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Aspie Male looking for healthy aspie female in the vicinity of Charlotte, North Carolina. I am 5' 7", curly brown hair, green eyes.

Western Canada - come get me!

Aspie male 6 ft 1 looking for aspie female or extremely understanding NT female. I am a Libra left handed whos interests include Anime, video games, science sci fi cars and Asian cultures. I am a bit shy at first in person but warm up quickly and can be very passionate and romantic at times. Quirkes maybe being repetetive, stimming hyperactivitie and fairly high libido. I enjoy listening to rock alternative some metal and alot of trance techno and dubstep. I enjoy going out at night for walks or for a couple drinks once in a while I also enjoy going to the beach. Otherwise I enjoy staying home playing video games watching anime sci fi or cartoons or something on the discovery channel. If I was with that special someone I do enjoy snuggling very much so. I live in the san francisco bay area.

I'm really shy and it takes me a long time to warm up to people I meet but once I get to know and trust you I can be a great person to be around. I guess you could say that I have a quirky side to me.

I absolutely love reading but I'm picky about my books. I mainly read fiction and mostly drama or books about real life. I'm not really into the whole fantasy, science fiction thing. I really like playing Wii and I love simulation types of games like The Sims and Animal Crossing. I'm addicted to Nancy Drew PC games. I love traveling and learning about new cultures. I've been to quite a few American states, England, The Bahamas and Mexico. In Canada I've been to Prince Edward Island, New Brunswick, Quebec, British Columbia and obviously Ontario and Alberta. I like all kinds of music, I'll listen to just about anything. I love animals! I have two dogs and 3 cats. I love theme parks like Canada's Wonderland. I really like learning about psychology, particularly about personalities and traits as individuals.

I have my Early Childhood Education diploma and I graduated from Durham College with honours. I'm currently working at my home daycare and I'm planning on going back to college in September of 2012.

I'm half Dutch and half Filipino so you can say that I get the best of both worlds. I have two tattoos and a belly button piercing.

I look for guys who have respect for women as well as respect for themselves and of course for me as well. I look for guys who aren't selfish and are kind. Someday I'd like to settle down after I find that special somebody. I like to get to know guys and talk to them a little bit whether it be through MSN or e-mail first before going out with them. I'd also describe myself as a really open-minded person. I tend to gravitate towards guys who are open-minded, intelligent but at the same time have a little bit of an "edge" to them. I'm big on personality though. I'm NOT looking for a one night stand. I'm hoping for something a bit more serious, I'm open to meeting girls for friends as well.

Message me if you would like to chat.

36 F TX

Hi,

28 year old, black female, american, military, diagnosed Aspie.

Looking for intelligent guys to chat with (I live in Korea at the moment).

32, straight, male. I live in Bern, Switzerland but I originally come from Sheffield in northern England. I've got a stable career as a senior software developer and I really love my job. I'm fortunate to have found my current employers as they're a really great bunch of people and compared to some of the gigs I've had in the past I really feel that I've finally sorted this aspect of my life. I don't have an AS diagnosis but seeing a specialist about AS is on my todo list. While I'm pretty well integrated in some respects and can come across as NT, I also feel that there are certain facets of me that are definitely in the AS world.

My physical appearance tends to mask some of my AS characteristics: I'm 6 foot 3 and about 230 pounds, fairly social and have been doing various forms of martial arts for the last 6 years so physically I can appear quite confident yet I simply cannot read between the lines and can't play the game, whatsoever. It really frustrates me. I can be overly sensitive at times, especially when people try to rush me or pressure me into doing things spontaneously, it can make me very anxious. I'm into predictability and order when it comes to doing stuff which has been the source of problems in past relationships, of which there have only been a couple. Too much social activity exhausts me mentally and I've noticed that I need to withdraw to recover if I overdo it. There are times when I'm out and about where I feel totally in control and think that I've finally cracked all the unwritten social codes, yet there are other times where I feel like I'm a passenger in my own body, like watching a film entirely in first person perspective where I don't really know what's going on. Despite my size and drastically short haircut I would definitely class myself as a big softie and I really warm to people who show a bit of understanding and are compassionate, thoughtful and tolerant. Conversely I get turned off by people who are inconsiderate, materialistic, superficial or egotistical and I'm not particularly good at hiding this no matter how hard I try.

I'm into programming, cooking, gardening, fishing, martial arts, history and anything technical. I'm a devout atheist and don't really have a spiritual side. I love dogs. I find them to be really loyal, honest and great company. I'd love to have one again but I just can't afford the space or time and it wouldn't be fair on the dog. My long term ambition is to find myself a life partner, set up a permaculture farm in the countryside, get a dog or two and remove myself from all the hectic and materialistic stuff in the world. Find true inner peace.

I'm not on any dating site although I have used them in the past with very limited success, but I'd be very happy to receive a PM or two and see how things pan out from there.

I gave up dating almost 8 years ago to this day. Life just seems so much easier without emotions clouding things up.

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Aspie, 25, NYC, 5'5, female, straight, Hispanic, curvy, not at all religious

i guess i'm here because i'm turning 25 in a few weeks and the fact that i've never been in a relationship is kinda appalling. plus, this is where the cream of the crop is, right?

i think i'm unapproachable to most nice, normal guys. not sure why... men who do approach me are usually sleazy (hey, mami! i like that body. can i get yo numba?) or way too old (i'm here with my grandson. no, i'm not kidding.) so yeah, i live in perpetual singledom.

i live in Queens in NYC and have for pretty much my entire life. i wish i lived elsewhere though. some day i'd like to head overseas. I'm in my last year of grad school so now i have to work out what to do with my life, especially if i don't want to be a librarian in the middle of nowhere.

i was diagnosed a few years back but i wasn't at all surprised. my special interest is japan and everything and anything about it. (i've spent hours reading on subjects like "japanese toilets" and "medieval life in japan.") it was english literature when i was a child. i also love information in general and am usually researching five different useless matters at a time.

people generally describe me as intelligent, witty, and nice. i'm not always friendly but i'm quite nice. i take a while to warm up but once i do the jokes runneth forth.

right i guess i should put in what i'm looking for:

male, 22-28 (+/- 2 years on special occasions, lol), somewhere in my geographic area, unless you plan to lure me to a far off place, intelligent, pleasant (or terribly moody if you're so hot people are willing to put up with it), literate (cause i read, a lot), funny/witty, not religious (that's important).

i rather like tall gingers but rupert grint is unavailable so i've decided to be open-minded. (only half joking)

Hi, I'm a 22 year old male with aspergers.

I'm straight, friendly, nice, and fun to be around.
I have deep interest in computers, but who here doesn't?

I'm hoping that this site will help me find an woman with AS who can connect with me and get to know each other better. I prefer to start as friends first and then move to a relationship later.

I'm looking for an woman who also has AS, is between 20-25 likes computers or doesn't mind me working on the computer a lot, and she should be near Delaware or D.C.

I also am fine with online friends as well.

Feel free to PM me if interested.

31 years old, 5'11", Possible Aspie, Diagnosed ADD/ADHD (Diagnosed as a Child),

I seek a woman that shares similar interests as myself. I like cars guns racing camping offroading video games and a few other things.

I also have a penchant for all things that are BDSM related but have had no luck finding a partner that is willing to experiment.

I also have a hard time finding a woman that can deal with my personality quirks. It is hard for me to explain but mostly I am very blunt and I don't do subtle very well(I think this is a social cues issue).

If any ladies might be interested shoot me a message.

Female, lesbian/queer, 21, White British, 5ft 6, average weight from South East England. Could have Aspergers, I don't think I do, but at the very least, I definitely share traits. Diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (On the border of psychotic and neurotic). I also have ADD but my psychiatrist didn't want to diagnose it officially on my medical files because of my BPD diagnosis.

I don't know how to tell people about myself because I'm not very interesting. xD I am a nice person, even if I'm a bit weird and strange since a lot of people say I am.

I like gaming, internet, movies, music, TV, sci-fi, computer, mobile phone, LGBTQ rights, cosplaying, pasta, and I forgot to mention I LOOOOOVE languages, and I wish I could speak every single language and go to every country in the world!

I'm looking for friends of all/any gender identifies and sexuality identities, as well as possible dating/relationship with a female. Online friends are also OK.

I don't think anyone on here lives local to me, excluding one guy who actually introduced me to this site.

Awesome, a Ulysses-31 fan!!

Awesome, someone who recognises where my avatar came from