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27 Mar 2011, 4:11 am

nick007 wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Meh. I don't know that it's more "logical", per se...but I don't feel like I'm navigating a mine field with men.

They (in my opinion) seem to say what they mean and mean what they say, and don't mind that I do the same.

I guess I'm attracted to strong, blunt personalities in general, and I find those rare.

This is the root of 99% of my problems with romantic relationships - you'll make someone a great girlfriend!

Right, cause there are SOO many asexy men. :wink:

I'm a borderline asesxual & very blunt :wink:

Works for me, Nick.

When's we gettin' hitched?

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27 Mar 2011, 7:32 am

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Also, one of my pet peeves is 'wannabe mods' threatening members of a forum. "I don't have any tools of 'discipline' but I'll tell daddy/mommy on you". DOO EEET.

Just to make something clear - she's not a "wannabe mod" and she didn't threaten you. Some users show good judgement and willingness to help so they either try to mediate a bad situation themselves or they report it to us. I see how you'd prefer people to look the other way when they see tasteless or offensive "jokes" but we appreciate those who are responsible enough to take a stance.

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27 Mar 2011, 7:46 am

Bethie wrote:

Tim_Tex wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Volodja wrote:

I agree 100% with Bethie's response to MCalavera. Not everyone's relationship is the same. Just because most people view sex as a huge part of a romantic relationship doesn't mean that those who have a different relationship are in any way wrong or not "in love"

I would also be interested to know what makes a relationship for asexual people (I'm aware that all are different btw , but to whoever answers this - what is the difference between friendship and relationship for you?)

Romantic attraction and romantic love, and the expressions of both by the individuals involved.

Kissing
Cuddling
Flirting
Declarations of love
Living together
Marriage
Children

All the things present in sexual romantic relationships...without the sex.

How do you start a family without sex?

Adoption, AI, "turkey baster" method....

very romantic! :heart:

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27 Mar 2011, 10:52 am

Bethie wrote:

nick007 wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Grisha wrote:

Bethie wrote:

This is the root of 99% of my problems with romantic relationships - you'll make someone a great girlfriend!

Right, cause there are SOO many asexy men. :wink:

I'm a borderline asesxual & very blunt :wink:

Works for me, Nick.

When's we gettin' hitched?

Whenever you want

Sad thing is I'm not really joking. I just want someone who's willing to give me a chance that does NOT involve me having sex with a guy

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30 Mar 2011, 4:21 pm

camphortree wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Adoption, AI, "turkey baster" method....

very romantic! :heart:

Much more so than grunting and humping and sweating on each other.

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30 Mar 2011, 7:57 pm

Bethie wrote:

camphortree wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Adoption, AI, "turkey baster" method....

very romantic! :heart:

Much more so than grunting and humping and sweating on each other.

I like doing those things Bethie :wink:

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30 Mar 2011, 9:15 pm

When I met my wife I was 23, my lower limit was 18. She misrepresented herself as that age, she had actually just turned 17 when I met her. Since I've been married for more than a couple years now I haven't really thought about it. I waited till I was married to have sex with my wife so that's not an age limiting issue for me. So I don't really know, but I'm pretty open minded, any age that I find the person attractive I guess.

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30 Mar 2011, 9:20 pm

Bethie wrote:

camphortree wrote:

Bethie wrote:

Adoption, AI, "turkey baster" method....

very romantic! :heart:

Much more so than grunting and humping and sweating on each other.

Yeah sex is pretty disgusting if you think about it from an outside perspective. However I have a very "inside perspective" grunting, humping, sweating and everything else

Even though it's messy it's still quite enjoyable!

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31 Mar 2011, 12:01 pm

Anything is disgusting if you really dwell on it. Especially eating, but of course it's necessary.

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31 Mar 2011, 1:52 pm

23

No younger than 10 years below my age. Maybe 1 or 2 above.

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01 Apr 2011, 6:59 am

19+ for me. but the wired thing is, that all the younger girls always seem to be attacted to me and I dont know y... U no, the 14 and 15 year olds.

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01 Apr 2011, 7:03 am

Xeno wrote:

Anything is disgusting if you really dwell on it. Especially eating, but of course it's necessary.

What does that have to do with anything ?? :lol:

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01 Apr 2011, 8:47 am

HodgeieHodgeMarcel wrote:

Xeno wrote:

Anything is disgusting if you really dwell on it. Especially eating, but of course it's necessary.

What does that have to do with anything ?? :lol:

Sorry... I always find myself gravitating toward tangents, haha.

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01 Apr 2011, 9:19 am

20 (but it's all conjecture anyway).

though as my teenage daughter gets older, the idea of hypothetically dating someone close to her age could be somewhat disconcerting for both of us. i have no upper age limit.

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01 Apr 2011, 9:20 am

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Hi Hyperlexian!

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01 Apr 2011, 9:45 am

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hyperlexian wrote:

Hi Hyperlexian!

hi grisha!

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