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Maybe i just secretly like giving out free kisses

actually its more a reflex thing i got tired of usernames been taken so now when i create one i instinctively put the X's befor and after a significant word my current one Unforgiven is tribute to the Clint Eastwood Movie of the same name .

I guess it is more customary for GUYS to contact girls, but I am single and a little alonesome sometimes, so check it out ladies:

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/BluntedBoyWonder

Drop me a message through okcupid or here, ok? Also, I am not treating this like a Russian mail-order bride thing: you can be married, have kids, be much older or younger than me, live on the other side of the planet. I need more aspie friends... I have ZERO at the moment. So that kind of contact is very welcome too.

I officially remove myself from this list... for now.

No harm in putting myself on here, I suppose. I don't think there's much else you couldn't already gather from the info on my profile or my posts. Like to be friendly, though also to be able to discuss a lot of things. Enjoy drawing even though I'm no good at it and wish I could be as good as others. Same for writing. Much of my time is spent playing games even though I should at least be working on losing the rest of the weight I set out to the November before last. Not sure there's much more I could add, so if you want to ask me anything, or even if you're just looking to make new friends or just bored, feel free to send me a message.

30 years old (in jan 2012), interested in int. politics and other social issues & social sciences, music, philosophy, exercises (cycling & running). atheist, veggie, straight.

I already wrote about myself at "talk about yourself" thread (in 5th of jan 2012), see this page:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts27820-start1185.html

On OKcupid my username is apook_notrom written backwards (I do not like an idea that somebody at OKC would try to Google it)

Last edited by Rodland on 08 Jan 2012, 9:45 am, edited 1 time in total.

Most of my info is on Aspie Affection (username below) but I'll summarise here.

Physical
Height: 6" 4' so quite tall
Weight: 13st, thanks to exercise most of that is muscle now but that 6 pack eludes me!! !
Body Type: Slim/Average (lost weight but still have a little belly, dam that juicy beer). I run and use my exercise bike a lot.

About Me - Taken from Aspie Affection
I'm 27, I live in Birmingham [UK], I'm gay and I have aspergers (as if aspergers wasn't enough). I have a keen interest in PC Gaming, Computing and Cosmology with a laymen's interest in Science and when I am not working or gaming I'm either exercising, sleeping or having a few beers with some friends. My other interests include coffee (yeah that's a legit interest ), I'm slightly political, I would love to start going out more (not just down my local) but just feel like I need that boyfriend push, I'm a bit of a philistine but after watching Frasier I want to be more cultured lol.
I'm quite coy but very caring, I have a great sense of humour and love to make people laugh. I'm quite smart but not a know it all, I'm a very genuine and honest person and frankly I would call myself a 'nice guy'. I'm not into the whole dating scene but I would very much like to find that special someone, that's why I'm here. If you want to know more feel free to ask.

Looking For
I've been thinking about this recently and the more I do the more I would like to date someone with AS as we could 'get' each other. Our interests do not have to be exactly aligned but some overlap may help. I'm not too hung up on looks but would like to be with someone who takes care of themselves physically. I am an atheist but have no problem being with a religious person as I have an open mind. Someone local to be would be ideal but I realise that may not happen so as long as you are in the UK then that's cool, but I don't drive (driving instructors are like dentists to me lol). Apart from that I'm not too picky, if you message me and I'm not interested then I'll be honest with you and say so and won't lead you on.

Aspie Affection: Paulie_C
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/people/Paulie-Clarke/579187391

Where are you located?

I work in the kitchen of a local grammar school. I tried many dating sites or services. I had tried through so many people I know to find a girlfriend. At my job I do dish washing and food prep. I am very much into the Internet.

I am born on October 29, 1982. I do not use alcohol or tobacco. I am average weight and 6 feet. I have short light brown hair. I started college in the fall of 2008.

I am looking for a girl with similar interests to me but that's not much important. I like movies of all kinds and long walks on the beach. I love animals and have 3 dogs. I would like someone who doesn’t smoke and drinks socially or doesn’t drink at all, born in late 1977 to early 1990 that are 5 years older than me to 7 years younger than me.

I am seeking women living anywhere in New Jersey or living within 75 miles of where I usually live. I am willing to date formerly married women or single mothers whether or not they have ever been married. I'll still date a girl not driving or not having a car. I could go for smokers trying to quit as most of the smokers trying to quit don't smoke heavily. I am into making exceptions for trying to quit on smoking habits. The smoking and drinking habits are mainly what's really required along with the age range.

I tried American Singles, Yahoo Personals, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish, match, eharmony and even other sites that might or might not be there anymore. I am still on match and OK Cupid. I am currently not active on eharmony. I am also on a free Christian site.

My name is Graham Crawford. I am a man who is 20 years old, 174 pounds, 6'2", I am caucasian, and I have dark brown hair. I have Aspergers syndrome, and I knew about this since I was eight years old. I live in Larchmont, NY, which is in Southern Westchester County, NY, and is less than forty minutes by train from Grand Central Station in Manhattan. I go to college in a town in upstate New York where I major in plant science, but I want to find a girl (between the ages of 18 and 23) who lives in New York City, because I live closer to the city when I am not in college, and the people in my colleges town are not my type (way too rural for my taste).
My favorite activites are: cooking and baking
excersising (4 times a week or more)
growing plants
video games (mariokart wii, jak 3, and angry birds are my favorites. I hope to play more over the years)
My favorite shows are: Adventure Time, Regular Show, 30 Rock, The Office, Iron Chef, and Invader Zim
My favorite books are: The Chronicles of Narnia series, the Harry Potter series, The Davinci Code, and the Lost Symbol
My favorite movies are: Avatar, District 9, the Hangover, and any movie by Dreamworks animation or Pixar
Favorite Music: Led Zeppilin, ACDC, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, They Might Be Giants
Political views: Democrat
About me: I live in Larchmont with my mother, father, sister and grandfather. My dad is a minister at the church right next to the house I live in, my mom teaches religion at Colby University in Maine, and my sister goes to Bard University. I am very environmentally concious. I recycle all the papers, plastic and aluminum in the house I live in, walk to places less than three miles away, and charge my iPod with solar energy. I am very caring, and I will listen to what you have to say. I hope to hear from someone soon.
P.S. I heard about this website from the New York Times

Where in New York do you live?

Well I'm a 16yo guy with Asperger's, and I suppose the chances of finding any girls in north-east England are rather slim, given the my experience of Newcastle, but it's worth a shot Oh well, I'll be making an effort to check my inbox occasionally if anyone feels like replying

Reposting now that I'm single again, but with a few modifications:

I am a 27-year-old male in Indiana, majoring in computer science. Lots of people have told me that I look much younger than 27, and in most respects in my life it's just like I'm only 21 or so. I'm 6'1" and at a normal weight. I have some acne, still. I wear glasses. I am completely straight.

I am looking for someone living within about a 6-hour drive of northern Indiana. I've tried a transcontinental relationship, but decided that the expense of seeing her (as well as the time before I conceivably could!) was just too great. $100-$200 in gas is OK, but $1,000-$2,000 to fly overseas is not.

I have always played a LOT of video games, and have tended to focus on one or just a few games at a time. I am currently playing Guitar Hero, Mario Kart Wii and Dance Dance Revolution. For those who also play or at least know about these games, I can 5-star about 90% of songs on Expert in Guitar Hero, usually have a VS rating over 9000 (max is 9999) in Mario Kart Wii, and can get AA's on almost everything 9 feet and below in DDR. Besides that, there's a smattering of various online flash games that I play as well. I have to hit myself not to go into even further detail about my video game skills...

I am majoring in computer science largely because I hope to someday make my own video games or be part of a game development team. I am also excellent at math and have chosen some high-level math courses as electives, and may go ahead and make it a math minor. I get mostly A's. Most of my non-A grades will probably be in general-education requirements. I will graduate in either December 2012 or May 2013.

I like to be clear and direct in any friendship or relationship. Given that this is an autism spectrum forum, it almost goes without saying that hints are almost completely lost on me. Even if I do get an idea of what something might be hinting at, I hesitate to actually act on it since I'm far from sure. I'm sure many women browsing these forums feel the same way. I want someone who is willing to talk directly to me about everything in the relationship, even if it is considered "too soon" or "too forward" by neurotypicals. You don't have to be on the autism spectrum yourself - an interest in how the Aspie brain works is enough. I do want someone who can handle touch, though.

Right now, I think I only want to go after real relationships - NO one-night stands. I want to minimize my risk of an STD, and each new sex partner carries some risk of an STD. As a result, my standards on appearance are low. You can be morbidly obese, or have no breasts at all, or have acne... all I ask is no significant armpit/facial/leg hair, which is something women can actually control. I would rather be with an honest and somewhat nerdy but ugly woman than a perfect-10 with whom I have nothing in common, or who lies to me a lot.

Brooklyn

My name is Annetta (Annie) and I am 23 years old, have Asperger's Syndrome, diagnosed.
I'm single, and just looking to casually date in the Seattle area.
I don't have a lot going for me currently. Moved back home, waiting for school to start, have a broken down car. If that detours you, don't worry. I have the school thing covered for March, car thing by July or August, and the home thing when I'm done with my AA. Which would take a few years, but hey, at least I'm taking the plunge and following my dreams!

I'm looking for someone who has mastered the art of common sense with basic life skills. I don't really know a lot about the world and people seem to be aggravated by it more than compassionate. I'm a quick learner, I always have a lot of questions.

It would be a plus if you're good with animals, like art, and vodka.

Wanna go out for a drink? I'll meet you there. Don't pick me up, though; don't want anyone to meet my family right off the bat. That's way too awkward.

19 year old London girl. Am a bit clueless at times when it comes to the social side of things.
Heh well am a university student at the moment. Am into films, books, outdoor activities.

17 yr old female lives about 30 mins from san francico, california
i am the shortest person you will ever meet thats not a dwarf (4'9)
i am suspected to have autisim syndrome but have never got tested
i am a shy person at first but then i can open up and talk my mouth off
i have dark brown hair and brown eyes
i love to read and watch romance
i still play with dolls though i dont talk about them constantly they are a big part of my life
im scared of heights and skipping out on an oppertunity
im looking for a male that is 14-20 yrs old in or out of my area
pm me if your intrested