09 Nov 2012, 5:07 am
DialAForAwesome
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09 Nov 2012, 10:30 am
I don't wanna play 'em! HEAD GAMES!
*guitar riff*
09 Nov 2012, 2:02 pm
09 Nov 2012, 2:06 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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09 Nov 2012, 2:58 pm
MXH
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09 Nov 2012, 3:01 pm
09 Nov 2012, 3:07 pm
Gotta' be a gender difference thing... men hate the games, women love 'em (generally speaking, of course.)
It makes me wonder how we ever manage successful relationships at all!
09 Nov 2012, 3:22 pm
Shatbat
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09 Nov 2012, 5:41 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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17 Nov 2012, 1:22 pm
On Thursday night I was chatting with M the nurse woman (the one who told me earlier she can't have a relationship because she might move soon bla bla - yet why she went out with me in the first place is another women-related enigma). So on 11:45 PM I've asked her out for a wine dinner (since she loves wine) - she said 'no, I am seeing more than dinner in that' (no kidding!), I was like "it's ok".
On the same time there was P, a young woman who have been chatting me on FB and trying to meet me for a week, she asked me for a meeting again on 11:46 pm just a 1 minute after M's no, after seeing P's message I've automatically said yes.
M went to sleep after that but on the next day we kept texting normally, during the the new message exchanges (and she was asking me if I am feeling alright) so I replied like "It's ok, I've got a date for tonight btw (with P).
She was like? "You're telling me that to let me know that you have a lot of admirers" - I was like "Well, you were my #1 option - change your mind and I would cancel the date now") - she replied me with some blushing emoticons without writing anything.
P turned out way better than I expected and will go out with her again tomorrow on sunday- when M asked me how the date went I was like "It was great! she's really attractive and cute!" and she was like "great news, good for you".
Best counter-rejection everrrr!! !! !! !! !! !!
17 Nov 2012, 3:03 pm
"So I finally asked her "Why the sudden change of heart after the date? if you're no longer interested just tell me and stop wasting my time" - she replied that she just sees me as a friend and nothing more."
Love this sentence, and especially the highlighted part. That's so me. I would say something like that too. But not a lot of people appreciate my forthcoming questions! 
17 Nov 2012, 7:45 pm
You go girl. You had perseverance and that is wonderful. I know it can be painful and many may have a very difficult time getting through so many people. But you hung in there. Happy for you
The_Face_of_Boo
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18 Nov 2012, 6:09 am
You go girl. You had perseverance and that is wonderful. I know it can be painful and many may have a very difficult time getting through so many people. But you hung in there. Happy for you
As smudge mentioned before, they become more and more less meaningful.
The_Face_of_Boo
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18 Nov 2012, 6:52 am
19 Nov 2012, 1:45 pm
P turned out way better than I expected and will go out with her again tomorrow on sunday- when M asked me how the date went I was like "It was great! she's really attractive and cute!" and she was like "great news, good for you".
Best counter-rejection everrrr!! !! !! !! !! !!
The one for you wants you back.
...So how did it go?
