What is your definition of an attractive person?

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09 Dec 2012, 12:34 am

Physically, I'm a sucker for taller women. Taller as in 5'8" or above, but preferably in the 6 foot range. Of course, she has to have at least shoulder-length hair but I'm attracted to women with longer hair, thick lips, a nice rack, sexy legs, and ripped abs. That's what initially attracts me to a woman. As far as personality goes, I don't care as long as she's not a bitchy sleezebag. No girl is ever going to be perfect.



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09 Dec 2012, 1:56 am

http://tympanogram.com/files/of-montreal.jpg

The clothes, the pose, the expression... priceless. 8O

Physically, his face isn't exactly what I usually think of as attractive. I like smaller chins and big, wide-set blue eyes, kind of a heart-shaped face.
But, often times personality or something comes through and I find guys really attractive even when they don't fit my "ideal" physically.



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09 Dec 2012, 7:58 pm

Dark eyes, babyish/prettyish face, a bit chubby, pale skin, dark or ginger hair (a Celtic look in other words), freckles



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09 Dec 2012, 8:08 pm

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I couldn't define it if I tried. I know it when I see it, and it's never the same twice. I am rarely attracted to "typical" good looks. It's pretty rare that I find any woman on TV or in movies attractive. Too much perfection in popular venues. I like an obvious imperfection here and there, but it depends on what it is and who it's on.

Personality is everything though. without that, the rest doesn't matter at all.

This might give you an idea of what I mean:

Out of the following image search in google, this is was the first face that jumped out at me. Image

Here's the search link:

https://www.google.com/search?q=women&a ... 0QGB74HQAg

See how far down it is on the page. Nothing above it jumped out saying "attractive" to me.
[img][800:1222]http://cdn04.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/witherspoon-avon/reese-witherspoon-avon-foundation-for-women-gala-05.jpg[/img]


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09 Dec 2012, 8:21 pm

theres many ways of being attracted to someone. And even the same person can be attractive and unattractive to me. I also have a varying degree of what i feel towards people im attracted to.



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09 Dec 2012, 9:21 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
MrXxx wrote:
I couldn't define it if I tried. I know it when I see it, and it's never the same twice. I am rarely attracted to "typical" good looks. It's pretty rare that I find any woman on TV or in movies attractive. Too much perfection in popular venues. I like an obvious imperfection here and there, but it depends on what it is and who it's on.

Personality is everything though. without that, the rest doesn't matter at all.

This might give you an idea of what I mean:

Out of the following image search in google, this is was the first face that jumped out at me. Image

Here's the search link:

https://www.google.com/search?q=women&a ... 0QGB74HQAg

See how far down it is on the page. Nothing above it jumped out saying "attractive" to me.
[img][800:1222]http://cdn04.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/witherspoon-avon/reese-witherspoon-avon-foundation-for-women-gala-05.jpg[/img]


Too much make up. :eew:


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09 Dec 2012, 10:07 pm

nessa238 wrote:
Dark eyes, babyish/prettyish face, a bit chubby, pale skin, dark or ginger hair (a Celtic look in other words), freckles


What if she doesn´t have pale skin or dark eyes?



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09 Dec 2012, 10:08 pm

Hyperlexian. ^_^


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09 Dec 2012, 11:31 pm

Yes, hyperlexian is adorable but taken. :P


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09 Dec 2012, 11:40 pm

It doesn't matter how pretty a girl is - unwarranted aggression, abusiveness, narcissism and selfishness (especially at the expense of others) is totally repulsive.

On to more positive things - good personality qualities will override many physical faults and create great long-term bonding.

I'll admit I do have an eye for certain favorite physical features, just like 99% of humans do... certain shapes, hairstyles, etc. that'll just get my heart rate up! :D
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10 Dec 2012, 2:13 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:
Yes, hyperlexian is adorable but taken. :P


A girl can dream, can't she? :P


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10 Dec 2012, 6:38 am

Cafeaulait wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Dark eyes, babyish/prettyish face, a bit chubby, pale skin, dark or ginger hair (a Celtic look in other words), freckles


What if she doesn´t have pale skin or dark eyes?


'She'? I'm female and was talking about what I find attractive in a male

Sometimes women look for prettiness as well as men

Those aren't a list of requirements in a partner, just things I find attractive

If I get to like a person enough they form a new 'type' that I like

It has surprised me how many of my partners/people Ive formed a bond with have been
Celtic though - either Irish or Welsh

A lad who took a shine to me while camping with family as a child and bought me a
friendship ring and wanted me to write but we lost his address - Welsh

Longest term boyfriend of 7 years - half Welsh

2 other boyfriends:-

Northern Irish

Half Irish

Current person I see - half Welsh

There seems to be a definite pattern there!



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10 Dec 2012, 7:02 am

I can't say.

I may see a girl and think, oh yeah she's cute, but that's it. I won't pursue her.

The only way I can find a woman truly attractive is if I get to know her and thusly become attracted to her personality.

My scale works as follows:

7 and up on a scale of 1-10 on personality, 4-6 or up on a scale of 1-10 on looks = 10/10 attraction.



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10 Dec 2012, 7:07 am

:oops: heeheehee thank you meems and DialAForAwesome!! ! you gave me a nice shock!! !


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10 Dec 2012, 7:10 am

Intelligence, uniqueness and they don't give a damn what anyone else thinks.

Physical Beauty is pretty low in my priorities if I can find someone I can relate to....it'd be a nice bonus though.


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10 Dec 2012, 7:45 pm

I'm not only looking for the physical appearance of a certain guy but I do consider also the inner qualities.