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10 Sep 2012, 1:54 pm

Why is it that when a guy has sex with an NT (Nerotypical) he marries her, but the girl has a Learning Disability, he has sex with her and doesn't marry her?



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10 Sep 2012, 1:56 pm

That's just a bit of a broad generalization, isn't it?


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10 Sep 2012, 2:10 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
That's just a bit of a broad generalization, isn't it?


Very broad. Though it does seem the author may have a personal bias in this??



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10 Sep 2012, 2:17 pm

OP, did this guy sleep with you and ditch you, therefore everyone like you gets ditched?
I'm sorry this happened to you but you're way off. There's plenty of women down my way who complain about the same thing..while I think some of them are crazy I don't think all of them have mental health issues.



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10 Sep 2012, 2:23 pm

Why is it that women will have sex with men they're not married to, and then complain when the man doesn't marry them?

Google "Free Milk & The Cow" sometime...


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10 Sep 2012, 2:25 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
OP, did this guy sleep with you and ditch you, therefore everyone like you gets ditched?
I'm sorry this happened to you but you're way off. There's plenty of women down my way who complain about the same thing..while I think some of them are crazy I don't think all of them have mental health issues.


~ahem~
Yes, it's just one of those 'things' that blokes do. We lure you into the sack, have sex with you like a crazed weasel, then never call you again. Sort of a predatory male behavior. Happens to NT girls all the time.


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10 Sep 2012, 2:30 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
OP, did this guy sleep with you and ditch you, therefore everyone like you gets ditched?
I'm sorry this happened to you but you're way off. There's plenty of women down my way who complain about the same thing..while I think some of them are crazy I don't think all of them have mental health issues.
~ahem~ Yes, it's just one of those 'things' that blokes do. We lure you into the sack, have sex with you like a crazed weasel, then never call you again. Sort of a predatory male behavior. Happens to NT girls all the time.

As the saying goes...

Women offer sex in exchange for love.
Men offer love in exchange for sex.


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10 Sep 2012, 4:13 pm

As the saying goes:
women want a relationship
men want sex


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10 Sep 2012, 4:19 pm

Fnord wrote:
Why is it that women will have sex with men they're not married to, and then complain when the man doesn't marry them?



This.

If you got laid, you got exactly what you put out right back.



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10 Sep 2012, 6:54 pm

Shadowcat wrote:
Why is it that when a guy has sex with an NT (Nerotypical) he marries her, but the girl has a Learning Disability, he has sex with her and doesn't marry her?


The guy screwing around doesn't marry the NT either.



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10 Sep 2012, 7:05 pm

I'll marry everyone in this thread if you guys aren't careful. o_O



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10 Sep 2012, 7:11 pm

meems wrote:
I'll marry everyone in this thread if you guys aren't careful. o_O


Can you cook and clean, then? :P



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10 Sep 2012, 7:17 pm

meems wrote:
I'll marry everyone in this thread if you guys aren't careful. o_O

One at a time, or all together?


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