Do you miss someone right now?

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Sextaesada
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08 Nov 2011, 2:44 am

I miss my friend.



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08 Nov 2011, 2:50 am

I do.



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08 Nov 2011, 3:41 am

Yes! :cry: Auuuuuuuuuuugh, whoever has never been kissed....make sure that you have some kind of assurance that the person who kisses you has some kind of tie that will keep you more than friends because once you go there and slide back, it hurts so badly..... loneliness afterwards 10x harder than loneliness before. :cry:


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10 Nov 2011, 9:07 am

yes. so much. every day. yes.



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10 Nov 2011, 9:27 am

Yes.



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10 Nov 2011, 2:06 pm

i miss my uncle



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10 Nov 2011, 5:16 pm

Yes. And will be missing him for another 3 days.



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12 Nov 2011, 3:59 pm

chrissyrun wrote:
Yes! :cry: Auuuuuuuuuuugh, whoever has never been kissed....make sure that you have some kind of assurance that the person who kisses you has some kind of tie that will keep you more than friends because once you go there and slide back, it hurts so badly..... loneliness afterwards 10x harder than loneliness before. :cry:


So true, Chrissyrun... I have read that female brains produce more oxytocin and more quickly, and thus we bond via physical intimacy much sooner than males can even imagine. Male brains are said to only MAYBE bond after genital intercourse, if they were already wanting to commit to someone... sheesh.

I have found that missing someone by feeling alot of emotional torment is just an experience of our own self - the negative emotions we already have stored within us from the past (even from birth and neonatal times).

Because really, no one lasts forever, we all die - so why get all stuck in a terrible bog of despair? If we love ourselves fully, no bog can capture us for long!! ! So, that's what I focus on when I feel lonesome or forlorn about a crush.

On the other hand, I always miss my grandma who died many years ago and who was my only affectionate adult relative. I've learned that the best way to honor her is to live my life to the fullest, and not get stuck in the bog of sorrow when I feel like I need a hug from her. Everything passes away, it's a fact.



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15 Nov 2011, 9:17 pm

yes



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16 Nov 2011, 11:17 pm

Not anymore...we broke-up and we loved each other but we couldn't handle the differences in religion and politics. It sucks, and he'll always have a place in my heart and I may even miss him over the next few days but I'm working on it and RIGHT NOW I don't miss him because some of the things he told me at the end made me sick and angry.


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20 Nov 2011, 12:35 am

Never stopped :cry: I hope I do stop someday. I know what happened is for the best, but still I can't help it :( Damn, it's been over a freaking YEAR, why can't stuff like this be easier for me???? :cry:

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22 Nov 2011, 4:30 pm

i think i missed someone today. it hurt like hell and im still pretty bewildered. i dont want this to ever happen again.



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22 Nov 2011, 11:32 pm

echinopsis wrote:
i think i missed someone today. it hurt like hell and im still pretty bewildered. i dont want this to ever happen again.


Freaking ya it hurts like crap, but life has to go on.


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22 Nov 2011, 11:54 pm

yes, whenever we are too busy to talk or on different schedules it's like i have a a gaping hole in my day. it makes me appreciate the times we talk, but still.



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24 Nov 2011, 1:40 pm

I wouldn't like to say his name, in order to respect his privacy. I met him on the Internet, and we chatted and chatted 'till both of us fell in love. He lived in Spain's capital city, Madrid, and I was planning to visit him, but life seemed to turn against me three times in a row, so I couldn't accomplish this issue. He broke up with me twice, and twice I secretly grieved for him, but he always came back. His words were sweet and tender. I remember how he told me how he would like to kiss me, touch me and make love to me, and I could feel it as if it was real. I was madly in love with him, and he meant everything for me.

And then, one day, he just wrote to me and said he didn't want to know about me anymore. He didn't want to keep in touch with me; not never. I cried, begged him to come back, but I got no reply.

I still love him. And it's so painful, and I feel so miserable about it.



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24 Nov 2011, 2:20 pm

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I wouldn't like to say his name, in order to respect his privacy. I met him on the Internet, and we chatted and chatted 'till both of us fell in love. He lived in Spain's capital city, Madrid, and I was planning to visit him, but life seemed to turn against me three times in a row, so I couldn't accomplish this issue. He broke up with me twice, and twice I secretly grieved for him, but he always came back. His words were sweet and tender. I remember how he told me how he would like to kiss me, touch me and make love to me, and I could feel it as if it was real. I was madly in love with him, and he meant everything for me.

And then, one day, he just wrote to me and said he didn't want to know about me anymore. He didn't want to keep in touch with me; not never. I cried, begged him to come back, but I got no reply.

I still love him. And it's so painful, and I feel so miserable about it.


I kinda know about falling in love over the internet and talking about things and I broke up with him once then he broke up with me..he did come out and meet me and give me my first kiss though, and I miss that. But going with the Thanksgiving thing...I am thankful for good looks so I will find another guy. Anyways, that really sucks for you...I know the feeling. If you ever need someone to chat with pm me anytime.


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