Should i tell

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When is it approipate to tell people you have aspergers, if at all, especially if a girl likes you?

i hav no idea

ive proven many times if i dont tell a girl early, she gets confused and confusion doesnt help build a good relationship

i hav also proven that tell a girl can hurt ur chances with her becuz she no longer sees u as relationship material
(then again these women are just horrible ppl anyway its for the best that it ends)

the trick to telling a girl to mention it in a way thats confitdent
A. make it sound importent
B. mention it casuly, like it realy doesnt bother u
C. tell her if she has questions about it she can ask them, and dont be shy about it
D. make it a note too point things out that u know u hav issues with BEFORE those issues arise
or shell think ur just making excusses
good luck, i still havnt quite figured out when to explain it to a girl

as soon as it seems needed.
along friends or housemates, it is usually sufficient to wait untill you did something 'aspie'.
however, considering girls, it is better to tell them as soon as the two of you appear to get serious.