here what I find creepy

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men who can get women to sleep with them just like right a way. I not talking about men who go after ''loose'' women but men who can get ''relationship'' type women to bed in such a short time... It may sound weird but they freak me out. It's like being a cult leader, go up to some new person and talk to them for a few minutes and convince them to join the cult.

I seen men or read about these ''player'' men who can go up to any women, talk to them for a few minutes and the women are so willing to sleep with them. s**t, If I talk to a woman for 5 minutes, I pretty much bore them to sleep lol.

it sad when these men have hiv. I read about this one charming man who got 30 women to sleep with him and all got effect with hiv.
and Im not talking about rock stars or celebrity, these are just your average guy.

and if I talk to a women and after 5 minutes ask her to have sex. She probaly would freak out and call the cops.
it just super creepy to me.

it not about men getting a date with a women, it men who can get women to sleep with them in such a short time.

i have the opposite effects on women. They talk to me for 5 minutes and end up at the other side of the room

I highly doubt that these guys' methods of getting women into bed with them are ethical.

I mean, these are "relationship" type women who are seduced into doing things unlike them - namely, sleeping around. I would be VERY surprised if these women regretted their one-night stands less than half the time! So yes, this is creepy.

As a straight man, if a woman tried to get me into bed for a one-night stand, it would creep ME out more than anything else. Such a woman would probably have been in bed with so many guys that an STD becomes more likely than not...

I may not be able to engage the interest of the majority of women (around here at least), but at least I'm not trying to bed them.

It seems the women are also actively participating.

If someone wants to have sex within five minutes of meeting someone, they were likely already looking for sex, and this person just fit the bill so he scores, she scores, they both score. I don't think that's very creepy, but eh.

As for the spread of HIV, it is true that it's largely due to unprotected sex, both women and men should be aware of the necessary precautions to avoid STDs.

I couldn't imagine taking the risk of not using protection.

I know those type of guys, see them all the time, but their tricks never work on me because I picture all the women they must have taken to bed. But I see soooo many girls fall for it and later complain that those guys broke their heart or just used them for sex...but I'm like well, didn't you see that coming? It's the girl's fault too for following only her sexual attraction to the man instead of his overall quality as a person.

I hate those pick up artist people. How can someones life be so inane that they devote a large amount of time to having mindless sex with random people? How can sex even keep its meaning if such behaviors are practiced?

I know a friend that has looked into the PUA stuff and he showed me some hidden cam videos of guys like you are talking about picking up random girls. There are a large number of women that don't or wouldn't fall for this sort of thing. Even if a PUA has lots of succes perhaps it is because he knows who will turn him down and of course avoids those women.

^sex can have a completely different meaning to each person, for some it's just a recreational activity.

All fair in love and war.

Not everyone needs to have a deep emotional connection to enjoy sex.

I don't understand men that approach women with nothing but sex as the sole goal in mind. Frankly, men who do so aggravate me. They are the bain of those of us who have more in depth goals in mind, and cause so many women to believe that sex is all any of us ever really want. It is such an empty and ultimately unsatisfying goal. PUA artists really don't impress me. So you can have as much sex as you want? Big deal. That accomplishment isn't really all that impressive. You still have to get out there and play the game again over and over every time you want it.

Far more impressive is the ability to form a lasting relationship in which one doesn't have to play games at all, and satisfying not only sexually, but in many other ways no PUA will ever know.

Yeah, but PUA do more than have recreational sex. They literally have drills, they practice, set objectives and attend classes. I guess I am more weirded out by the process and dedication than having sex without the intention of a long term relationship.

The goal of which is?

Oh yeah! Recreational sex.

I'll agree the PUA stuff is obsessive/creepy/weird but casual sex in and of itself, I don't think that part is creepy.

Sex is never mindless in my opinion

You are connecting with another human being, even if only physically and touch is very important to humans - receiving skin to skin contact with another human being is important for peoples' mental health - this is why massage is so popular and why babies that aren't held or loved by their parents are severely affected psychologically.

In my opinion people focus a bit too much on the 'it must be a relationship or nothing' aspect of things. If you are single and haven't had sex in a while and feel low, sex, if only once with a person can be a major boost to your system. Sex can make you feel very alive and happy and should never be seen as an inane thing.

Whereas doing all the tedious 'relationship' stuff like going out for meals and to bars - that is the inane 'filler' stuff as far as I'm concerned.

That seems like an excuse to treat people like s**t and avoid any consequences.



True.