How can I get women to notice me?

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It would be good if you could try it in real world to gain some experience.

Theres many ways of bringing attention to yourself. The key is finding one that works for the person you are after. Like someone showed a picture of mystery, dressing like that will give you attention, but probably not much good one. Except for a select few. Flashy cars get other types. and so on... Need to find who you're going for first, then what is needed and of what is needed what works best for you

I always feel like my face is a turn off for women...

1. If your only interest is really surfing the internet, do not be surprised if you don't have a wonderful love life. You have to make an active effort, don't just sit around being nice and smart hoping things will work out for you. Go out more places and talk to more people. It can be done. I am a girl and I am famously, astonishingly, ridiculously shy and awkward, yet I have asked several different guys out. And usually been rejected. But that's a risk you take. It isn't impossible. Rejection hurts, but you need to be able to risk it and not take it personally.

2. Whether or not a guy has a fancy car or house doesn't make any difference as to whether or not I find him attractive.

3. Here are some things that usually make me interested in a man:

-Laughing at my jokes
-Being silly with me and not taking yourself too seriously
-Being witty. (However, if you're not witty and you try to be, this usually ends badly.)
-Appreciation of the whimsical-as in, willing to talk about stuff usually considered to be "for kids" or "too weird". Likes stuff like cute baby animals
-Cuddly
-Genuine and honest
-Crucially-complimenting me about something that isn't obvious or cliched will usually make my week. For example, I have ridiculously massive boobs. I know this and I hear it all the time. Therefore, while compliments about my boobs are better than nothing at all, it does get a bit boring. I'm also rather smart, and it's obvious so I hear that all the time. So when people compliment me about being smart, I still appreciate it, but what really makes me happy is when people compliment me on things that aren't so obvious or blatant.
-Also, I don't tend to like it when someone asks me out straight away. It brings a bit too much pressure. Keep things light and casual for a bit.

Skip the clown s**t, that's for attracting losers. Read this:

http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

well done, JBlitzen! i read that article too, and it is really the best advice aout there. sacrip was basically saying some of the same stuff

Inspiring my ass. That article shows everything that's wrong with society. People are more than the sum of their parts contrary to what the more shallow would like to believe.

It's bad in that it's saying those things are all a person is worth, or that everything in life has to be some kind of transaction. I would have no respect for myself if I judged people in that way and threw out anybody who I wasn't using for something I needed. That's disgusting.

So you're all for objectification of people so long as it's not specifically seeing women as sex objects? Why is it not ok for those like me to expect a relationship or sex, when apparently it's ok to look at others as ways to go about fulfilling your own selfish needs? It's unfortunate that double standards like these still exist.

The thing is, in the world as it is now, there should not be any "needs". That's what people had back when there was not enough to go around, when people were conquering countries or taking different parts of the world for themselves and struggling to survive. If there were not so many greedy people nowadays, I doubt that there would be people going without. What would people do then, without any "needs" having to be met? How would an article like this have any significance?

People shouldn't have needs or desires? What a passionless existence you must crave...