f**k, what am I doing here in this topic board?

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Looking for girlfriends on a discussion board on the internet... how low have I sunk?

How desperate am I?

I know there's 1 in a billion chance i'll find someone from the central New York (United States) area that i'll find the perfect girl, the one who has great looks, great personality, likes what I like, and hey... add another billion chance that she has aspergers as well. Plus i'm sure the girls that WOULD like me are girls that aren't attractive at all... (yes, I am that kind of guy, looks matter to me. So sue me.)

I guess I would consider myself a good looking guy... are girls shy to ask me out or am I just a creepy looking kid and I just don't realize it?

Is it because of the whole "popularity" factor which makes you look more/less attractive than what you actually are or what? I mean it seems when I ask a random person for an opinion of how I look/how attractive I am, they like me a lot. (I smell a hint of over-arrogance... sorry about that, but couldn't word that any other way).



WHAT'S WRONG WITH OUR SOCIETY?

It's a hopeless attempt at a hopeless cause. Going to a High School as a Senior never had a Girlfriend, however have nearly no problem talking to one... what am I doing wrong?

I'll answer my own question by saying I barely ever GO to school anymore it seems like, even when I know I still have a chance to graduate on time... what the f**k am I doing.

To top it off, I've never had a job, never had a permit due to how much cash it costs to GET one... never had any ipod related products (living in a school full of rich kids who always seem to have one, while i'm left in the dust)...

And I still technically can't GET a job because I still have a nagging foot injury keeping me in a post-op boot for god knows how long anymore...

Hell, I don't even know why i'm posting this in an internet forum. Sure, people here can relate to my problems... but it's not like any of them can help me besides saying things like "it's okay mate! Just go and get it over with! (overused emoticon)"

I would post an image, however this site is doing it's job and preventing 40 year old pedophiles from posting pictures of their dicks, so I shall ablige *sigh*.

If you are interested on finding a partner theres a elegible odd bobs thread at the top of this section and you may have luck(highly doubtable but I think its worth a shot)
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I know there's 1 in a billion chance i'll find someone from the central New York (United States) area that i'll find the perfect girl, the one who has great looks, great personality, likes what I like, and hey... add another billion chance that she has aspergers as well. Plus i'm sure the girls that WOULD like me are girls that aren't attractive at all... (yes, I am that kind of guy, looks matter to me. So sue me.)
Dont put yourself down,if you have girls that are intersted on you you are way ahead of plenty of members here(which btw includes me with my fear of falling in love with anyone thats available).

Do you wear clothes that are fashionable?. This may seem hard to believe but the sole fact of wearing different clothes can enhance your social status. For example until I was about 14 my parents bought my clothing without asking for my opinion(lame I know) then I realized that if I wanted to go somewhere in the dating field that needed to be changed and the fact that I was wearing a surf shirt instead of something like my father wears to work made interacting with people my age much easier. For the record it doesnt have to be the latest collection of whatever brand is in at the time, anything that doesnt scream "my mum bought me this shirt probably because it was on sale" should be fine unless you want to hang out with fashionistas or something.
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The whole popularity factor may be an issue. Have you considered trying to become friends with someone thats a little bit more popular than you so you could enhance your social status a little bit.
There´s this girl at my class that likes to pretend she is unable to notice me whenever we come accross each other, last week I was talking with a female friend of mine thats above average looking(we studided together a coupel of times and she doesnt have much friends) in front of the class, guess what?, as soon as this girl came to the class she started talking to me and asking me about my friend, its not the best way to get others noticing you but its a start

For the record Ive never seen a girl saying he didnt have an ipod as an excuse for not datig him.

Obvious troll is obvious.

You smoke pot. That's a deal breaker for most ladies right there.

Where did dude ever reference smoking pot? In another thread or something?

At any rate, I think late high school is the last place a girl would object to someone smoking weed to the point where it's a "deal breaker"

I see people are interested in my profile all of a sudden.


Anyways... for those inquiring about the smoking thing, yes I have smoked marijuana every now and then... off and on. I stopped 2 weeks ago simply because I needed to save money.

Recently i've been feeling more depressed because I may not even graduate on time from my High School anymore due to a foot injury from basketball that put me on crutches for 4 weeks. So now I can't get a job to help get me community service hours to help me graduate.

WOW! A stoner that's literate, is AN ATHLETE, and sucks at life all at the same time? I had no idea that was possible!

For those saying marijuana caused all of this is BS because i've only smoked 6-7 times over about a year and a half time span... usually when I visit my brother's house who is a dealer.

When I smoke I do generally feel a lot better, sometimes I actually do homework while stoned and it's the most enjoyable thing in the world. But since my brother moved out of state I've been unable to get any weed. Oh well, back to prescription Zoloft for now.

People are so hateful in this thread. Thanks for the support for those who actually gave it to me.

This might have been better posted in the Haven. I can move it if you like.

Just close the thread for me, i'm getting sick and tired of hearing BS about me smoking pot once and a while, plus feeling like s**t right now and the last thing I need is to have some troll bashing me for it.

Plus i'm new.

Thanks.