I love this girl...

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She's so sweet, I just want to be close to her, and hold her; give her shelter and a comfortable life. But I know the chance of me ever meeting her is slim, I just hope that one day she'll tell me if we're more than friends.

She's tough, a rebellious queen tatted up and pierced all over, but I've always had a thing with these kinds of girls. she has scars over her body, and she denies her beauty, but I love her for the whole of who she is. I just don't want to screw up my relationship, if any with her.

Are you two friends already or do you just know her casually from somewhere?

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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truth is I met her on a camsite, it was 18+ and nudity was allowed. She says I'm cute; kind of handsome, a big teddy bear to snuggle with. she kind of reminds me of my mom, but not so judgemental... My friend tried killing himself a few days ago, overdosed on his medication; she stuck with me through it, she must be a friend if she's willing to go that far.

I just love who she is, what she stands for, she's a bit of a nymphomaniac, But I have my own libido to be satisfied, I think we'd go along well together, seeing how I'm a foot taller than her, she was surprised to see me standing, as I'm sort of brutish.

Like I said, I'm cute to her, she says my personailty is lovely, and that she and I get along on a closer level. and I've always been a sweetheart to women older than me; they've always been so kind, and I've just been there. she's a couple years older than me, but she follows a philosophy similar to mine, come as you are, and forgive when needed, abandon when it consumes you.

I just wanted to meet someone who sparks up my soul, but she's still young and doing her own thing, I can't control that, I'd be insane to try. I just want to know her, and play my cards right.

A lot of girls on those sites are out for money. They play up to you, get close to you, then suddenly they have a crisis. Or they offer to do/show more but need money for it. I would really rethink this if I were you. I'm not saying thats what she's doing, but you don't know her from Adam, and even though she's really nice to you, that doesn't mean that this can't be a set up.

Please don't get any sort of emotions for the girls you meet on those sites. Thats a sure way to get hurt, broke, or both.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

that's exactly how I feel about it, still I'm just trying to get her out of my head.

It's hard when your on the edge of reality and fantasy to keep relationships, I long to meet the one; but I've been deluding myself with thoughts of one on a first impression.

It's probably best if you don't go back to that site then. If she's out after your money she knows exactly how to play you. Those girls are professional at it. As much fun as pretending it's real may be, if you can't seperate the fantasy from the reality and end up getting emotioally involved for real, then you shouldn't put yourself in that situation.

When you aren't getting the attention that you want it's very easy to fall for anything. Even if you know deep down that you're fooling yourself and it's not real, you'll gladly walk down that primrose path until the bitter end when you find out for sure that it's not real. Then that hurts, bad. And in your case you could be out some money too.

Try some legitimate sites to meet people. Maybe try meeting just friends right now and keep your mind open in case Miss Right (or even Miss Right Now) happens by. Just focus on making friends, with both guys and girls and if there's a spark with a girl, then pursue it.

Seriously dude, don't let yourself get hurt. Those girls know exactly how to work guys who come to that site. They can tell who is desperate for love and companionship and who is just there to get off and then go do something else. They go after the guys with the stars in their eyes, and there's a lot of them that go to those sites.

Focus on making friends right now, on a site that isn't in any way sexual or for meeting dates, etc. When you are relaxed and not expecting or hoping for more, you come across much better. Everybody does. You probably have a better chance of meeting a girl that way than on the sexual content sites.

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

time to be resilient I guess. ho-hum.

well, she's fallen into her old ways, doing drugs again. I can't love her if she's like that, but I can try to comfort her. What're friends for?

Yeah, you may not have a future with her, but at least you can try to support her emotionally. That's what true friends do

That's the plan; future aside I think she needs help right now.