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25 Sep 2011, 4:22 pm

simon_says wrote:

You're young. You could change. You just don't want to.

But if all you say is true and you don't intend to change a thing why do you care? Just give up on women, join some anime, porn and video game sites and live your life as you see fit. Do what you want.

That won't make my depression and feelings of loneliness, bitterness, and despair go away.

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25 Sep 2011, 4:38 pm

MR20 wrote:

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That won't make my depression and feelings of loneliness, bitterness, and despair go away.

prescription drugs will. you should see a psychiatrist.

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25 Sep 2011, 5:06 pm

Chronos wrote:

This should be moved to the haven.

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You people view me this way too, but would never say it because you're too polite.

Since when are we known to put niceties above truth?

Plenty of times. Like trying to give advice and hope to people on here that obviously have no chance at dating, having friends, and being happy.

Seriously do you know anyone that would go out with me, Chronos? How many of your female friends would laugh and make fun if they saw someone like me in public? I'd bet none of your males friends would want to be seen anywhere with somelike me in public.

Just be honest and say it: That I'm a pathetic and good for nothing loser, and I should just off myself.

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25 Sep 2011, 5:08 pm

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I'd say cry me a river, but you have shed enough tears to fill an Olympic sized pool. You haven't taken the smallest action towards making your situation better and you don't even want to change, so until you do that then you can keep whining but don't expect that to lead to anything productive.

I'm not whining, I'm venting. I've tried plenty of times in the past and it just hasn't worked out.

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25 Sep 2011, 5:14 pm

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Just be honest and say it: That I'm a pathetic and good for nothing loser, and I should just off myself.

Why are you quite so down on yourself? There are a lot of guys who look like total losers - me included. Do you want to play the "who's more of a loser?" game? Because I'm not getting laid or have any success with women or, well, pretty much anything either. What's your point, chief?

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25 Sep 2011, 5:35 pm

MR20 wrote:

) I'm really boring to be around and I annoy people after spending a certain amount of time with them.

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Of all the things on your long list of things you hate about yourself, this is the easiest to fix. You can fix it right this minute. All you have to do is talk about something other than all the things you hate about yourself. If you talk about literally anything else, you will instantly be more interesting. I would honestly rather listen to or read a lengthy monologue about somebody's special interest, even if I don't share it myself. There is literally nothing more boring than hearing somebody hate on themself.

You say you like anime (and porn, but I won't go there) so I looked back through your threads to see if you joined in any of the anime conversations that happen in the arts and entertainment forums here. You haven't. Or at least haven't recently enough for me to see it in the threads. So if you want to be instantly more interesting, stop talking about how much you hate yourself and talk instead about anime. Everybody else who also likes anime will immediately find you more interesting and less annoying.

This is a guarentee and it is something you could do right now, by going to one of those threads.

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25 Sep 2011, 5:43 pm

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I'm pissed at girls/women for not accepting me. I'm bitter and pissed at other men who can treat people like sh** (me) and still get dates because they're cute, fit, interesting, and my favorite, "mysterious". Of course I'm none of those things; I'm ugly, not fit, (no fat though) I'm really boring to be around and I annoy people after spending a certain amount of time with them.

Most of all I'm pissed at myself for being so f***ing inadequate. I'm weak-minded, lacking confidence and mental toughness. What decent looking girl would want a man that doesn't stand up for himself or wouldn't stand up for her if she was being disrespected.

What girl would want a man that has nothing more than a fifth grade education? I haven't read a book (literature) in my life. What would we talk about? How would we relate? There would be a lot of silence, because I'm too stupid to talk about anything interesting.

I'm also poor, jobless, never dated, friendless, slow, and a hermit. I'm 25 and I still live with my parents. I do nothing but watch anime, porn, and play video games all day.

Would be friends with someone like this let alone date? Society views people like me as scum, low-lives, and bums that are good for nothing.

You people view me this way too, but would never say it because you're too polite.

Universal answer (mine at least): in your situation the best thing you can do is step back and retool, work at resolving the issues you have with yourself via introspect and yes, healthy doses of self-improvement and putting equity back into your talents and abilities. Not in shape? Try something to remedy that. Want to be at least good at a few things that people respect? Go for it - get involved and, most importantly, learn to fall in love with the chase itself and the learning process.

What might be even more important - I'm not telling you to step away because you feel you can't land a girlfriend right now, worse - if you could land a girlfriend right now who'd love you for exactly who you are right now - she'd likely hold you back. It sounds like you have a lot of things you don't like about yourself and you'd rather find someone when you resolve as many of these things as you can than be dating someone who likes you that way, doesn't understand your desire to fix these things, and gets antsy, at best drifts because of it and at worst sabotages your efforts for fear of competition.

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25 Sep 2011, 5:59 pm

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Is there really no job you can handle, not even a part-time one?

I don't really do well around crowds of people. I start having anxiety attacks and I get really paranoid. I start to think that people are staring and laughing at me. My palms and feet get very sweaty and it's very hard to concentrate on any kind of work. (had huge problems with this while in school) Maybe if could find something online and/or home based.

Not being academically-inclined doens't make someone stupid.

Wouldn't you view someone as stupid if they spent most of their school years in special ed then dropped out after repeating the 9th grade twice?

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25 Sep 2011, 6:14 pm

Tequila wrote:

MR20 wrote:

Just be honest and say it: That I'm a pathetic and good for nothing loser, and I should just off myself.

I don't really care about sex

Are you poor? Do you still live with your parents? Did you drop out of HS? Are you friendless? Do you have a porn addiction? Do you live month to month off SSI checks and food stamps? Do you lack any impressive and useful talents/skills?

The answer to all those questions is yes for me. I am truly a pathetic loser that is beyond help.

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25 Sep 2011, 6:27 pm

MR20 wrote:

What girl would want a man that has nothing more than a fifth grade education? I haven't read a book (literature) in my life.

You know, I've been reading your posts for a long while now. You claim that you're stupid, uneducated -- I don't believe you.

Your writing, the style of it, the grammar, the rather intact syntax all tell me you're not as stupid as you think you are (or as stupid as you've been told). Your writing, in fact, scales half way between readable and hard on the Fog Scale. You say you've never read literature, but you've gotten your good diction from some place.

Because of this, I start to doubt the other things you say about yourself.

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25 Sep 2011, 6:28 pm

I agree, I have had to take a step back, several times and reboot myself. Alot of looking for answers to questions and looking for clues

the quest, the chase, however you word it. for now might be of self

It appears if you start with yourself, the rest will be easier, posssibly fall into place without effort.

They ALL don't like a man of "mystery". Some like "humor" or being "open and honest" ......

And I'll bet some like Anime and play video games, not sure about porn .....?

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And NO were not polite all the time.
but we know the feeling of what you are going thru,

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25 Sep 2011, 6:38 pm

AsteroidNap wrote:

MR20 wrote:

What girl would want a man that has nothing more than a fifth grade education? I haven't read a book (literature) in my life.

This is precisely what arose my suspicions.......

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25 Sep 2011, 6:40 pm

The OP complains about nothing. I wish that my only problem in life was not being able to attract woman.

But I have other much worse problems: my health is bad, I will never be able to drive a car in my life which really limits my mobility and I feel too sick to go to work every day so I'm in great financial trouble.

If my parents did not support me, I'd probably be dying in the street because I obviously am not strong enough to support myself.

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25 Sep 2011, 7:42 pm

anna-banana wrote:

MR20 wrote:

simon_says wrote:

That won't make my depression and feelings of loneliness, bitterness, and despair go away.

prescription drugs will. you should see a psychiatrist.

Yeah, depression can turn into a very vicious circle, where your current misery locks you into future misery. Meds can help break the circle.

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26 Sep 2011, 12:35 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Tell us something new.

I love the way boo adds that zing to a comment without being overly smart arse about it. :lol:

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26 Sep 2011, 10:35 am

Doesn't anyone find it disturbing and hypocritical that I view most women that have casual sex/friends w/ benefits relationships at evil, mean, conceited whores that should be vehemently hated, yet I have over 300 GB of porn that I jack off too 3-5 times a day.

How sick and disturbing do you find me now? I bet you though there's no way you can be more repulsed by me, and then I bring this up.

I mean I now I shouldn't have feelings like that for anyone, regardless of what they've done. Hopefully it doesn't lead to any real problems down the read. I guess years of depression, bitterness, rejection and ridicule by girls/women, jealously and loneliness caused me to develop this attitude.

I bet even more people are going to hate me now, and would could blame them.

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