Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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I am 22, straight, just graduating from college in Spanish, and love languages, music (mainly listening, took some piano but started too late to get much experience by now), and history, but tend to be open-minded about interests in a lot of things at the moment. I'm single, looking for a decent relationship as I get into the job market but trying to figure a few things out in life. I'm not a big fan of clubs and don't drive, but I'm trying to get my license and branch out more, and look forward to going on vacation soon. Anyway, I'm having a good time being me and just looking for someone to join in the fun.

Here goes:


http://www.okcupid.com/profile/noc3

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/mxh91

Can I post here if I'm just looking for friends/activity partners/penpals?

I got banned from okcupid, doesn't matter since noone was really interested in me anyways. The only people I talked to were extremely uninteresting, did ret*d things like huffing gas duster, were extremely superficial, or were trolling me. Feels Bad Man.

Appearance Expectations: Not important unless someone actually replies. However, I do have short brown hair, gray eyes, and fair skin. Expect a five foot tall woman that's a bit bigger than average. My fashion sense is casual but comfortable, and sadly it's hard to find clothes I like so I'm limited in finding things I enjoy wearing. Other details are not important.

Age: 19.
Gender: Female.
Religion: Unknown/Possibly Wiccan.
Location: Georgia.
Personality Type: INTJ.
Zodiac Sign: Taurus.
Interests: anime, Asperger's, astrology, psychology, role-playing, tumblr, wicca, writing
OkCupid: Has it, but has no idea how to give it to you.

About Me: If you manage to win my trust (and heart), you have yourself a dedicated and loyal woman on your hands. I'm honest, responsible, and blunt. What you see is what you get. Though I am the type of woman to do what I can to satisfy you and make you happy, I am not afraid to ask for what I want in return [which essentially is just your attention right now]. I'm pretty simple really. It's time with you that I'll value most, if we ever get together. Often times I struggle to seek acceptance and often it's not rare for me to have a problem of some sort that needs discussing. I have very severe trust issues, which is why it's important for you to earn it before we begin dating. I put my zodiac sign, because a typical Taurus profile describes me pretty well.

I don't want to talk about what I want in a man, because I'm not sure. The main requirements are that he accepts me for who I am and we have similar interests. Secondary requirements include not smoking, not being an alcoholic, and not doing drugs. He needs to have some morals basically. No lying, no cheating, no noticeable hypocrisy. Contrary to popular opinion, I prefer men with long hair. I'm also strongly interested in tan-skinned males, but please don't let your skin cast you out from private messaging me.

CAUTION: Expect more from me than I listed here. A PM to me does not guarantee I will fall for you, but it does guarantee that I will be very surprised.

Here's me throwing my hat in the ring:

Name: Brent
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Description: Brown Hair, Grey/Blue Eyes, Goatee, Tallish (5'10"ish). I am a fairly high functioning aspie (is that what they call it when I don't get completely lost socially, just mostly?), a lot of folks say they find my diagnosis hard to believe but I think that's cause I wasn't diagnosed until I was 30 and had to socialise normally while growing up. I failed for the most part but I still had to try and fit in, not knowing that I was any different or how to cope with it. So I learned a lot of the rules, which lets me fake it fairly well in some situations.
Interests: Movies and TV (I have a huge collection, this is my aspie "obsession" or whatever they are calling it these days), role playing games, video games, hanging with my close friends
Looking for: A girl, who's nice, interesting, and cute at least. Sorry to say it but there has to be some attraction. However, if there isn't we can always be friends Hope that's not too shallow but it is what it is. An interest in movies and stuff would be a bonus.

If you are in Melbourne and are interested in grabbing a bite to eat or a movie, send me a PM

Meh, I'll throw in my info.

Name: Marc.
Date of birth: 29/11/1989 (Age: 21.5).
Location: Yorkshire, England.
Religion: Atheist.
Height: 6'3".
Hair colour: Dark brown.
Eye colour: Hazel.
Penis size: 6.5"
Occupation: Out of work tree surgeon.
Interests: Daydreaming, Martial Arts, Diving, Wandering around aimlessly, Lock Picking.
Life dream: Rob a bank. (Sneaky stealthy heist style, not hostage taking shoot out with the police style)

Hey hey, looks like it's my turn.

Name: Joshua
DoB: October 18, 1988
Location: South Carolina
Religion: Agnostic
Ethnic: Polish, Irish, German, Czechoslovakian, Cherokee
Height: 5'8"
Body Type: Medium Built
Hair: Short, but I'm growing it long again
Skin Type: Olive
Occupation: Little Caesars
Education: Bachelor of Arts in Video Game Design, working on going for my Master's
Interests: Gaming, Music, Party-Person, Art, Comedies, Wondering about the universe, I could go on.

I'm the type of guy that believes life is too short to sit around and do nothing... If only I had a car. (laughs) I am an aspiring musician in hopes of getting a band together soon once I get better equipment. I am a metal guitarist who loves playing and performing in front of people. It puts me at ease. I graduated a year ago with a BA, and cannot find a job in the field anywhere, but plan on furthering my education once I get enough money together. I've been a gamer most of my life and have pursued in learning on how to make them, which I enjoy almost as much as my music obsession.

Yes, I am a bit of a party guy. I enjoy going out and drinking with people I know and love and people who I don't know very well, though moderation is the key and I know my limits. I used to be big on a certain herb for a bit until I moved back to SC (was in AZ for college), to where I temporarily quit to get a better job. It was mostly for my chronic depression, due to the fact that anti-depressants do not work on me. I'm not a perfect person; I have my many flaws, but that doesn't define who I am exactly.

What I look for in a girl... I'm not one to go strongly for looks (though it is important), but I would love to have a gal who loves who she is and looks like regardless. Someone who is comfortable around me and my antics, and is a major plus if she joins me in them. I like a girl who's independent like myself, but still is willing to share her love. Overall, I want her to be fun. XD

Looking for a friend or lover.

Age: 20
Gender: Male
Religion: Christian. I believe in the Rasta's version of the bible and whatnot... but this is not a religion. It is a way of life.
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Zodiac Sign: Pisces, March 20 (the day before aries, so it's a cusp)
Music: Reggae, Hip-Hop, Punk Rock, Blues, etc.

Interested In:
I'm attracted to someone who thinks outside of the box, understands the oppression of our society, is outgoing, enjoys spontaneous traveling because my future will probably consist of a lot of that.

About myself:
I have a low self esteem because my ego or imagination sometimes scares me & makes me feel unworthy.

I believe the aries side of me really enjoys the thrills of life, I love snowboarding, longboarding, & anything to get the adrenaline going but somewhat impulsive at times. The pisces side of me is very imaginative and dreamy but also modestly intelligent. I can be spontaneous, which can be exciting and fun for other thrill seeking type people.

I'm good at helping others reach and realize their potential. I am quite inventive and creative when it comes to business type related things, and if I am surrounded by the right type of influence. I like doing things without getting credit for my ideas or work. I care less about material things & more about the quality of my idea. I am compassionate, sensitive, & generous. I often enjoy being told what to do, if I'm learning & the advice is coming from the persons heart & not their ego. I enjoy pleasing my partner as much as I enjoy being pleased (im a virgin but astrology helped me understand this characteristic). I'm usually willing to try new things even if originally they do not appeal to me, but having good company is all that's needed.

I'm a vegan, I don't eat meat or dairy, don't drink coffee or alcohol, I'm not picky it's just a health thing. I dislike un-natural things. I believe that weed contributes greatly in longevity because it reduces stress. Weed is also great for problem solving. For me it depends entirely on the strain because some can make me totally chill, intelligent, and happy. Others give me chest pains, paranoia, and overly talkative.

Quality > Quantity!!

I'm great at detecting quality in things. I'm a bit eccentric, I plan to get dreadlocks if they work with my hair & I think I have a pretty good sense of style.
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Personality means a lot more to me than looks, which is why I'm on this forum. Trying to find somewhat similar minded person. If we talk I will get other pictures for you.



Please send me a private message or an email to [email protected]

Well, I hate that I'm doing this, but hello.
My name is Ian Cleary and I'm 18. I was diagnosed with mild AS at 12 and seem to function well most of the time socially, unless I get uncomfortable. I'm just graduated high school and plan on going to school for Marine Biology, a longtime dream of mine. After college, I plan on getting a job at woods hole and perhaps become a researcher. I am into a lot of things and am very open to other things. I like to play pen and paper roleplaying games/tabletop games, I like Marine Biology, astronomy, biology, zoology, evolutionary biology, paleontology, cosmology, physics, astrophysics, theoretical physics, xenobiology, geology, writing, reading, Star Wars, Sci-Fi in general, Anime/Manga(Most anime and manga are too unoriginal, dull, or senseless for me), Fantasy, and some other stuff. My favorite activities are scuba diving, observing and studying wild animals, stargazing, writing, reading, and playing tabletop games like Yugioh, D&D, and Warhammer. I play piano and synthesizers. I'm also a furry, but I'm at the very shallow end of the fandom and do not have any interest in the darker parts of it. In fact, I hate or dislike a good half if not more of the entire fandom.

I've never had a girlfriend because I'm too shy to ask and too eccentric. And while I'm borderline asexual, I'd like to try having one at least once. I'm interested in someone who shares my interests(or has similar interests) and who is around my age 16-19.

Orientation: heterosexual
Weight: 140 lb(I weigh so little because I used to take adderall and it made me lose my hunger. However, I am not in shape.)
Height: 5'11"
Hair color: Dark Brown
Eye color: Brown
Ethnicity: Spirish(my name for people with a mix of Celtic and Spanish ancestry)
Location: Northeastern Florida, USA
Speaks: English, Spanish, 3 year student of Mandarin (but still don't have much proficiency)
Understands: Portuguese, Catalan, a little German, Aranese, Leonese, Extremaduran, Galician, Aragones, a little Italian.

I have very few serious photos of myself.