can't get over ex girlfriend

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it is normal not to get over your ex. My gf left me back in 2007. I still wish she stay with me.
I think about her all time even 5 years later. I always think she is going to come back to me.
It hard for me to date another women because I always want another women just to be just like her.
I could had married her. I almost ask her too. I can't remember why I didn't.
She was the only women that really understood my personality.
to this day I wish I could have done more for her to stay with me.
any way any help well do. thanks

Well, you put someone on the pedestal from the sounds of things, and for the last 5 years as well. Get out and meet some new people would be the best advice. Meetup.com would be a good idea.

I don't think it's horribly uncommon or particularly common. It's unfortunate that we are not always the match for the individuals who we feel are the match for us, but there are many people in the world. Perhaps you will find another sufficiently like her, and who also feels you are the match for her.

Define "normal" and why worry about being "normal"???? There is nothing wrong with actually loving someone and really meaning it. When you REALLY love someone, that love never, ever dies. So, the only thing you are guilty of is having genuinely and truly loved this person - something rare in this day and age. And, seriously, how many people do we meet that truly understand us?? It's a rare and beautiful thing.

Have you tried contacting her? You could just see how she is doing. There's always a chance she feels the same way......

probably not the best way to, but I just started having sex with attractive girls and it got me over my ex!