She just left me!

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Urrrrrggghhh... Today sucked. It just sucked so much. My beloved special someone broke up with me today, and I don't know how to cope with it! It was all fine just 3 days ago, but then on Tuesday she said we should take a break. Then this morning, after she realized I did not know what that meant, she explained it to me. I was stunned, and heartbroken. Teachers asked me what was wrong, I lashed out at an insensitive classmate, and actually skipped first period! I never skip classes! But I did today! Now I'm eating icecream, listening to sad instrumental music, and sitting in the dark. Nothing I do seems to help, the world seems bleak, and a future without my (girlfriend's name here) sounds completely awful! I think I just want to die. That knife in the kitchen is starting to look very friendly and oh god what am I saying!? Please, I need help!

PS. She also said "I love you, but not the same way you love me. We can still be friends" but just being friends won't be the same.

I'm bad with this but I'm first here. Personally I've been through one of those breakups and my mind went "but that changes everything, my whole life, kids, where I plan to live", and I think back now and sort of laugh at myself because I was (slightly) overreacting. Not trying to tone down what your feeling, but I'm just saying to take a breather. One of the best things, and worst things about life and love - is free will...

*shrugs* .. It goes both ways, sometimes things are unexpected... but things always get worse, and then they get better.

No worries.

I think most people have their heart broken at least once. I did. And it stuck with me a very long time. Looking back, I wonder if it was worse because I didn't know about my aspergers. I remember after the breakup, I kind of floated around school - not knowing where I fit in. I even switched schools.

But I survived. And at the new school I found a wonderful man who became my husband. It sounds trite, but it does get better.

Really sorry to hear this. It is terribly painful and I know how it feels. It might seem cliched to say this but it does get a lot better with time.

I was devastated when someone left me once and I honestly thought I would never be able to stop crying. I thought there was no point in living any more and probably would have ended my life if a friend hadn't come to stay with me. The friend forced me to go to a doctor for help.

However now looking back at it I see how flawed the person was and I can't understand what I saw in them in the first place. They certainly were not the amazingly perfect person that I saw them as. Emotions really do play tricks on the mind and are detrimental to logic.

If you are really feeling bad, go and see a doctor asap and tell them about your suicidal thoughts. The doctor will give you some medication that will take the edge off the pain and stop you from feeling bad enough to end it all.

If I can help in any way please PM me. I really do understand what you are going through.

NEVER take it personally, and just realize it wasn't the right match.... nothing would be worse in life than stuck with or settling with who is in front of you, if they aren't your true match..... your true match will never think of leaving you, and you will never think of leaving them.

the thought of being apart would make them feel like you do now, and would stick you together forever....

Some days I think I have met my match, but then he threatens to leave and I feel all alne again, even though we are still together.... for now....

NEVER take it personally, and just realize it wasn't the right match.... nothing would be worse in life than stuck with or settling with who is in front of you, if they aren't your true match..... your true match will never think of leaving you, and you will never think of leaving them.

the thought of being apart would make them feel like you do now, and would stick you together forever....

Some days I think I have met my match, but then he threatens to leave and I feel all alne again, even though we are still together.... for now....

I have been single for 4 months after my relationship ended. The first 6 weeks are always the hardest, that is what I always say, anyway... then after that it is difficult, but the worst part is over. ((((hugs)))))

I havent had any dates either. What I am saying is that the break up pain is always the worst in the first 6 weeks.

People fall in and out of love at different rates and for all sorts of different reasons. It just seems to be part of life. The other thing I can say is that if someone falls out of love, there is nothing you can do to change that feeling they have, but to accept it - sometimes the friendship carries on, sometimes it doesn't, but be thankful for the time you did have, and what you learned from the relationship you can apply to the next one. Take care.