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PastFixations
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29 Jun 2012, 9:25 am

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Oh don't get me wrong. I wouldn't befriend a girl and hope for more than that. I'd state if I had feelings during the first time of seeing each other.
That way, it's direct and not confusing to the recieving end. Also I'd have a direct response as opposed to mixed messages.
It's also overwhelming and a bit much. Don't go professing undying affection right away.
Yeah but after a few days you just become a friend.


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29 Jun 2012, 9:33 am

PastFixations wrote:
Nikorvus wrote:
PastFixations wrote:
Oh don't get me wrong. I wouldn't befriend a girl and hope for more than that. I'd state if I had feelings during the first time of seeing each other.
That way, it's direct and not confusing to the recieving end. Also I'd have a direct response as opposed to mixed messages.
It's also overwhelming and a bit much. Don't go professing undying affection right away.
Yeah but after a few days you just become a friend.
This is true. I think it's perfectly acceptable, required even, to show it and quickly. But saying it may well be too much.

At least that's my experience.


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