeling would not stop unless if a sudden success happens or total giving up.

AS men live a miserable, meaningless life of constant drudgery, brutalization, and sad rejection. AS women spend all their lives in peace and luxury reclining on cushions while male slaves fan them and feed fruit into their mouths.

how did you find out what my life was like?
it was supposed to be a secret!

Excellent summation.

This also implies that women are more likely to be dissatisfied with the relationship that they are in, this correlates well with the fact that 66% of divorces are initiated by women.

So guys complain about not being in a relationship, women complain about their boyfriend/husband.

The problem with this in a forum like L&D is some guys blame women as a class for their problems, where women blame a specific individual.

Interesting...

Which do you think is the best/most correct way?

I'm not sure if all these sexists on here are just trolling, or they actually believe this crap. Considering the utter stupidity of real sexists, I wouldn't be surprised at all if you guys were serious. Honestly, I know a LOT of girls at my school who have it so hard just cause they don't fit into what society views as the typical personality of a female. Whereas us guys don't really have to fit into any mold. I get a lot of crap from bullies at my school, but not once has my dislike of typical "male" interests such as sports come up when they're making jokes about me.

I guess it's sort of true that girls have it a bit easier when finding a partner. But we can put the blame for that on all the perverted, desperate guys out there who will f**k anything with tits and a vagina. And what many women on here have said about such guys prove that they really aren't the sort of people you should be starting a relationship with.