Lack of popularity with the opposite sex is something I have been forced to endure over the years. It has brought me sadness, grief, loneliness, anger and frustration.
It started in my teen years and in my twenties I got to thinking even lepers could get more dates than I could.
Number of times I get asked out per year: 1 or 2. yes one or two. Doesn't give you a lot of chances to fall in love does it?
This issue used to grieve me to the point that I told a friend about it who had to go throught the same thing and she said that the "scene" changes after 35 and I would get much more sought after by then. I'm 33 so I must be getting closer to that point
It really pains you, just because you have a diagnosis of autism or similar, to think men (or in the men's case, women) won't give you the time of day but single moms, tacky loose women, women with tattoos, kids from different dads, etc, get more offers than you. Disgraceful.
Well ironically, I'm actually coupled myself, but thinking about the fact that I'm not, and never have been, sought after, pains me.
Ladies and gents, if you have a socially limiting condition like AS or autism, is not being popular with the opposite sex just our cross to bear?
If I was you I wouldn't be complaining. I can't remember the last time I got asked out. Maybe 10 years ago?
Some guys here have never had any interaction with a woman. Being asked out 2 times is a chance. And it's not abnormal not to be approached by men either.
Women get a lot of messages on dating sites. If you are truly concerned about this you should join a few. Guys have little success on them.