aspergers man tells me to piss off

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I know how much rejection can hurt and I've been there myself but I think the best thing do in this case is to just leave him alone. He doesn't want to be with you and that is his right and unfortunately we can't force someone to want to be with us.

It's really hard to say without knowing why he got so agitated and ended contact (were you arguing about something?), and how long the 'intimate contact' had been going on previous to the shutdown?

He doesn't like you, it doesn't matter if he is actually an Aspie, same s**t, guy is not interested. Get over it.

insufficient information. We don't know whether the 'shoo' was temporary (as in he is feeling overwhelmed/overstimulated and needs to calm down and will be fine later) or permanent. Until we know that...

Just because he is not interested in her doesn't mean he is an ass. Maybe he is just not attracted to her and I think she just needs to accept it and move on. You can't force someone to want to be with you, not matter how much it may hurt.

He's not into you and is either a jerk or doesn't have the social skills to reject you in a way that is usually acceptable.
I'd follow the advice of many here and move on. Rejection isn't failure, it's simply a case of someone not wanting you.

140lbs put it nicely though, you can do anything you want.

If I was a woman in that situation I would slap him in the face.

Of course it doesn't. Telling her to "shoo", though, does.

Well, I wouldn't entirely blame his Asperger's for being that way. If perhaps we knew a little more about the situation it'd help.

I agree we dont have enough info

Lol

She can't, it was done in an email I think.

I don't think it's possible to dismiss him as a jerk without knowing more about the events leading up to the rejection.