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That reminds me of the episode of Robot Chicken where they were spoofing Blind Date where the Alien was dating the Predator.

I'm not going anywhere need this thread

I may have asked Tea to bear my children, but have now accepted her refusal in good spirit, and moved on

I can totally identify with this. I'm completely invisible to anyone I could be interested in, but my inbox is full of messages from 48-year-old alcoholic single mothers who want to tell me why I should change my deal-breakers just so I can date them. Nope, not gonna happen.

It reminds me of George Costanza's line on Seinfeld: "When you like them, they don't you. When they like you, you don't like them."

I used to have a policy of writing everyone back -- I figured if they took the time to write, it's the decent thing to do. I don't even bother anymore. If they can't respect me enough to accept what I wrote in my profile, there's no need to take things any further.

So I can be harassed for covering myself up? No thank you.

This thread really wasn't about you. I've whined about this problem before, just never made my own thread about it.

I'm pretty sure it depends on the man. I attract both the kind that zen speaks of and the kind you speak of.

I just don't want any of them.

OMG the dutty wine . Reminds me of bashment raves in North London (shubz). Nowadays it's lots of daggering. I daggered a lesbian once


The problem is that a lot of these men are slaves to their own sexuality and seem to be totally ignorant to the idea of controlling it. Some go to the other extreme and repress it, that's not a good idea either. It's unfortunate that you and quite a lot of women have to deal with it, that's our bad......

hifive to person who knows what i'm talking about

Well I've been following this thread as well as another one written by the OP regarding her OKCupid dating profile and the amount of attention it is getting. I tried to click on that link, but just was directed to the OKCupid site, not a profile.

So at this point, I'm really curious to see what this striking person looks like. Pretty much in my opinion any female with a halfway decent rack and body is going to get some level of attention. But since this is the second such thread written and this person's sex appeal is causing her such angst, I really am curious.

I work with an aspie. She is basically attractive..although she is a little on the chubby side and very rarely fixes her hair or wears any make up. I have not seen any men in my office be drawn to her "unusual striking quality."

So really...you are a woman. You get hit on. We all do. If you are getting hit on more than what is normal I'm assuming you look like a super model, you are bi-sexual and have that listed on your profile or have some other type of reputation for being very open to alternative types of sexual experiences.

Otherwise you probably aren't getting hit on any more than anyone else.

I don't look like a super-model, never wear make-up, just barely manage to brush my hair once a day, and to my knowledge do not give off any 'I'll do anything' sexual vibes.

I am listed as bisexual, though.

BTW, I realized later that I posted the wrong link to my OKCupid account. I was just too lazy to search for that post and fix it by then.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/TeaEarlGreyHott

Milla Jovovich is a model. Angelina Jolie has modeled and has had children with Brad Pitt. Both also have phenomenal bodies. Isn't Kristen Stewart from the Twilight movies? I would not say that the average woman with AS that I have met (or any group of women) looks like these women.

I'm not sure what you mean by "many of us are a bit transgender," but if you mean:

"Relating to, or designating a person whose identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender roles, but combines or moves between these." (from Wikipedia) than you have probably exactly identified why someone who is "a bit transgender" gets hit on by as you say "the ones who do like them really notice them."

Although stereotypes are terrible things, if a guy believes that a person who looks like they do not conform to traditional sexual gender roles are women with shall we say alternative sexual preferences and will do bad things to him with every orifice on her body and will bring along a friend for good measure, than yeah they are going to get some pretty rude and disrespectful things said to them.

However I'm as feminine as they come and I have been known to receive messages from guys like "Hey I'd like to cum on your tits." My point is that it happens, it happens to most women. And we all just deal with it.

Wait... where did I say many girls with AS are a bit transgender?

Well my dear there you have it. They have visions of you and either their girlfriend or one of yours having a grand old time together.

Why certain kinds of guys think that someone who is bisexual will automatically be interested in a three some I have no idea. But you listed that you are interested in "meeting guys and girls who like bi girls" so right there you are insinuating that monogamy in the traditional sense is not necessary. Whether it is true or not, you give off the vibe that you are open to some pretty freaky people. Then when you shut them down, they feel like it was a tease.

Maybe that's not fair, but that is what is happening to you. In real life if people know this about you, then it will happen there as well.

But... my OKCupid profile gets very little traffic now. This thread is about in person and other places on the net. Not all know I am not straight, so I don't get it.

You secrete loads of pheromones.

I can smell them.

*rawr.*