Virginity

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Virgin is a good thing when you are healthy! A girl or women hears 'virgin' is really good thing for a guy because she knows you are superb clean and she would love to enjoy her time teaching a guy what is all about sex! That is fun part.

I am a virgin and waiting for this right moment. Nothing perfect. Just let it happen when they are letting themselves get into the situation. Like Tim Tex's situation with FWB. So nothing is wrong. Just smile and talk to the ladies, make them laugh and be good guy. Then there it goes your reward!

NB: Do not ever use alcohol!

I read up the tropes on Virginity today, and it it seems Virgin Makes you Stupid, Virgins have Powers and Virgins are desirable.

Strange tropes, but there you go.

That's a hard one.

Hi theimp!

I'm a female and I would definitely see this as a tremendously good thing!! yeah, the biological aspect of being STD free, etc but mostly because you don't have that experience, you and your partner can learn together. If you go off and learn these things with a prostitute, you may get stuck in the rhythm of it (i.e. learn a few moves, how to do certain things and assume that's how it's done with every partner). Sex is different with everyone and every woman likes and needs different things, just as men do.

Personally, I'm 27 and have limited sexual experience. The guys I have been intimate with, dislike this fact and get frustrated easily if I don't know what I'm doing or make a move they don't like. I too have thought about just finding some random guy to sleep with in order to get more experience, but in saying that - trying to get intimate with someone I'm not connected to isn't enjoyable for me.

Seriously though, it's not weird, it's not 'bad'. The girl you fall for should hopefully be a down to earth, decent girl who sees this and allows you to take your time and understands that it's a learning process.

Hope that helped

I'd like to meet the same girls you guys are meeting; a lot of girls now hate when the guy is a virgin.

Okay, is having sex really that difficult? There are only so many ways to have sex, shouldn't you be able to find one that works for you and your partner in 5 minutes?

Well, I am 34 and I had to pay to lose my virginity just 3 years ago. I've only done this five times since then and haven't for more than a year now. I am not very good and it kind of turns me off to sex and makes me want to stay a loner. I envy you because you have some luck in getting attention. I have NEVER had any girl show me any positive signs or I'm just not wired to see them. And even if I did know a girl liked me, I'd worry too much about what to do or say or if any move on my part is being too forward. My feeling is that if you want it then you should try to go for it. I am starting to beleive that I don't want it any more.

But a topic like this reminds me of why I hate people. They always have to assume that someone is experienced past their mid teens and if not then they are wierd. They have no idea what people like us have to go through. I wish DNA wasn't controlling us so much and we could actually do something else besides think like monkeys for once.

I really don't get why being a virgin is a bad thing... I would much prefer someone inexperienced because that's what I am. A guy with experience makes me uncomfortable.

Being a virgin or least inexperienced to sex is better because:

1. Minimized bad attitude
2. Disease free
3. Not following the foot steps of the society

It not hard to think about 'oh my god, I'm a virgin, need to get rid of it because of the others'. Seriously, that saying refers to point no.3 (see above).

Most women approach to aspie guy is very shallow. Shallow women are usually found who does things in terms of following the society. Loud mouthed women, fouled mouth, party chick and that related kind of personality. Society is damaged from them.

To lose my virginity, is the right one. Who does not follow the society.

Don't worry, if the woman cares about you she'll be patient. Someone you're friends with first or that you've been seeig for a while, so that some trust builds up, might be best as she's more likely to be patient and kind.
You've nothing to lose anyway! Er...you know what I mean! And you're not that old, I know NTs who despite good looks and personality were older before they found a girl they could connect with enough to get into an intimate situation.
You'll know what to do anyway, there might be some initial shyess or awkwardness (or maybe not, I don't know you so I can't say!) but nature WILL kick in. And if you're with a more experieced lady you ca think of it as allowig her to train you in the ways of love so be prepared to listen to her!

This is based on personal experience.... there's a great lover in there waiting to be unleashed!!