Strange things that you find attractive in a man/woman

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05 Jul 2011, 4:26 pm

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Physical things I notice and find attractive:

1. hands
2. voice
3. eyes
4. teeth/smile
5. legs, butt
6. penis/testicles
7. reasonably athletic

Mental/emotional things (in no particular order):

1. loves kids
2. courteous driver
3. smiles/laughs easily and often
4. sweet and thoughtful
5. protective of me and ready to defend me
6. slow to anger
7. socially conscious, environmentally aware
8. stays calm when all hell breaks loose around him
9. has strong opinions, but is tolerant of others' opinions, even if they're weird
10. adores his mother
11. hard-working
12. responsible
13. can admit when he's wrong
14. reads/writes poetry (or any literature, really)
15. self-confident but modest
16. etc, etc.

I can totally give you the mental things. ;)


Oh man, I can't take myself seriously when that smilie is used. :D



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05 Jul 2011, 6:59 pm

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Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
Nerdy (if you have a star wars cookie cutter set for example)
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


There are Star Wars Cookie Cutters?!? Do they have boba fett?!


They do, but the cookies you make from it take 1000 years to digest.


Really? I'd imagined boba fett would go right through me... :D



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05 Jul 2011, 7:23 pm

Girls who, for some inexplicable and probably irrational reason wear their T-shirts in different ways at different times, sometimes untucked (a la Lionel Messi in my avatar), or at other times unexpectedly tucked.



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05 Jul 2011, 9:47 pm

Squeaky voice.
Gun-toting masculinity



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06 Jul 2011, 12:12 am

Physical attributes:
-Men with pretty eyes, usually green or blue. Long eyelashes are a plus.
-Long, strong (not incredibly muscular, but solid) arms with thick-ish wrists.
-Glasses. Not sure why, but i've been known to dig dudes with glasses.
-Broad shoulders.
-Dark hair.

Personality-wise:
-Someone who can appreciate the things I love, especially anything pop-culture related.
-Kindness. This is huge for me... people who are cruel really get to me. Someone that is willing to be good to others without expecting anything return have my adoration almost immediately.
-Humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, or at life in general, how can you survive? People who take themselves too seriously can be difficult to relate to.
-Men that play guitar.

That's really the extent of it.



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06 Jul 2011, 3:03 am

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Squeaky voice.
Gun-toting masculinity

Have you ever met someone with both? That seems almost impossible


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06 Jul 2011, 3:20 am

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JohnOldman wrote:
Squeaky voice.
Gun-toting masculinity

Have you ever met someone with both? That seems almost impossible


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06 Jul 2011, 10:27 am

metaphysics wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


I was the best student of mathematics when I was at school :P But I am much better in history and languages..

Russian Literature?

Do you like it in general or you would prefer some particular ones?

A list of writers who I like :P

Антон Павлович Чехов??

Фёдор Михайлович Достоевский??? :P

ЛевНиколаевич Толстой? :P

Борис Леонидович Пастернек??

Александр Сергеевич Пушкин???

etc.

And Vladimir Nabokov, if we can think him as an Russian one :P


Sorry didn't get back sooner...my list was more of a topics I feel are complex. I'm not a student of Russian literature but yes, have enjoyed Chekov...even had an opportunity to stay in one of his old haunts when I was vacationing in Yalta a few years back. I can read Cyrrilic enough to identify names and such, but don't speak the language. I'm actually more partial to Ukraine than Russia, truth be told.

My last 'relationship' was with an astronomy major...in quotes because it was entirely one-sided, and unrequited. When I confessed my attraction (because it seemed we had a connection), she essentially, and suddenly, broke off contact, 'de-Friended' me all in a flurry of isolation. It was the most bizarre reaction I've ever had to such a situation.



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06 Jul 2011, 12:57 pm

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I'm like 3 hours past my usual time of falling asleep, so do forgive me if I make grammatical blunders and syntax errors.

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Do any of you find certain strange traits about a woman or a man that you find attractive? For example, I am very attracted to women who play musical instruments, the more instruments, the more attractive I find them. I'm also very attracted to women who hate cooking. I guess that would be my inner-cook wanting to come out though.

How about you guys/gals? (If I haven't confused you. D:)


I can play several musical instruments :wink:
I hate cooking when I think about Male chauvinism and women's social status :lol: :lol:

Tell me you don't wear make-up and perfume and you're gold. :P



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08 Jul 2011, 1:18 am

just a few off the top of my head.

(in women)
glasses (not always in use)
Zettai Ryouiki
doesn't need to be stunning, but legs in general.



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08 Jul 2011, 2:58 am

Someone that wants to hurt me, apparently.


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08 Jul 2011, 3:40 am

AsteroidNap wrote:
metaphysics wrote:
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Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


I was the best student of mathematics when I was at school :P But I am much better in history and languages..

Russian Literature?

Do you like it in general or you would prefer some particular ones?

A list of writers who I like :P

Антон Павлович Чехов??

Фёдор Михайлович Достоевский??? :P

ЛевНиколаевич Толстой? :P

Борис Леонидович Пастернек??

Александр Сергеевич Пушкин???

etc.

And Vladimir Nabokov, if we can think him as an Russian one :P


Sorry didn't get back sooner...my list was more of a topics I feel are complex. I'm not a student of Russian literature but yes, have enjoyed Chekov...even had an opportunity to stay in one of his old haunts when I was vacationing in Yalta a few years back. I can read Cyrrilic enough to identify names and such, but don't speak the language. I'm actually more partial to Ukraine than Russia, truth be told.

My last 'relationship' was with an astronomy major...in quotes because it was entirely one-sided, and unrequited. When I confessed my attraction (because it seemed we had a connection), she essentially, and suddenly, broke off contact, 'de-Friended' me all in a flurry of isolation. It was the most bizarre reaction I've ever had to such a situation.


I don't speak it also :P except some greeting things and very basic things...

But can read a little bit...

My major is not Russian, anyway, but I would be very glad to talk with you about Антон Павлович Чехов, etc.



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08 Jul 2011, 3:42 am

Jonsi wrote:
metaphysics wrote:
Jonsi wrote:
I'm like 3 hours past my usual time of falling asleep, so do forgive me if I make grammatical blunders and syntax errors.

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Do any of you find certain strange traits about a woman or a man that you find attractive? For example, I am very attracted to women who play musical instruments, the more instruments, the more attractive I find them. I'm also very attracted to women who hate cooking. I guess that would be my inner-cook wanting to come out though.

How about you guys/gals? (If I haven't confused you. D:)


I can play several musical instruments :wink:
I hate cooking when I think about Male chauvinism and women's social status :lol: :lol:

Tell me you don't wear make-up and perfume and you're gold. :P


I usually not... :P



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08 Jul 2011, 8:54 am

Odd as in ideals or odd as in how often they actually happen? Well, I'm going with how often they actually occur.

Honest, respectful, loving, no wandering eyes, and aren't possessive.



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08 Jul 2011, 7:39 pm

Eyeliner on a man.

Sassiness in a woman.


Less strange things in both...

Kindness
Intelligence
Thoughtfulness (can manifest itself in many different ways)
Humour
Gentleness without weakness


Asking too much methinks.