pandorazmtbox wrote:
Yes, yes and yes! Hyperlexian...I love you (in a platonic, one aspergirl to another, OMG you are just like ME sort of way). Tea--bingo. I'm having the same trouble, both with the "is he not getting this, I mean *really* not getting this" and the "somebody's got some spectrum issues...better not go there". This feeling of not being understood has been yanking me around all summer. Sometimes, he gets me--really really gets me and my struggles--and other times, he gets upset over something I keep trying to get him to understand as a spectrum issue. The frustrating part is, I think he thinks it's something I can change, and when I don't, it's a whole new level of frustration.
I went through that with my ex-husband, who, coincidentally, is most likely AS as well. I feel for you.
Honestly, I'm going back and forth with this. I'm not sure if I've got the energy to do this right now.
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