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sderenzi wrote:
I find myself agreeing with both fellows, it's not worth it man. She may seem all nice and innocent in class, but in reality she's probably having sex with at least 2 fellas outside of school, and they both probably give her things to make her feel important. What I'd do if I were you is write her a note, say some things about how lonely you are, you want to get to know her more... when her reaction is "omg no" you'll be satisfied then.
You see when faced with someone elses desires a girl will either 1. accept them 2. ignore them in favor of her own What she does will determine if she'll ever seriously want to be with you.
See those other guys, they're only speaking from experiences they've had, but most of the time you're not in that 10% that has great dealings with the females.
My advice to you is sound, write her a note, tell her what you'd like, if she can't handle that she won't ever be the one you should go after. I took this approach on a girl I liked, she basically led me around and never said anything, even though I told her I was interested in a romance. Once I confronted her in a note however she backed away... girls are weaker then we think, they like guys that will agree with them, if you have some feelings and opinions they become angry or leave.
That's it :Z
You see when faced with someone elses desires a girl will either 1. accept them 2. ignore them in favor of her own What she does will determine if she'll ever seriously want to be with you.
See those other guys, they're only speaking from experiences they've had, but most of the time you're not in that 10% that has great dealings with the females.
My advice to you is sound, write her a note, tell her what you'd like, if she can't handle that she won't ever be the one you should go after. I took this approach on a girl I liked, she basically led me around and never said anything, even though I told her I was interested in a romance. Once I confronted her in a note however she backed away... girls are weaker then we think, they like guys that will agree with them, if you have some feelings and opinions they become angry or leave.
That's it :Z
I won't go into detail, but all I can say is that it's a unique situation. I can understand where you're coming from though.
She seems pretty dedicated, too. She's started talking to my friends, and they say she even went out to lunch with them one day so she could learn more about me. So I think her answer to that note you mentioned would probably be yes.
She can tell that I'm a hard to date sort of person, but still shows extreme interest. She flirts with me non-stop, even if on a few days I've found myself unable to reciprocate.
I'm pretty convinced she's the real deal, enough to give it a shot.
@Veronica: Thank you for the kind words. I plan to do exactly what you said.
@Flagg: What?
18 Jan 2007, 8:09 pm
ONce again I'm in advisor mode. 
I'm still saying it be not worth it.
mainly because I think you're just hoping for an outcome that won't ever be possible.
18 Jan 2007, 8:12 pm
Go up to her and tell her you like her. Do that in the hallways, by her locker or something (make sure you are somewhat alone). This has worked for me in the past. I can find out right away if the other person feels the same, "I like you too." I like to wait until I'm almost sure that the other person likes me. This is the only way I can seem to get a boyfriend because I don't seem to understand when a man likes me all the time and they don't make moves on me when I am single.
edit: She's probing other people for information on you. I think you're good to go 
18 Jan 2007, 10:19 pm
18 Jan 2007, 10:22 pm
Sine wrote:
I won't go into detail, but all I can say is that it's a unique situation. I can understand where you're coming from though.
She seems pretty dedicated, too. She's started talking to my friends, and they say she even went out to lunch with them one day so she could learn more about me. So I think her answer to that note you mentioned would probably be yes.
She can tell that I'm a hard to date sort of person, but still shows extreme interest. She flirts with me non-stop, even if on a few days I've found myself unable to reciprocate.
I'm pretty convinced she's the real deal, enough to give it a shot.
@Veronica: Thank you for the kind words. I plan to do exactly what you said.
@Flagg: What?
She seems pretty dedicated, too. She's started talking to my friends, and they say she even went out to lunch with them one day so she could learn more about me. So I think her answer to that note you mentioned would probably be yes.
She can tell that I'm a hard to date sort of person, but still shows extreme interest. She flirts with me non-stop, even if on a few days I've found myself unable to reciprocate.
I'm pretty convinced she's the real deal, enough to give it a shot.
@Veronica: Thank you for the kind words. I plan to do exactly what you said.
@Flagg: What?
Sine, that's a good sign! I totally do this when I'm into someone. Please keep us all posted on how this pans out! <3
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22 Jan 2007, 9:36 pm
Sine wrote:
Well... I was going to ask her friday, but she wasn't there (it was snowing so she couldn't take the bus to go from her school to ours). And today she wasn't there either, and it was the last day.
BUT
I found out today that she will be there next semester as well, which was a big relief. On top of that my friends have her phone number anyway (though it would be creepy if I randomly called her). I'll probably be able to track her down and get her screen name by the end of the schoolweek, some way or another.
BUT
I found out today that she will be there next semester as well, which was a big relief. On top of that my friends have her phone number anyway (though it would be creepy if I randomly called her). I'll probably be able to track her down and get her screen name by the end of the schoolweek, some way or another.
Asking for her screen name sounds like a good way to strike up a relationship. Well, good luck. By the way, my one brazen attempt at getting a boyfriend in highschool ended up okay, as these things usually do work out in the end. I had fun and we dated for 3 months. And I didn't get beat up
