I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list.

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Sterilized at 19? That doesn't sound like a very pleasant experience...

If I turn 60 and am still a virgin AND never gone on even one date with a woman then I know that something with me definitely isn't normal and that I'm definitely not like most normal people.

Most NTs and even most normal aspies had at least 1 date with a woman and many already had at least one girlfriend before they turned 30.

But if I turn 60 and still did not have any of that (no even one date, not at least female friend and no girlfriend) then I know that something isn't normal with me.

I'm not saying that I am some anomaly or a freak or something (although I could be) but definitely something in my brain and my body works very differently from most people on the planet, even very differenly from most aspies.

I'm probably something like 1 in a 100,000 or maybe even 1 in a million and there are only a total of 7 billion people on the planet.

Well if it's any consolation I kind of feel like a 44 year old virgin because in retrospect probably every woman I have been with has had an agenda besides simply having sex with me...

29. It's nice to be able to admit it somewhere.

I mean, it's not that I'm ashamed per se, but in a world where everyone else seems to have had multiple partners before they left their teens, It's does feel a bit isolating.

19, 20 in October, and a Virgin. It's awesome.

Don't feel bad. I'm 29 and never had a girlfriend, too. Even for an Aspie I get dejected when I come on here, because even Aspies seem to have relationships before 30 years old. Except for you and me i guess...

No, also except for me.

I am a 33 year old virgin and have never had a boyfriend. Sure there are more of us out there.

Oh, I've had relationships, it's just that they generally never last long enough to get to sex. Part of it is me; I tend to want to wait until I'm comfortable with someone before I get intimate, and generally things don't get that far. The longest relationship I've been in (about two years), was with a girl who was raised Catholic and had guilt issues every time we tried to be intimate. Eventually, it got to the point where I'd always feel kinda icky, like I was corrupting her.

I've begun to think that being in a relationship is usually not all it's cracked up to be anyway. Most of the people I know with a significant other seem unhappy.

66 years old here and never had sex, never had girlfriend, never even had a date with a woman or had a loyal female friend.

It's probably too late for me now to start a relationship with a woman but honestly I don't I care if I die a virgin buddhist or something.

I'm 19 years old, I haven't had sex...with a girl. ._. so I guess that counts.

I am a 34 year old virgin and am not at all interested in sex with another person. It just seems 'odd' but obviously most people enjoy it so more power to them. I'm also hypersensitive to touch so I don't think I'd find it enjoyable anyhow. I wish people wouldn't have such a strong reaction to someone being in their 30s or older and being a virgin.

Hmm...50 pages of people admitting that they are virgins. Sign me up on the list! 22 y/o here. I've put the relationship side of my life on hold while I get the other parts of my life together. I imagine that many here are in similar situations.

Hello folks!

This is my first post on the Wrongplanet forum.

First things first: male, 28 y. o., virgin, never even had a girlfriend

The sexual drive is said to be the strongest drive inside human beings (psychology) and it is so different with me - that is why I am right now right here on this thread. I am still struggling with all that autism diagnosis procedures, but I am getting close to giving myself a positive AS diagnosis. Almost everyone around me has had sex from the very beginning of adolescence. I must be aspie!

I am looking forward to exchanging experiences with you all.

Probably posted here before but I'll update my age. 21 year old virgin.

Guess I may as well post here, though I'm sure I've probably brought it up before. Turned 20 in November. No kiss or anything really. Closest thing I've ever had to any sort of relationship has been a couple years spent talking to this girl from across the country who only really pitied me. Got to see my childhood friend naked, but that was so long ago I'm sure neither one of us really understood anything about sexuality, just being kids. Not much other than that, really, other than being lied to or stuck in friend zones, as ridiculous an idea as they are. I don't think I'd be too hard to please; all I ask for is complete honesty, even if some things are still too personal. I'm beginning to wonder if I've just been too naive in that there would be someone "perfect" out there to find or be found by. Not saying I'm any better, but generally it seems others have no choice but to lie for their own ends, whether it's petty stuff like money or a trophy or status or whatever else.

I wouldn't doubt it's abnormal to actually try to imagine somebody "perfect", or at least paint a portrait in your mind to be with. Not anything as silly as an imaginary friend, nor to be compared to a wet dream. Nothing goes on anymore, at least for the moment, and while I have friends that I can talk to, most of my days feel so lonely I suppose that I just try to picture myself anywhere but here, with that idea of a person, trying to make it vivid. Maybe that's crazy. Probably. Crazy as trying to picture what it would be like to throw myself off a building, which doesn't make too much sense anyway considering there aren't too many around - at least none that might stand tall enough to kill you. Maybe that's too much detail.

I am a 22 year old virgin. I geuss that's a good thing if you are a women as I am waiting fir a boyfriend