The hardest thing about being single

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For me it is that I have no one to kiss, cuddle or hug, no one to share life with and to make memory's with it would also feel nice to be loved not just liked , to not be the little brother or the good friend , to mean something more to people.

1. Nobody to cuddle, kiss, hug, or otherwise touch even if I don't have sex.

2. Having to watch the occasional public makeout session, with nobody to make out with myself.

3. Having to wonder if I'll ever be able to have kids.

any decent surgeon, on a first c-section with no previous scarring/adhesions, will be able to be in and out ["skin to skin"] in a half hour, tops. when i worked in L&D that was the average surgery time for most first c-sections. there is a uterine surgical incision and staple system which cuts time drastically, they make a small uterine incision, then they insert the device and it makes the bilateral incision and seals off the incision edges simultaneously. all that is left is to sew the uterus closed once the placenta is extracted and the endometrium is policed of any remaining placental tissue. you might ask the surgeon for a "plastic closure" [careful edge-to-edge tissue approximation using close-order fine sutures]. they can also suffuse the area with a local anaesthetic during the closure to minimize post-surgical pain if they give you a general. you should discuss this with your anaesthetist/surgeon during the pre-op. the thing to remember concerning c-sections, are that they will [unless it is emergent] give you regional anesthesia [something like a spinal or epidural] and you will be awake [but numbed from the abdomen down] during the procedure, and because of this they will at least give you a good look at your newborn, and they generally won't rush the infant out unless s/he is in need of neonatal intensive care for one reason or another. the present practice is to keep you and baby together from the get-go, as much as possible. you will have matching ID bands you will both wear for the duration of your hospitalization. during your recovery you will become acquainted with your belly pillow and encouraged to walk. you will make it through alright.

Waking up in the morning and the other side of the bed is cold.

No tits.

Oh wait, here's some.

Actually, we got into bird watching a bit, I kind of miss it.