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26 Jan 2012, 5:14 pm

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if you ever suspect a sockpuppet, please report them, Henbane. nothing matches in this case - i already checked. :lol:


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26 Jan 2012, 5:19 pm

Apologies to Jackolantern if you intend only to be helpful to Grisha.
That's all I want too.

I saw your addition to your last post, and I can definitely relate to what you say, and to your advice about cherishing children.



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26 Jan 2012, 5:30 pm

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Apologies to Jackolantern if you intend only to be helpful to Grisha.
That's all I want too.

I saw your addition to your last post, and I can definitely relate to what you say, and to your advice about cherishing children.


Thanks Henbane, I only intend to offer help to him. We all have been down that dark path. Sorry Grisha if I came off harsh, because of my condition (not able to have kids) i get furious when people focus so much on dating and not their children.



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26 Jan 2012, 5:35 pm

Please, everyone remember that there are two sides to every story.

Feel free to PM me personally if you'd like to know what's going on.



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26 Jan 2012, 5:37 pm

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Please, everyone remember that there are two sides to every story.

Feel free to PM me personally if you'd like to know what's going on.


Yes there is always.



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26 Jan 2012, 5:39 pm

Henbane wrote:
Apologies to Jackolantern if you intend only to be helpful to Grisha.
That's all I want too.

I saw your addition to your last post, and I can definitely relate to what you say, and to your advice about cherishing children.

yeah it was a totally reasonable suspicion. i suspected too. :lol:

and Grisha, that is absolutely true.


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26 Jan 2012, 5:43 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Henbane wrote:
Apologies to Jackolantern if you intend only to be helpful to Grisha.
That's all I want too.

I saw your addition to your last post, and I can definitely relate to what you say, and to your advice about cherishing children.

yeah it was a totally reasonable suspicion. i suspected too. :lol:

and Grisha, that is absolutely true.


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26 Jan 2012, 6:28 pm

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MHX i do not believe you hijacked this thread. Grisha maybe you could maintain a relationship if you stop whining about things. You have had a relationship that has given you kids, so many of us cannot even make it that far. You are more blessed than you think. Instead of focusing on maintaing or even having a relationship you should be focusing your energy on building a relationship with your children. They are your legacy. As you see relationships come and go but kids are going to be there in the end. Maybe once you build a strong tie with your children you will see that one person may be right in front of you. In regards to going anywhere to meet a woman. Grisha there are women all around you, do you take your kids on trips with you? Have you flown with them somewhere recently to show them different parts of the country or culture.


You sure know a lot about me for someone with four posts. Hmm...


with how much you make things public its not hard to just follow your post history and learn


Aye, but a person just joining the site today, just randomly picks this thread out of all the others, and reads all of Grisha's relevant past posts? Without having some sort of ulterior motive/involvement in the situation? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

Having said that, I do agree that spending lots of time with his kids is a good thing, and that they are the most important people in his life.

I'm sure Grisha knows that though, and already does spend lots of time with them.


[b]Most astute observation, Henbane! Indeed, something is rotten in Denmark!



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26 Jan 2012, 6:31 pm

HopefulRomantic wrote:
Henbane wrote:
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MHX i do not believe you hijacked this thread. Grisha maybe you could maintain a relationship if you stop whining about things. You have had a relationship that has given you kids, so many of us cannot even make it that far. You are more blessed than you think. Instead of focusing on maintaing or even having a relationship you should be focusing your energy on building a relationship with your children. They are your legacy. As you see relationships come and go but kids are going to be there in the end. Maybe once you build a strong tie with your children you will see that one person may be right in front of you. In regards to going anywhere to meet a woman. Grisha there are women all around you, do you take your kids on trips with you? Have you flown with them somewhere recently to show them different parts of the country or culture.


You sure know a lot about me for someone with four posts. Hmm...


with how much you make things public its not hard to just follow your post history and learn


Aye, but a person just joining the site today, just randomly picks this thread out of all the others, and reads all of Grisha's relevant past posts? Without having some sort of ulterior motive/involvement in the situation? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

Having said that, I do agree that spending lots of time with his kids is a good thing, and that they are the most important people in his life.

I'm sure Grisha knows that though, and already does spend lots of time with them.


[b]Most astute observation, Henbane! Indeed, something is rotten in Denmark!



Hopefully Romantic if you searched being single this post was actually one the first on there. Also I did not read any of his previous post before if you read this thread i only spoke on what was here.



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26 Jan 2012, 6:50 pm

I can't believe how out of hand this is getting.

Mods please lock this thread at my request.



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26 Jan 2012, 6:58 pm

Yes i agree Grisha its starting to get a little crazy in here



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26 Jan 2012, 7:17 pm

Henbane wrote:
MXH wrote:
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Jackolantern wrote:
MHX i do not believe you hijacked this thread. Grisha maybe you could maintain a relationship if you stop whining about things. You have had a relationship that has given you kids, so many of us cannot even make it that far. You are more blessed than you think. Instead of focusing on maintaing or even having a relationship you should be focusing your energy on building a relationship with your children. They are your legacy. As you see relationships come and go but kids are going to be there in the end. Maybe once you build a strong tie with your children you will see that one person may be right in front of you. In regards to going anywhere to meet a woman. Grisha there are women all around you, do you take your kids on trips with you? Have you flown with them somewhere recently to show them different parts of the country or culture.


You sure know a lot about me for someone with four posts. Hmm...


with how much you make things public its not hard to just follow your post history and learn


Aye, but a person just joining the site today, just randomly picks this thread out of all the others, and reads all of Grisha's relevant past posts? Without having some sort of ulterior motive/involvement in the situation? Seems a bit unlikely to me.

Having said that, I do agree that spending lots of time with his kids is a good thing, and that they are the most important people in his life. I'm sure Grisha knows that though, and already does spend lots of time with them.


to be honest, that guy doesn't seem like a sock puppet to me. Also it's not uncommon to look through peoples posts when they spark a topic that you want more information on.

He just seems like a guy who thinks Grisha should be grateful for the success he's had.



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26 Jan 2012, 7:19 pm

Yus, I've already apologised for that one. Please stop quoting me on it peoples!



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26 Jan 2012, 7:19 pm

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He just seems like a guy who thinks Grisha should be grateful for the success he's had.


If this is "success" then I'll take failure any day of the week... :wink:



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26 Jan 2012, 7:20 pm

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to be honest, that guy doesn't seem like a sock puppet to me. Also it's not uncommon to look through peoples posts when they spark a topic that you want more information on.

He just seems like a guy who thinks Grisha should be grateful for the success he's had.


Contrary to popular belief if you go back to page two you would see me saying the exact same thing to grisha



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26 Jan 2012, 7:26 pm

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hale_bopp wrote:
He just seems like a guy who thinks Grisha should be grateful for the success he's had.


If this is "success" then I'll take failure any day of the week... :wink:


:lol:

It will all work out in the end