sexy dream about best friend

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so im a guy and shes not, ive known her for years and i used to have a really bad thing for her but thats in the past i wouldnt have gotten an apartment with her if was still after her. last night i had a really hot dream about her and me, if it were just that then i wouldnt be here but these past few days she been so hot and shes been spending even more time than usual with me, this is really confusing and it really sucks, what should i do?

Let her know how you feel about her if you think you'll make something out of it...don't delay it!

I'm going through something similar right now. I've been friends with this girl for about 9 years now, but I never had any real feelings for her. That was probably because she's always had a boyfriend. But recently, she's single again, and I started having really strong feelings for her. I told her about them but she said she wasn't interested in a relationship at this time, but we both agreed to let whatever happens happen. For now, we're still friends, and actually spending more time with each other than before.

I suggest you just be open about your feelings if you are starting to be attracted to her. If you are friends I'm confident that neither of you will do anything that will jeopardize your friendship if you were to take it to the next level.

thing is i live with her, being honest opens all sorts of doors and alot of them lead to me moving which i really dont want to do right now

Well, there's four things you could do.
1. Ignore it and hope it goes away.
2. Tell her about the dream ("I apologize if this offends you, but I had this really weird dream...") and then gauge her reaction and act accordingly.
3. Drop indirect hints that you're availible/interested (probably most difficult, and I have no idea what such hints would be...also probably won't work if she's not good at reading signals).
4. Put all your cards on the table ("This is awkward, but you're my friend and I feel like I should tell you this because your friendship means a lot to me: I'm becoming attracted to you. Let me know if that's a problem so I can stop it before it takes root.") and hope for the best.